I am warming your Xiyan with words, click the blue button above to follow me. When I first watched "Parents' Love", I always felt that An Jie was at a loss for marrying Jiang Defu, but after watching it, I realized that An Jie was the real big winner. An Jie is a smart woman. She

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When I first watched "Parents' Love", I always felt that An Jie was at a disadvantage in marrying Jiang Defu, but after watching it, I realized that An Jie was the real big winner.

Anjie is a smart woman, she knows what kind of man is suitable for her, and also knows what kind of marriage she wants, so she is destined to marry well.

If you want to meet the right person and choose the right marriage, then you must learn these characteristics of Anjie. I believe that every woman can manage her relationship well and have the happiness she wants.

has its own selection criteria

I believe that many married women will tell you that compared with external things such as appearance and figure, internal things such as quality, three views, ability and so on are the most important.

Just like An Jie, she didn't dislike Jiang Defu because of his lack of education, old age, etc., but comprehensively considered many aspects and saw Jiang Defu's advantages, so she decided to marry him.

Subsequent facts also proved that Anjie's consideration was very correct. Although Jiang Defu's education level is not high, he is very sensible and never machismo, so he has always respected An Jie and kept her in a girlish state for so many years.

Think about it, if An Jie marries another man, she may be angry for the rest of her life because of her native family problems, or she may live a hard life like her sister.

Although happiness is accidental, it is really important to be able to choose someone who suits you. And this also requires you to know what you want and have your own selection criteria.

I believe that every woman has her own standards, and she can be as happy as Anjie.

know how to be content

I always think that the reason why Anjie can be so happy is because she is very clear-headed, knows exactly what she wants and what is suitable for her.

Therefore, for so many years, although she has lived some hard times with Jiang Defu that she never thought of, she can always enjoy the hardships without complaining.

In fact, whether you can be happy in life mainly depends on your own inner feelings. When you think you are happy, you will be happy, but if you think you are unhappy, then you will naturally not be happy either.

Don't rush into a marriage, but once you choose, don't hesitate and regret it.

Happiness has no fixed pattern, only a contented woman can be happy forever.

has a stable kernel

Anjie, the reason why this woman can live a happy life is really not just good luck, but she has a stable enough kernel.

At the beginning, her personal conditions were better than Jiang Defu's, but after she chose Jiang Defu, she no longer blindly found faults because of this gap.

Later, she found out that Jiang Defu had been implicated, but he didn't feel sorry for himself because of it, nor did he long for love because of it.

Such a woman always knows what she should do and what she wants, and she can always use appropriate methods to ensure her own happiness. This is actually the essence of Anjie's happiness.

You see, for so many years, no matter how difficult the environment is, she has made her little life enjoyable. Although Jiang Defu sometimes dislikes it, he must enjoy it in his heart.

So, to be a woman like Anjie, with a strong heart and stable emotions, you will be happy.

Willing to give equally

In marriage, giving must be equal, one cannot keep working hard while the other stands still.

Although An Jie is a charming lady, after being with Jiang Defu, he is willing to wash his hands and make soup for her. He also gave birth to several children for him, making their little life very enjoyable.

These sacrifices and efforts are actually the key to Jiang Defu's willingness to love and protect Anjie for the rest of his life.

Of course, what touched me the most was that Jiang Defu might face the punishment of going back home to work in farming in order to marry An Jie. An Jie also did not hesitate and was willing to go back with him. How could such a woman be unhappy?

Women, don't always think about asking others to give you in your relationship. You have to know that giving is mutual. Only when two people are willing to give up something for each other can your relationship get better and better. Only when you are both willing to work hard for each other will your happiness be more solid.

will provide emotional value

Men, they all like women who are fresh and understand themselves. I think this is why Jiang Defu's comrade-in-arms Lao Ding has always wanted to marry an educated woman.

Don't look at An Jie as a little squeamish, but she really knows how to provide Jiang Defu with emotional value. Simply put, she has a great interest in life.

When it should be weak, An Jie is weak, which makes Jiang Defu feel bad. When it should be strong, An Jie is also strong, making Jiang Defu feel at ease.

Such a changeable woman gave Jiang Defu infinite freshness. No matter what kind of environment An Jie is in, he must make his life full of ritual, which also makes Jiang Defu feel a different kind of happiness.

In fact, the emotional value that men want is more diverse and complex, so what women can do is to make their lives better and better, so that men can't do without you.

You have to know that although it is not easy to be such a woman, you will definitely be very happy.

Anjie's happiness is doomed, because a woman like her will be happy no matter what kind of man she marries.

She knows what she wants, she has clear goals, she knows how to manage her relationship well, she can give the other party enough emotional value, she can control her own life, and she won't feel wronged or entangled. ． ． ． ． ． These are all guarantees for a better and better marriage.

It is actually not difficult to be a happy woman and have a happy marriage. Learn from Anjie, possess and practice all these qualities one by one, I believe you will be able to.

I am Xiyan, the columnist, an older girl who is neither old nor old. I like to write warm words and do emotional programs. I have published "The rest of your life is related to me". If you have a story, remember to come to me.