He Fei is from Yibin City, Sichuan Province. According to him, his family's conditions are very poor.
Their family lives in the kind of house where people live above and animals live below. It’s okay in winter, but in summer, when the climate is warm, not to mention all kinds of flavors.
He joked that the smell of is very refreshing. When I was taking the postgraduate entrance examination, I was studying at home, and it was difficult to fall asleep when I smelled this smell.
He graduated from Sichuan Normal University with a master's degree, and went to a county in western Guizhou for the civil servant exam, where he worked for 5 years.
He later recalled that they usually have nothing to do, and the busiest thing every year is to deal with various inspections at the end of the year, and the leaders lead everyone to do all kinds of data and accounts that do not exist at all.
He really couldn't bear this blatant and deceitful work style. During the meeting, he once raised doubts and reported it to the higher authorities, but there was no news. Because of this,
was criticized by the leaders, young people are too immature, too unstable, too childish.
may be ashamed of the integrity in his heart, or he may feel the helplessness and sadness of people's slight words. After 5 years, he decided to take a doctorate and leave there.
His story begins here.
The vacation after being admitted to the doctorate was very sweet.
His ability is really strong. During the day, he would do nothing with his colleagues in the office. At night, he would go back to review the exam. He was admitted to a prestigious 985 school for the first time, and his major was still very difficult to understand. Western classical philosophy ". During the
interview, he was the only one who understood the assessment teacher's German questions. He answered a few sentences in German. Although he was not fluent, he won the approval of the instructors.
then completed the resignation procedures, withdrew the provident fund, and began to enjoy the most relaxing vacation before studying for a doctorate.
was hanging out and chatting in various online forums, and then met a girl.
The distance in the online world is sometimes very far, sometimes very close, and sometimes it is easy to confuse people.
When the two chatted, they were both from the same county below Panzhihua.
two people added Qiuqiu to each other, video chatting, the boy is very handsome, and the girl is also very good-looking. The
young man is very excited. The girl knows so much about him, but she is also from the West. She admires him very much. After graduating from high school, she went to Dongguan .
So the two met in Dongguan 10 days before school started in September.
Dongguan was the most prosperous at that time, and when the number of migrant workers was the most, the young man was walking on the streets of Dongguan, as if he saw a completely different world. Girl
held his hand, thinking that she had a boyfriend who was about to study for a Ph. D., the ecstasy in her heart turned into sweetness and pride on her face.
The two spent 10 days sweetly in the rental house, He Fei left Dongguan, crossed the Yangtze River went to study for a Ph.
Half a year later, they got married and got married.
, the doctor's boyfriend, is the girl's first love. Regardless of how thin and weak he is, he has a very strong personality. There is an inappropriate way of saying that the girl may have thought from the very beginning that she wanted to stay with this doctor's boyfriend for the rest of her life.
Once she has decided, it will be difficult to look back, and it will be even harder to wake up.
Once a person has something to look forward to, life is full of hope.
used to save part of the money she earned every month, but now she sends the rest of the money across half of China to her boyfriend.
told him not to be too economical in school and take good care of himself.
He Fei is also very satisfied with the girl. In front of everyone, he often praises her for being beautiful and earning money. If she is not a PhD student, he will marry her right away.
didn't expect him to actually do that.
During the winter vacation of his first semester of Ph.D., the two families sat together to discuss their lifelong affairs, and they got their certificates before the Spring Festival.
They met in July and got married at the end of the year. It was exactly 6 months from the time I realized I was in love to when I got married.
Only his mentor didn't send blessings, and even scolded him
When he came to school after the Spring Festival, he brought his wife to entertain everyone, what else can we do now? They are friends who usually play well together.
bless you.
remembers that there were a few young girls who called their sisters "sister-in-laws" at that time, and said very naively, I heard that your Sichuan sisters can drink very much, sister-in-law is not polite today.
As a result, my sister-in-law is fine, and my little brother has already drunk.
Then he hosted a banquet for their brothers and mentors from the same school, and his wife gave them a big red envelope, wishing them happiness.
After his daughter-in-law went south to Dongguan, the instructor called him home and scolded him severely.
He said that the most ruthless thing the tutor said at the time was not complaining that he was getting married and delaying his studies, but:
"Don't blame me for not reminding you, I don't like your marriage at all, and you will regret it in the future."
He learned from the tutor After leaving home, I was still a little angry. Why is this teacher like this? Didn’t he say that he would rather demolish ten temples than destroy a family?
The two started a life separated in two places, the girl is still very sweet, he holds German documents every day, feeling very tired and boring.
couldn't take it anymore, so he went to Dongguan to live for a few days, and came back feeling refreshed.
envied us all at that time, seeing how nourishing the doctor's life is.
Little Junior Sister appeared
His life is in Dongguan other than school. We joked that the couple may be the farthest "two points and one line" life.
But the major of "Western Classical Philosophy" is not so easy, and I don't understand a lot of knowledge. It is obviously impossible for his wife who graduated from high school to help him.
is the same door, everyone is very busy, and for a while he was very anxious about it.
At this moment, a junior junior sister appeared.
When he was in the second year of his Ph.D., a new junior sister came and fell in love with him at first sight. Among the many doctoral students, many of them either lose a lot of hair early, or their body develops horizontally ahead of time, and they are haggard all day long.
Only he has thick eyebrows and big eyes, a burly figure, good facial features, thick hair, and has been running for a long time. He has an excellent figure and a very handsome posture for playing basketball.
The little junior sister was so fascinated by him that she didn't think about tea or food, and went around this senior brother every day. The key is that this young junior sister graduated from Humboldt University in Berlin, Germany, and her German is very good.
The two "take what they need", from discussing German learning, to philosophical issues, and finally caring about each other's life. Senior
is right, young people tend to lose control.
The farthest you are no longer my recent love
The junior sister who likes to be together every day, the daughter-in-law who is far away in Dongguan is naturally left out.
Is this man "scumbag"?
He is not stupid, he handles the relationship with the two women very smartly.
During the summer vacation of the second grade, the little junior sister who grew up abroad was full of curiosity about domestic affairs, and wanted to go to teach and let him accompany her.
He told his wife that he would go to other places for academic exchanges with his tutor during the holidays, and he could not go to Dongguan, should he come to see him.
He really liked his wife that day and actually believed it. How did
finally reveal his secrets? When
was teaching, this guy didn’t know that he really loved the children in the mountains, or he just had nowhere to vent, and devoted himself to work. On the way to take the children home, he was washed into the river by the flood, and finally got caught by the branches Only clothes are saved.
This is all right, he became famous all of a sudden, the school posted his deeds of teaching support on the official website, and his wife saw it, and was very moved.
At the same time, a woman's natural sensitivity made her realize that her husband had an unusual relationship with a girl in the supporting teaching team, that is, a few group photos of the supporting teaching team, and the younger sister's eyes were wrong.
I have diabetes and liver disease , let’s get divorced
He Fei’s sudden appearance in Dongguan surprised my wife, so I didn’t say anything in advance. Is it a surprise?
It's a pity that it's not a surprise, but a fright.
He Fei took out a bunch of test reports, sorry to say that he has diabetes and hepatitis, let's get a divorce.
His daughter-in-law looked at the contents of the test report, and at the red stamp stamped by the hospital, her heart broke down, but she still didn't believe it.
The main reason is that she didn't want to believe it. She originally thought that this man was going to apologize to him, but she didn't expect it to be a divorce, and she came up with such a low-level reason.
cries, argues, and leaves.
His daughter-in-law kept an eye out, quietly stitching together these torn test reports, and secretly went to the city where He Fei was, and found the hospital for verification. The people at the
hospital said it was all true.
crashed, what should I do?
She secretly went to the school where her husband was studying for a doctorate, and she saw her husband and junior sister together.
is quarreling again. She would rather believe that her husband was unfaithful than the medical report of the hospital. After
calmed down, the war between the two women started again.
his disease, you know?
knows, I will take him to Germany in the future, my parents are there, he can be cured, sister-in-law, you can’t.
what can't I? I can buy a house in my hometown to treat his illness.
If you still can't cure it, you will go bankrupt, what will you do in the future?
She thinks this child is too naive and doesn't bother to talk to her.
The mentor came forward to coordinate, the man's helplessness
No matter who it is, it is not reconciled to this situation. His wife found a mentor, hoping to bring her husband back to her. Instructor
looked at the medical report and felt very uncomfortable. First appease her, and assure him that he will give her an explanation.
sent his student’s daughter-in-law away, the tutor called him and his younger junior sister home, just as the younger junior sister was about to defend himself, the tutor immediately became angry:
"Stop talking nonsense, let alone Germany, who in the world can cure diabetes and liver disease Well, I won the Nobel Prize a long time ago."
The junior sister was very aggrieved, and bought a large pack of "Pen Tze Huang" from Hong Kong. This thing cost more than 600 yuan per box, this junior sister is cruel enough.
After a dinner party, the instructor left him alone, and the teachers and students had a chat. When did
know about these diseases?
had it before, and he has been taking medicine to control it. It was fine a few years ago, and he thought it was getting better, but now it is serious again.
I used to worry that the educational gap between you and your lover is too big, and there will be conflicts in the future. I didn't expect this kind of thing to happen. You don't want to drag her down, so there should be an explanation.
He said he would, and he wouldn't delay my junior sister.
The tutor looked at him and let out a long sigh, and stopped talking. Before
left, his mentor gave him 2,000 yuan to treat his illness. When he walked out of his mentor's house, he almost cried.
Before the Spring Festival, under the scolding of his father-in-law and his mother-in-law, he and his wife went to get divorce certificate, one year before and after.
After school started, he sent all the tens of thousands of yuan that his wife had sent her back at once, called to apologize, ignored his wife's crying, hung up the phone, and blocked all contact information.
Junior sister's parents show up, tear face apart and fall out
This matter is not as simple as love, now the key is to cure the disease.
The younger junior sister contacted her parents in Germany, but she was scolded so badly that she came back directly from abroad. Is
stupid? How can this disease be cured 100%?
either broke up, or stopped studying as a graduate student, and took her back to Germany directly.
What do you think this man does?
In the high-end hotel where his junior sister entertained his mentor, the tutor and his wife, his junior sister and him, and his parents, this guy said with a smile,
He didn’t fall in love with his junior sister at all, they were just from the same family , Of course, I am very grateful to my junior sister for her help and care.
The younger junior sister was stunned, her parents felt it was too embarrassing, and the tutor was a little surprised.
Eating a meal was extremely embarrassing. If it wasn't for various reasons, someone would probably start a fight.
The younger sister's parents left angrily the next day. After calming down, they contacted the tutor and asked the tutor to take good care of them. The younger junior sister was knocked into a trance. Fortunately, the teacher's wife retired, so she would ask the younger junior sister to chat at home every now and then.
But the effect is very poor. When He Fei was in the third year of Ph.D.My younger sister was picked up by her parents and went to Germany, and she hated He Fei so much that she gritted her teeth.
At the mentor's house, the already skinny He Fei cried like a child. I don't know if it's because he apologized too much to the people who liked him, or because he was helpless and helpless about the disease. The
instructor saw that his mental state was poor, so he asked him to go home and rest for a while.
Meeting love again, life is full of surprises
Back home, a neighbor introduced him to a folk doctor, who heard that the treatment of this kind of disease is very powerful, so he went to try it.
is more than 100 kilometers away from his home, next to a tertiary institution, the doctor advised him not to toss back and forth, rent a house and focus on medical treatment.
Many people in the village rent their houses to people who come to see the doctor. He rents a room and eats in the university cafeteria.
After a month, his condition began to improve, and he could play basketball again, play with college students, and his physical strength could keep up.
That school happened to be in short supply of Western philosophy teachers, and he was able to substitute for them. The fee was not much, and it was better than nothing.
During this substitute class period, communicated more and more with a female teacher who had just started work. They were the only two majoring in Western philosophy in the whole school, so naturally they had more common topics.
He Fei told her that he was sick and could not be together.
The female teacher said that her parents both have diabetes, but she doesn't have it now, and no one knows if she will have it in the future. As long as he doesn't mind, I firmly support it.
also found the doctor to understand the situation. Diabetes and liver disease are indeed difficult to cure, but they can be effectively controlled.
The most important thing is that the cost is not as expensive as that of a big hospital. They are all local Chinese herbal medicines, and the price is very low. The female teacher
was overjoyed, this love is stable.
the last and the last
The story behind is simple. Before graduation, they got a marriage certificate, and then went to school to attend the graduation ceremony together. After graduating from Dr. He Fei, he went to work in that tertiary institution for love.
Looking at the photos he posted in Moments, the child can already walk.
was at a class reunion and chatted about the German Junior Sisters. He said that he also contacted them later, apologized to them, and returned the more than 100,000 yuan of "Pen Tze Huang" expenses back then.
didn't expect that the little junior sister had come out of the original emotion, and understood his good intentions, and said generously:
"Senior brother, I don't need to pay back the money, I'm doing good deeds to help the poor, hehe! "
This little junior sister is very angry, this man is also okay, right?
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