Yesterday, Sun Li posted a long post on Weibo to celebrate his son's 10th birthday. Not only did he customize the same cake for his 10th birthday that year, he even posted a photo of his 10-year-old childhood.
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In the 10 years since she became a mother, Sun Li has gone from a clever little girl to an omnipotent mother.
In order to understand the growth and development of her children, she took the initiative to study various parenting psychology books; in order to set a good example for her children, she took the initiative to draw and learn English; in order to let her children love life, even if she traveled with big bags, she did not feel burdened ……
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Compared with the perceptual and attentive Sun Li, Deng Chao’s comments have inherited the usual "Deng three-year-old" style. Netizens said one after another: How do you feel that Deng Chao is like a child where Sun Li is there, and he will never grow up.
01 After getting married, I got an extra "son"
Actually, only women really grow up quickly in marriage.
I still remember not long ago, Deng Chao went into trouble again, his mother and grandson sent a Weibo:
took time out of his busy schedule and made an appointment for a medical examination for his husband, but he only remembered the word "gynecology" throughout the process;
didn’t know. Locally, as long as you move your mouth and ask one more thing, people say "I won't".
Sure enough, 10 years of marriage, this is Deng Chao's "true face."
Unsurprisingly, the comment area exploded, and 105,000 people liked it: "He has no mouth."
Many people began to feel distressed about their mothers: is too hard, plus wait and flowers, and I have to bring three babies.
Coincidentally, two days ago, the world champion Li Na also revealed in the interview:
"I feel like I have three children."
. During the epidemic, the whole family stayed together for 24 hours. She was busy cooking together. In the living room, the two children are always "mother and mother", calling one after another.
She has no skills and wants to be three-headed and six-armed, but her husband Jiang Shan is sitting on the sofa with Erlang's legs up and playing with her mobile phone.
While rejoicing that she put down the knife before she came out, she patiently reminded Jiang Shan: "There are some things that mom can help, but dad can also help."
Jiang Shan especially calmly raised his head and said: "" Mother's words."
Then, there is no more.
Seeing this scene, netizens have a deep understanding: true, together with the husband, and raised three children at the same time.
Some people still sigh: how many gentle women before marriage are forced to become vixens by widowhood.
More and more women find that marriage is the most thorough facelift for themselves.
The small public meeting before marriage, the old mother after marriage, two completely different faces.
The so-called white head grows old together, the white head is your head, and the white head is your labor.
and the man who vowed to spoil you as a childPeople, however, took the lead in turning themselves into babies, hiding in an adult's skin, asking for it, and didn't want to grow up.
Two people's home, one to work.
This is the shackles of women, but it is the refuge for men with giant babies.
02 Behind every Superman mother, there is a giant baby father
Wu Zhihong said that 90% of our love and pain are related to giant baby psychology . This giant baby psychology has three characteristics:
symbiosis psychology: as an adult, but has no independent survival ability. What can't you do? Tasty and lazy to be the first place.
Almighty narcissism: thinks that he is the center of the universe, and he is right in everything.
Psychological paranoia split: only knows to ask for not paying, if you like it, you must get it, if you get it, you must control it, and if you don't get it, you just want to destroy it.
They are selfish and indifferent, sacrificing others, and fulfilling themselves;
, they are arrogant and cowardly, and they are as arrogant as they are in the outside world;
they are inferior and arrogant, they dare not confront head-on, incompetent but want to do whatever they want.
Xu Huanshan in "Thirty Only" is such a giant baby who has not grown up.
He is very talented and has a dream of fireworks since college, and Gu Jia is his fan girl. He is like a prince, indulged in a dream wrapped in worship and obsession.
Starting a fireworks company was Gu Jia's idea, and it was also planned by Gu Jia. When Gu Jia was busy, he was just doing his own design.
He is full of ideals and feelings. He can get furious because his design is not appreciated. He will miss big orders because of his personal emotions giving the company's biggest customer a face.
He is eager to be recognized, but he refuses to admit that his abilities are limited; while enjoying the happiness brought by wealth, he escapes the difficulties of life.
However, Gu Jia seems to be tireless, carrying her baby and taking care of the bills.
But when Gu Jia lowered her body and lost her self-esteem, she tried her best to sneak into the circle of your wife and sign a big order to bring the company back to life. What did Xu Huanshan do?
He looked down on Gu Jia's way of pulling the list, saying that she was vanity. All he cared about was that he signed the list before his design could be presented.
even derailed in the end, also complained because Gu Jia regarded him as the "eldest son."
It is true that it was Gu Jia's over-organization and dedication, and made Xu Huanshan's 3zzz become "baby" comfortable in his own world. , But it is precisely because she understands the nature of Xu Huanshan's giant baby that she will take the initiative.
She became a Superman, just trying to keep Xu Huanshan's ideals.
Unfortunately, Xu Huanshan never understood.
Douban has a very popular post: If you had the opportunity to meet your 17-year-old mother, what would you do?
all answer is sad: wants to tell her, don't find my dad.
"What happened to her? A patriarchal in-laws, a husband who doesn't know how to be considerate, doesn't know how to be a father, and quarrels at every turn."
"All housework is handled by the mother, and only the TV remote is controlled by the father. ……"
What kind of kind is to marry a giant baby boyExperience?
"Never expect him to be a man. He will hold the authority of his parents, while despising you, and drinking all your blood." A marriage like
is a disaster in itself.
03 giant baby boy, a nightmare for the whole family
last June, a news shocked everyone.
A 29-year-old father personally threw his 1-year-old son from the 6th floor.
and the reason is that the child’s grandmother complained about two sentences:
, "You are a third-level person. If you don't earn money, you can't get it out of any time."
"All the expenses in the family are our money. What's the use if you can't make money anymore." After
threw the child down, he turned out the window himself, and was torn off by the rushing grandpa.
The whole thing happened in an instant, and the child did not even have time to let out a cry.
This frenzied father had been married for two years and changed several jobs, but he couldn't do well. The child's mother also ran away from home because of a fight ten days before the incident.
basically all the expenses at home come from grandparents, he does not bring the baby when he goes home, "come back is playing cell phone." Staying frustrated, killing children if they don't agree with each other, this is a giant baby through and through.
He not only destroyed himself, but also the whole family.
Remember the Su Daqiang in "Everything is Good"?
Many people think that his selfishness, greed, and perverted temper are caused by the strength and oppression of Su's mother for decades, but in fact, his inaction in the family is not behind him? There is a scene in
in which Mingcheng was seriously injured and went to jail. As a father, Su Daqiang not only showed no mercy to the injured Mingyu, he even ignored Mingcheng's imprisonment.
came to his family's house and persuaded him to intercede with Mingyu. In order to escape, he forced Mingzhe to buy him a house and move out.
For their own benefit, even their children can sacrifice at any time. Such a person is not a giant baby.
Look at the three children again, Mingzhe, who is filial and cowardly, always indistinct, selfish and violent, is also the Mingcheng of giant infants, and Mingyu, who has always been discriminated against and left out, and who has been hurt.
Invisible father, anxious mother, out-of-control child, this is the worst family combination.
Not to mention, because he was accustomed to dependence, after his wife passed away, Su Daqiang attached his life to the child, tossing hard, making several families miserable.
A giant baby boy is a nightmare for the whole family. He destroys far more than one generation.
04 Husband’s actions determine the temperature of marriage
Not long ago, 45-year-old Mei Ting accepted an interview with the program "Thirty Women".
As an elderly second-born mother, years seem to have left little marks on her, she is still beautiful and elegant.
Speaking of the growth of himself and his children, the happiness between his eyes cannot be hidden. Mei Ting, like
, is almost forgotten. She was also embarrassed in a failed marriage.
Her first husband, Yan Po, was just a white-collar worker with a director’s dream before marriage. In order to support him after marriage, Mei Ting personally made investments and volunteered to play the heroine, so as to save his savings.
zIt's a pity for 1z that the box office was bleak, the money was lost, and the lives of the two of them were struggling.
On the other hand, An Ran enjoys the Yan Po that Mei Ting has paid, but has frequently reported scandals with different women.
more and more conflicts, the two eventually parted ways.
In this relationship, Mei Ting has done everything but a mess.
Fortunately, she later met Zeng Jian. This time, she was spoiled as a child.
soon after giving birth to her second child, she participated in a parent-child variety show, but was ridiculed by the group because "would not be a mother" .
breast-feeding her son, she didn’t even know it when she choked, still stuffing the pacifier
cooking, I don’t know how much water should be put in the rice, the cut potato shreds are thicker than the fingers...
she frankly said that she has never done housework at home because she has never done housework. Zeng Jian made these as , and sometimes she wanted to help wash the dishes, but she was refused.
Even if the child cried at night, Zeng Jian was also the fastest one, just to let her sleep well.
She ridiculed herself as a "waste person", but she couldn't help being proud: "My fate is very good, right?" Although
was spoiled as a "giant baby", instead of spoiling her, her husband did not spoil her. She "awakened" her pet, because "he is so good, and I want to become better."
She took the baby while exercising, she lost 30 pounds in two months, and quickly returned to work. With the subsequent stunning appearance in "Sound on the Scene".
Marriage is not a single fight alone, but a mutual fulfillment of two people.
A good partner can make you love yourself more day by day;
A good marriage can make you fall in love with each other again and again.
A few days ago, Wu Jing's marriage view was on the hot search. In an interview with "Happy Trio", he said:
should not let the other half lose himself and revolve around him, the family needs to be shared by two people;
The standard for a good husband is tolerance, a wife’s follower, and respect;
What you want, not what you want to give to each other.
turns out this is the secret of a happy marriage:
you can be a child, but you must know how to take it;
you can be a superman, but occasionally you have to learn to show weakness.
On a calm day, nest in the arms of a lover, and become a child with peace of mind;
When the storm comes, hold each other's hands tightly and run hard together.
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