Recently, I watched a movie called "Friendship Above".
This is a very sad and real movie. The
film tells that boys have liked girls since high school, but because of their friendship, they never confessed.
waited for girls for 10 years, and finally reaped love when the girls met the cheating man.
In reality, many people are in this dilemma.
wants to be a lover but dare not take this step, just being a friend is not reconciled.
The relationship between lovers who are not satisfied or above friendship afflicts many secret crushes in the name of "friends".
But how many people can have a happy ending like a movie.
Friends are unwilling, love is extravagant.
is probably just not suitable for us.
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has a relationship called: I know you like me, but we can only be friends.
In recent years, a very popular term is called: "good person card"
"good person card" is a title that a person is forced to accept after being rejected.
"You are a good person, but we can't be together"
This is a typical representative of the "good person card" and the original source of the "good person card".
It expresses the kindness of the rejecters, and also the helplessness of the rejected.
Many times, it's not that you are not good enough, but we are not suitable from the beginning.
Not long ago, my friend said to me:
"I have a good friend who confessed to me, but I just want to be friends with him.
I know that he has always liked me, and others are really good.
does Friends are very suitable, but it’s a bit inappropriate to be a lover." The sentence
has crushed many people:
"I know you like me, but we can only be friends"
People who are liked actually know. Someone likes him.
just doesn't want to pierce this relationship.
She told me that knowing someone from the first sight determines whether he will be my friend or lover.
There may be many people who don't believe in the eye.
But at the beginning of most love affair, it is the eyesight. There is a relationship between
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: We like each other, but we dare not admit it.
In the movie "Predecessor Strategy 1", Meng Yun and Rosie have known each other for 14 years, starting from the early days of university entrepreneurship and achieving success in their careers.
They have been cuddling each other for 14 years under the name of "friends", and they have gone through different periods of hardship and happiness together.
Similarly, Rosie also likes Meng Yun for 14 years. At Rosie’s wedding of
, Rosie would like to ask Meng Yun a word:
"Have you ever loved me?"
hasn't come yet, Meng The cloud said:
"loved"
, why dare not to confess?
Rosie responded with this sentence: "In case you don't like me, can we not even be friends?"
We dare not confess, not because we are timid and afraid, but because we are afraid to bear the confession failure. s pain.
Because we all know:
"Once you cross the line, there is no chance to look back"
I am afraid of failure, and I am afraid of losing you.
Compared with taking risks, I enjoy the current sense of security more.
Lin Youjia’s "Waste" song sings:
"It's okay, you don't need to give me a chance, anyway, I still have a life to waste
, even if I try hard to fall in love with someone, in the end, it is not as good as
, and I will always be happy with you. "
Being a friend is much safer than being a lover.
Don't be afraid of breaking up, don't be afraid of breaking up. There is an explanation for
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: Don’t be friends, just because you don’t want to lose you.
There is a line in the movie "Above Friendship" which is very heart-warming:
"You are too important to me, I don't want to risk losing you"
meI had a crush on a girl before, and this crush lasted for 3 years.
We are chatting every day, and we often go out to play, the relationship has always been in an ambiguous stage.
But we have not made any substantial progress in the past three years.
She knows I like her, but she doesn't want to expose it. After
, I gave up altogether, only planning to be friends with her.
Later, I made a girlfriend and never looked for her again.
Similarly, she is also very conscious and does not come to me.
Until I broke up with the incumbent, she came over and told me:
"I hope you will always be my good friend"
When I heard this sentence, I did not feel very comforted, but very angry.
She wasted three years of my time because she didn't want to lose me.
In the past three years, my joys, anger, sorrow, and joy have gathered in her, just one sentence just wanting to be friends with me has made me fall into the deep valley. There is a line in
movie "Friendship and above":
"You just rely on me to love you and do whatever you want with me"
The person who is loved can be so confident.
Actually, compared to you hanging me.
I hope you can express your opinion more and I will accept it.
so that we can be good friends logically.
I can also like another person for granted.
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I don’t believe in pure friendship between men and women.
At least, I don't believe in friendships like glue.
likes a person, you must show as soon as possible:
I like you and don't want to be friends with you. Even if
is rejected, you will feel relieved more quickly. The longer
drags on, the harder it is to take this step and the more painful it will be.
doesn't like that person, so you have to express your opinion as soon as possible:
I just want to be friends with you.
Everyone wants to have the feeling of being liked and loved by others.
But this is selfish, because you waste other people's feelings and time without getting their consent.
To satisfy one's selfish desires is obtained at the expense of another.
This satisfaction is a white rose with blood.
In feelings, I prefer pure love and friendship without impurities.
So I hope:
"The person you like doesn't just want to be friends with you"
I hope everyone who longs for love can have pure love.
Wish you happiness in the future.
