"My Girl" recently aired, and Liu Yan once again became the center of attention!
But this time, it was not the rumors from the outside world that pushed her to the forefront, but the mother to whom she was always grateful and respected.
When it comes to Liu Yan, most people's first reaction is often her sexy and charming image.
Her graceful figure, charming face, bold outfits...
Those so-called "friends in the circle" wantonly made vulgar jokes about her figure. Since
’s debut, Liu Yan has been struggling in the whirlpool of prejudice and slander.
Mentioning all the injustices and grievances he suffered in the past, Liu Yan's eyes revealed firmness and unyieldingness.
Those rude offenses and wanton teasing never knocked her down.
But who would have thought that this woman who stood firm in the wind and rain of the outside world would be suppressed to the point of suffocation by the ruthless pua of her biological mother.
The mother even said bluntly: "She is already at this age, and she can only find an old man to marry."
Liu Yan was born in an ordinary family in Hengyang, Hunan in 1980. As a child who was born too late, his family was fined 250 yuan when he was born, and even once He didn't have a name, so his father joked that he would just call him "Two Hundred and Five".
In 1990, 10-year-old Liu Yan followed her parents to study in Guangzhou. Liu Yan had an older brother who was a few years older. Despite the patriarchal culture, she was sensible and well-behaved. The first thing she did after school every day was to cook for her brother.
Liu Yan, who grew up in a traditional environment, has very traditional ideas. She believes that a good way out is for girls to become teachers or medical workers.
In 1997, after graduating from health school, 17-year-old Liu Yan became a nurse in a military hospital in Guangzhou as she wished. She was in a big city and a good unit. At that time, she was full of hope.
However, fate is unpredictable. During a physical examination, her mother was diagnosed with rectal cancer. The surgery cost tens of thousands, and the family was in trouble.
Liu Yan borrowed it from everyone he could, but it was still not enough.
At this time, Liu Yan heard that there was a "Cat Charming Host Competition" with a prize of 10,000 yuan.
In order to treat her mother's illness, Liu Yan quit her stable job as a nurse and went to Beijing to compete. Although
only came in seventh place and did not receive any bonus, Liu Yan was discovered and successfully signed with Enlight Media and became a host.
After that, Liu Yan tried his best to earn medical expenses for his mother. He rented a house near the company and kept his mobile phone on 24 hours a day.
She rushes to do the work that others are unwilling to do. Even if it is an "acupoint" interaction that risks paralysis, she does not hesitate to rush forward.
Once, when co-hosting with Wu Zongxian, Liu Yan was scolded by the producer for not cooperating, "If Shaanxi Satellite TV hadn't asked you to stay, I wouldn't have used you even if you had knelt down and licked my feet."
During those days, she was bitter and helpless, but she refused to accept her fate and did not dare to stop.
Until 2008, the invitation from "Menswear" became a turning point in her life.
At that time, Liu Yan was diagnosed with fibroids on her chest. She was worried about her physical disability and wanted to leave some good memories, so she accepted the invitation to shoot the magazine cover. Unexpectedly, she became famous in one fell swoop and became a "sexy goddess". Her appearance fee increased tenfold.
A large number of film and television appointments came in, and Liu Yan didn't know how to choose. Hosts and actors are two different things, but in order to make money, she decided to give it a try.
Liu Yan has successively contributed many large-scale scenes in "Painting Wall", "Four Famous Catchers 2", "Qi Men Dun Jia" and "The Secret History of Concubine Yang". She is completely popular, and she is completely popular.
However, as she quickly became popular, a series of negative labels such as "shameless" and "relying on her breasts" also followed.
During those days, when Liu Yan participated in any program, people would make fun of her figure.
At night, people would often make harassing phone calls to her and her manager, and send them some unsightly photos.
She was very distressed. She didn't want to be Liu Yan who could be teased by anyone at will.
Until 2018, Liu Yan successfully won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress nomination for her role as Yue Miaomiao in the movie "The Beneficiary".
As an actress, she has not only been recognized in awards, but her acting skills have also been recognized by the audience.
The 2022 "Meng Hua Lu" surprised everyone to see Liu Yan's outstanding acting skills.
In "Sister Lang 2024", Liu Yan not only successfully formed a group, but her stable emotions and sincere way of dealing with others have also won good popularity among many "sisters".
Through repeated efforts, Liu Yan successfully tore off labels such as "vase" and "sexy", changing people's inherent impression of her.
Liu Yan worked hard to make money, successfully cured his mother's illness, and bought a villa in Guangzhou for his parents, brother and sister-in-law.
In her spare time, she also travels with her parents and buys beautiful gemstone rings for her mother to wear and show off.
But Liu Yan's sacrifice did not earn him the respect of his family. Instead, he was poured cold water on him by his own mother.
In the recent program "My Girl", Liu Yan's mother aroused heated discussions among netizens and became a hot search topic. Some netizens thought that Liu Yan's mother was too mean and made people feel suffocated when she opened her mouth.
In the show, Liu Yan was wearing comfortable pajamas, sitting in front of the camera and applying a facial mask, in a very relaxed state.
But Liu Yan's mother said: "She is just so lazy and makes a mess on the floor."
When Liu Yan was cutting vegetables for cooking, he took a piece to eat.
was criticized by her mother again: "She is not particular at all. She is so dirty when others see her. Girls are not elegant at all."
In addition to complaining about Liu Yan's lifestyle, she also complained about Liu Yan's "leftover daughter", "big trouble" and "can only Find the old man.”
Liu Yan’s mother seemed completely unaware of her aggressive behavior. Every word she said and every look in her eyes revealed her dissatisfaction. After the
program was broadcast, some netizens criticized Liu Yan's mother, saying that Liu Yan entered the entertainment industry purely to earn money for her mother's medical treatment. However, her mother not only did not feel sorry for her daughter, but also complained about her daughter in the program, even saying that she was considerate and considerate. My daughter refuses to say anything to save her face, which is really heartbreaking.
Later, Liu Yan responded: My mother is really good, she loves me very much, she just talks about it every day.
But all I saw was disgust, and I didn’t detect any trace of love.
In 2018, after Liu Yan's father died of stomach cancer, Liu Yan said this in an interview: "I felt like the sky was falling. I instantly felt like I had no home. My mother always felt that I was not good enough or outstanding enough. She preferred my brother during holidays. They will live together, and I will feel like an outsider when I go home. "
In this complicated world, we often see a heartbreaking phenomenon: those who are not loved give more love.
43-year-old Liu Yan, being treated like this by her own mother, must be riddled with holes in her heart.
But even so, she still longs for the missing maternal love in her heart, and strives to cater, pay, and give.
It has been a difficult journey from nurse to celebrity. Faced with her mother's harsh criticism, she chose to understand and tolerate her. Her tenacity and filial piety are moving.
"The world kisses me with pain, and I want to repay it with songs." Tagore's words seem so appropriate at this moment.
People who are not loved are like travelers groping in the dark. They don't know what love is, but they instinctively want to pass on the little warmth they have.
Thinking back to the children around us who grew up in repressive education, when they became adults, they cared deeply about their parents and carefully tried to please them, trying to make up for the recognition and love they had never received.
They keep giving, even if they are scarred, they will not stop.
Is this the kindness of human nature or a trick of fate?
Perhaps, it is precisely because they have never really had love that they regard love as so precious. Even a little response can make them ecstatic and give more.
However, we must understand that true love should not be just endless unilateral giving.
Those who are not loved must learn to love themselves first before they can have the ability to give love to others.
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