Chan Kailin, 33, is the 2013 Miss Hong Kong champion. After joining TVB, she participated in dramas such as "The Secret Battle of Famous Family" , "Cheung Po Tsai" and "Zombie".
Chen Kailin and her husband Zheng Jiaying got married in 2018. The two made a baby quickly after their marriage, and successfully had three children in four years.
Chen Kailin recently accepted an interview to share her parenting experience, the way she and her husband discipline their children, and her work plans.
[She revealed that she has given up her dream of making a TV series]
was asked how to strike a balance between family and career. She said bluntly: "I find that more and more women have to work, but I believe that every mother wants to What I do is for my children. With this mission, I don’t think it will be very hard for me. I just hope to do better. In fact, as parents, we all want to give the best to our children.”
As for the considerations in choosing a job. , she said: "Fortunately, my job is more flexible. I don't have a 9-to-5 job. I choose to do something I like and shoot movies. Although shooting movies takes a lot of time, a lot of the time I edit and edit movies at home. In preparation, I will spend more time at home with my children."
asked whether she had been invited to film dramas in the past. She said: "I have thought about it, but I feel that I am not good at acting. I have given up on my dream of filming dramas. There are more movies online. "
[ does not agree that you should have children as early as possible ]
talked about whether she agreed that "having children should be done as early as possible", she said: "Not necessarily. First of all, you need to know that when you have a child, you and the other party ( Do all partners) like children? Having children is a big responsibility. If you want to have children, you must prepare your own mentality. The time for getting married and having children will be different. To be honest, today’s technology is so advanced. You can actually have children later if you want."
Chen Kailin now has three sons. When asked if her husband Zheng Jiaying hoped to have another daughter, she laughed and said: "I joked that I wanted to have a daughter. There were rumors before that I wanted to have a fourth daughter. I want a daughter. I think we have three children in our family. In fact, I don’t care about sons or daughters.”
[Revealing Zheng Jiaying’s parenting style]
Regarding the difference between her husband Zheng Jiaying’s parenting style, she said: “He is more traditional, and. He hopes that his son will be more responsible. As the saying goes, "The poor will raise a son, and the rich will raise a daughter." I am a loving mother who can do anything for my son, even if he coughs, he can eat ice cream. "
was asked about the child's fall. , is the husband particularly strict in not allowing his son to cry? She said: "I am very strong in this aspect. When a child falls, I will tell him to stand up quickly." , I will not coax them, because it is unacceptable behavior in our family, and ask them to calm down in a certain place at home, and to apologize.”
As for her children’s academic studies, she said that their children have no homework to do at this stage. She said: "I have heard from many people that they usually have unhappy arguments with their children over homework. At this point, they have to wait for the tutor to teach them."
was asked if she would like to arrange for her children to study abroad. She said : "I went to a study tour group before, actually to the United Kingdom. In fact, the experience was very good. Let the children go to more study tour groups to contact different countries. Maybe they will want to study abroad in the future. The most important decision is to let them Decide for themselves, rather than their parents deciding for them.”
