, the father who fried the kitchen, and the child who knocked his head off, whose family is so exciting as soon as it goes online!
" Little Couple " Che Li ( Yin Tao ) transformed from a full-time housewife to an entrepreneurial heroine. Zhou Quan ( Guo Jingfei ) was fired in middle age, and Shui Lingling came to work as a full-time dad. Grandma, grandparents and grandma are both "drama experts", and the family cooks every day.
comes and expands.
A new track for housewives to start their own business? The heroine of "life style"!
Yin Tao tells us that real "entrepreneurial women" have another way of opening up.
does not mean walking in a windy manner, wearing black eyeliner, nor does it mean "not consulting you but just informing you" every minute.
turns the domineering aura into a more restrained temperature, and turns the deprivation-like oppression into a cooperative and win-win force.
If the so-called heroine with externalized and "murderous" intent is a thirty-meter sword with a sharp edge and murderous intent, then Che Li in "The Little Couple" is another kinder and less obvious one. There is no dew in the mountain, but it contains profound power, as warm and moist as warm jade.
It is not the scorched fighting power in the surrounding fields, but the spring breeze and rain, and a green patch of green is giving birth to new ideas .
She makes soup as a housewife and does not look down upon herself. She fully recognizes the difficulty and professionalism of raising children. In her spare time, she also writes a public account and has become a popular best-selling author in Big V+.
She rolls up her sleeves to start a career, and she does not look down upon her husband with children. She deserves every penny of moral support, technical help, emotional value, and monetary value.
Looking at it on the other hand, the same goes for Zhou Quan. He didn't look down on his wife when he was making money to support the family, and he didn't look down on himself when he was given the job of raising a child (although his kitchen skills are worthy of being criticized).
This is easier said than done, not to mention that such a huge and earth-shattering change in the family structure in a short period of time is bound to be quite overwhelming.
There were neighbor mothers outside who were pointing and making irresponsible remarks at the baby's father, and inside there was a child's grandmother shouting, "I don't agree." In the past, Zhou Quan made breakfast and made a small fire gesture, pulling his wife to shout "Run!". Later, Zhou Quan took the baby to answer the phone. The baby fell down the steps on a scooter and received 11 stitches on his head. The couple had a fierce argument.
And every time something goes wrong, Che Li's response is remarkable.
Spring breeze and drizzle are reasonable, have reasoned and well-founded analysis, advance and retreat output, have stable mood and gentle attitude.
You see, her gentleness is not dependent, secondary, or vase-like, but has both subjectivity and compatibility.
If we say that many women's stories lack "I", they lose the happiness of "myself" in the busy life of the family; and the "I" is too big in the overly blurred "big heroine" stories. The number is too illusory, and there is a suspicion that it is labeled just for the sake of being happy and cool; then Che Li is a true plus version that does not emphasize "strong women" but is really strong and can be inclusive.
In a sense, she is an aggressive "heroine", but she is not the kind who loses all her relatives due to three disasters and eight disasters, but a "lifestyle" heroine with a strong sense of life.
Her "strongness" is not just a slogan, but a sparkle in every detail.
For example, when a child wants to drink black coffee, she shared that my educational philosophy is to tell the child not to drink it, but the child’s father asked, “Do you really want to drink it? This doesn’t taste good.” He let the child take a sip. I found it particularly unpleasant to drink and will never make such a request again.
carefully observes the difference in the thinking of raising children between myself and her husband, learns from each other's strengths, and works hand in hand.
For example, when I was nervous for a speech and forgot to prepare the manuscript, I told the story of my husband raising children in life. When I communicated on the phone at the first time, "I couldn't discuss it with you in advance", and the husband and wife were fully respectful.
The couple is in love and love each other sweetly. Although there are bumps in their lives, they all have their own ideas.
Of course, this does not mean that they are always correct AI textbooks. The new structure of fathers and children is of course unstable, couples will of course quarrel, and Che Li will of course speak indiscriminately in anger.
The precious thing about this drama may be that it does not replace the "real feeling" with labels, does not replace "real pain points" with topics first, and does not use "absolutely correct" to perfunctoryly cover up the myriad clues of laughter and laughter in life.
In such a quality, Yin Tao, the "life style" heroine, not only has many enviable attributes, but also has a warm and friendly atmosphere as if she lives in the community next to me.
If Yin Tao's role as Wu Zetian back then was a glimpse into the legendary history, then Che Li this time is like the ordinary fireworks in the world, the gentle smile in the smoke in the alley, exuding the aroma of "working on a career", It still has the rich "soup" flavor of living a good life.
Zhou Quan, played by Guo Jingfei, is the chosen one in the loser househusband circuit. When he went online, he was an IT elite and could support a family with one person's salary.
still has a bit of "youthful and crazy" idealism at this age, criticizes Zhou's boss-like leadership, sincerely mispays the juniors who were promoted and cared for by him but bites him in the face, has outstanding technical ability but is not tactful enough, and is miserable in middle age. Being fired, he became a loser for a time (bushi)
The colleague who was fired before Zhou Quan was Zhang Lei, who played the role of the teaching director in various dramas. This time, he had a senior and a junior, and had a house and car loan but was fired. er, but within a second of tragedy, the wig was lifted off by the strong wind, and the head was bald, which was bitter and funny.
You see, "Little Couple" captures the plight of middle-aged people, but it is not a desperate and broken model of chicken feathers, nor is it a dark and dark tone of irreversible decline. Face the difficulties of life and face the prevalent prejudices.
has the "greatest common denominator" attribute of seeing the common features of a group of images in one line and one line. At the same time, it is an effective digestion in the style of "deep observation and light comedy".
A few strokes outline a shadow of the times, and explain the myriad of threads with a smile.
Guo Jingfei, the chosen player of the "wimpy track", explains with his strength what it means to be "sad" but not "really sad", and "wimpy" but not "really wimpy".
His three points are "owed", three points are "wilted", and three points are happy. When placed in his whole body, which is pure and honest in nature, he is kind but not dull, happy but not exaggerated; a little "weak" but not really stupid. Down, a bit of "retreat" but not really escaping.
uses multi-dimensional vividness to resist the one-size-fits-all rudeness of "wimps".
uses flesh-and-blood, humorous and difficult aspects to fight against the arbitrary thinness of labels.
At first glance, it seems that he has achieved nothing and gained neither fame nor fame, but in fact, life is interesting, and there is great spring and autumn in the little loser track.
You see, "Little Couple" uses a light comedy mode of "external joy but inner integrity" to present this kind of useless life.
's coat is full of laughter, the texture is the confrontation of different educational concepts, and the bones are an optimistic and warm attitude towards life.
For example, the child's father and the child's grandmother have many disagreements about how to raise the child. The child's mother suggested: Let the child decide for himself, give little red flowers to whomever he likes, and listen to whoever has more little red flowers. So dad and grandma started "intrigue" for 300 times.
Grandma has great handicraft skills. She knitted a colorful little sweater for her child's Ultraman even after a disagreement. It was so cute! (Although, why does Ultraman wear a sweater? It is indeed a series of "Grandma thinks you are cold and thinks you need to wear long johns")
The father was very thoughtful and got his child a very cool motorcycle.
Of course, this does not mean blindly pleasing the children (the motorcycle later overturned in a car accident), but a sense of joy that "big things can be seen in small things and details".
is full of absurdity, funny and cuteness, and is also inspiring behind the scenes.
Zhou Quan has no experience raising children, but that doesn’t mean he is really “waste”.
Watch clouds with your children and teach them about scientific principles; listen to your children saying "they dislike the cloud that looks like smelly socks" and tell them interesting stories.
teaches children the electrical principles of socket plugs and tries to teach them to plug them in safely.
can play with his children and transform into tiger emoticons. He still has the innocence and childishness in his heart; but at the same time, he is also a rational and gentle parent who teaches in a measured and rhythmic manner.
You see, Zhou Quan was fired in middle age and is close to a "wimp" in the secular sense, but utilitarian standards have never been the only flavor of life.
In a world where prejudices generally look down on those who take care of the family full-time, Zhou Quan’s healthy mentality is a new bud, isn’t it?
doesn’t have any earth-shattering skills, but colorful and interesting ones are very precious, right?
Light comedy life flow: I seem to know everyone?
Everyone in "Little Couple" is interesting.
Meng Fei, played by Qi Xi, is a very straightforward and sassy girl.
Recognizes heroes with a keen eye. When he was young, he discovered Che Li, a full-time housewife who "felt that she was not good", and escorted her all the way until she became famous and had a bulging purse. After the harvest, she was ridiculed by a group of envious colleagues.
Meng Fei's main character is someone who can't tolerate anyone. He beats gongs and drums face to face, and makes a toast, rounding it off with "Thank you for those of you who can't stand me and can't kill me. I will live a better life and piss you off."
If the ambiguous and common side of the culture of human relations is implicitness, or a bit of hypocrisy in politeness, then Meng Fei is a real knife that smashes through the fake politeness with a hammer.
When Meng Fei was forced to go on a blind date, he met Yuan Yi, who was also forced to go on a blind date, and almost became a "battlefield" for each other.
The "boss boss" Yuan Yi played by Zhang Yunlong is also very different from the regular boss.
The first time these two met, it was a little comfort and kindness between strangers. The second time they met, it was like "blind date and almost becoming enemies."
Meng Fei sat at the next table, watching helplessly as Yuan Yi broke up with his last blind date, then asked the waiter to transfer his unfinished food to her table, and started a new round of intensive "forced blind date" ".
Meng Fei's heart is like: I will eat myself when I eat melon? Do you still want me to say "It's okay"?
are both unconventional and standard methods. It is quite cp-like to enjoy enemies and hate each other.
In addition to them, various grandmothers, grandmothers and grandfathers are also very interesting in the story.
For example, my child's grandfather brags to his old friends as soon as he goes online, "My son Zhou Quan said he would buy us a big house of 200 square meters."
When Zhou Quan heard that he had changed his job (actually it was a lie, the truth was that he was fired at home), the critic scolded him all the time, saying that he was fierce and a large number of special batches were wrong.
has a bit of sophistication and a bit of paternalism, and every word is very representative.
Compare the thoughtful and considerate father, very typical two generations of parents.
Zhou Quan is a friend-like and guiding father who respects his children; while Zhou Quan's own father is a standard traditional East Asian father who "uses scolding to express his good will", which is too old-fashioned and rude, and is quite out of bounds. In the episode
6, the father still shouted remotely. I am looking forward to what kind of hilarious melee it will be when Zhou Quan’s parents come to the scene!
What's interesting is that "Little Couple" never rigidly preaches, but tells stories while laughing and crying. After a few episodes of
, my emotions towards my grandmother who doted on her children changed from "This is not good" to "Although it is not good, I sympathize with my grandmother."
She dotes on her child too much. When the child’s mother says that she is making trouble when doing homework, she can’t wait to feed the child when he is eating. When the child is injured and cries in the treatment room, she moans along with him outside.
She has many obvious inappropriate behaviors that are excessive, and she embodies the common shortcomings of education of a generation.
But she is so lively and sincere, with cuteness in her roughness, and deep love in her unconscious mistakes, making it hard for people to dislike her.
You see, each of them gives people a sense of intimacy that "I really know each other in life". They are universal and condensed universals, but they are also vivid and unique examples.
"Little Couple" is not a hollow "awkward" comedy, nor is it a suspended "bloody" family drama. It is thoughtful but not boring, pointed but not empty, and has a core but does not waste its viewing value.
e sister’s conclusion
What are the stories of full-time housewives returning to work and starting businesses? What are they usually like?
discovers that her perfect husband is actually a cheating scumbag. The heroine tears her body apart and leaves the house. She meets Bai Yueguang again in the workplace. She sees Buddhas and kills Buddhas and ghosts along the way. She wears the false crown of independent female success and... "Ascending the throne" under the protection of Golden Finger is deceiving oneself and others in vain. But "Little Couple" is not like that.
is a sharp blade that shakes the "overwhelming prejudice" with a smile, but it is not a bloody sword, but a warmer and more relaxed mode;
is not a "just kill and don't bury" mode after cutting, but a mode that is shrouded in prejudice. Rebuild and explore new possibilities on the stumbling but sincere and brave road.
In the name of love, with the warmth of home, and with the soft light of life, we will become a better version of ourselves in "Little Couple".
Today’s topic is:
Are there any stories around you of full-time housewives who returned to work and started their own businesses?
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