html On the 222nd, Gao Yalin made his first post after being accused of cheating and domestic violence by actress Wei Jia. It had been more than two months since the incident.
Gao Yalin posted that words first make people comfortable, and then character makes people comfortable. The words are full of kindness and character, but it is unknown what he wants to express.
It is worth mentioning that although Gao Yalin posted publicly this time, he set comment restrictions in the comment area of his blog post. Many netizens were disapproving of his post and ridiculed his remarks about character on the Internet topic "Gao Yalin's first post after the controversy", saying, "It's so ironic to talk about character" and "I want to make money out of it."
Gao Yalin was once regarded as the "national dad" for his role as the humorous Xia Donghai in "With Children". In addition to "With Children", Gao Yalin left a deep impression on everyone in his early years by playing the role of Lai Ai in the legendary "Lu Buwei" impression.
In public perception, Gao Yalin has superb acting skills, and the father role he plays is warm and positive. He is not only an excellent actor, but also a good husband and father.
The love story between Gao Yalin and his wife Shi Wei was once described as as beautiful as a fairy tale.
In 2004, Gao Yalin and Shi Wei met at a small gathering. Although there was an 11-year age difference between the two, Gao Yalin gradually impressed Shi Wei with his sincerity and patience.
The two started as friends, slowly developed feelings, and finally came together. The warmth and persistence in this story have touched countless people, and also made Gao Yalin's image fuller. However, the recent scandals have shattered all this beauty in an instant.
Recently, actress Wei Jia exposed Gao Yalin’s many scandals on social media, including cheating, domestic violence during pregnancy, etc. She also posted relevant evidence, which instantly topped the trending search list and caused an uproar across the Internet.
Wei Jia said that she became pregnant after meeting and dating Gao Yalin, but she suffered domestic violence when she was five months pregnant. Wei Jia also claimed that she had surveillance video of domestic violence during pregnancy, which further supported her accusation.
Not only that, Wei Jia also revealed that Gao Yalin cheated on actress Xu Zijun, who is 26 years younger than him, and noted her contact information as "Ji Xiaoshuai".
Wei Jia also revealed that Gao Yalin had many dates with Xu Zijun for dinner and transferred large amounts of money to her. What is even more shocking is that, according to Wei Jia, Gao Yalin and his wife Shi Wei have already divorced, but they have not made it public.
It can be seen from the chat records posted by Wei Jia that Gao Yalin tried to distance himself from Xu Zijun and made many negative comments about Xu Zijun. Such words and actions undoubtedly further damaged his public image.
In the final stage of this controversy, Xu Zijun responded. She called Gao Yalin's transfer a gift from her pursuer and said that she had never loved Gao Yalin.
She explained that after she entered the entertainment industry, Gao Yalin gave her some help and she has always regarded him as an elder. However, Gao Yalin pursued her in every possible way, which made her feel troubled and aggrieved.
Xu Zijun’s response changed the direction of public opinion about the incident, and netizens began to doubt Gao Yalin’s true motives and behavior.
Wei Jia’s role in this incident also attracts attention. Her request does not seem to be complicated, she just hopes that the child can be born smoothly and registered as a household registration.
In the end, Gao Yalin agreed to Wei Jia’s request with the help of a lawyer, and the turmoil gradually subsided.
However, Gao Yalin's handling of the matter aroused ridicule and criticism from many netizens. Both his attitude towards Wei Jia and his words towards Xu Zijun appear to lack a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
In recent years, every move of celebrities in the entertainment industry has been magnified, and their careers may suffer at any time due to temporary misconduct.
Gao Yalin was plagued by scandals, and all his beautiful images have become fragile. After the incident, Gao Yalin remained silent and did not speak out until now.
The entire incident involved three people, all of whom were losers. In this incident, netizens generally condemned Gao Yalin's behavior and asked him to respond.
However, even if Gao Yalin finally apologizes, his public image and reputation have been seriously damaged. Although Xu Zijun stood up and spoke out, many netizens did not buy it and questioned her behavior of collecting high amounts of money without accepting feelings.
In this incident, although Wei Jia reconciled with Gao Yalin and solved the problem of the child's settlement, his approach was unpredictable because of the issue of the child's household registration and he did not hesitate to fight Gao Yalin to death.
The incident between Gao Yalin and Xu Zijun once again reminds us that as public figures, every word and deed of celebrities attracts much attention and they must always maintain a high sense of responsibility and self-discipline.
At the same time, practitioners in the entertainment industry should also strengthen self-cultivation to avoid irreparable losses caused by temporary mistakes. After you have done something wrong, one or two sentences about "character and kindness" will not change the outside world's perception.
