costume TV series " Sauvignon Blanc 2", the scene where Xiaoyao smashes Xingxuan is really wonderful.
Xuanxuan is already dominating the world. Even when the news was announced for the first time, it was very straightforward and the matter was finished very quickly. The speed of speech here seems to be "understatement" due to a guilty conscience, but it is undeniable that he already has that "subconscious emperor's posture".
And when Xiaoyao confirmed it to him, he gave a tricky detail. On the one hand, it was to show nervousness, but more importantly, it was "a concrete representation of the thinking process." He actually thought about whether he should say it again, and then he Determined, he stammered out his words.
As soon as he finished speaking, Xiaoyao threw a wine cup at him. He didn't hide at first, so Xiaoyao hit him hard. After the wine cup hit him, he subconsciously tilted his head because of the pain.
This shows that when he said this, he was already ready to bear Xiaoyao's anger.
After Xiaoyao finished smashing it, he turned around and walked away faster than the lamp fell to the ground. Here comes the phenomenon of "substantial superiority". In fact, Xiaoyao is the real superiority in this relationship. Xuanxuan could accept her anger, but he couldn't bear her disappointment and sadness, so he immediately chased her out to explain.
The two people are actually surprisingly consistent in their understanding of "two people in one". Essentially, there are no clear boundaries for each other. The most interesting thing about this place is that my grandfather also knows that they are dependent on each other and have a relationship of two beings. In other words, as long as Xuanxuan does not cross that line, grandpa allows this kind of relationship to exist, and grandpa knows very well where Xuanxuan's taboos are.
I have to say again, Zhang Wanyi is so good at acting! When he chased her to the door, he was in an anxious state, desperately trying to explain and comfort him. Later, Xiaoyao's mood eased and he began to confess his feelings through the door.
"I believe Master understands me, Xiaoyao, do you understand me?" Gentlemen, I sincerely invite you to listen to this sentence. It really contains grievances, prayers, and a little "coaxing", in a In the emperor's confession, hearing such a soft state is really a contrast that I will never be able to escape. My first reaction was to hold him in my arms and coax him, and to tell him immediately that I understood.
"You don't care about me", this sentence is actually the "knot" of Xuanxuan's heart. He actually knows it in his heart. He knows that in order to get what he wants, he did push Xiaoyao out, and he still continues to do so until now. Regretful. From a mental point of view, he also knew that Xiaoyao was very concerned about being abandoned. Therefore, under the influence of various factors, as soon as he heard this sentence, his "emotions advanced" and he began to show his fragile childishness and kept talking. care.
I believe it, I never doubt his sincerity. It's just that people who stand on top of the world can never be sincere.
As for the episode where Xiang Liu comforts Xiao Yao after learning about his life experience, I would like to call it a "model of effective empathy."
First, use a normal but not plain tone to affirm your feelings: "It is indeed difficult to accept." At this time, you say "Shut up!" Then he starts to guide further, directing his thinking to your familiar and trusted mother. , trying to calm your emotions and inspire calm thinking. You further insist on "shut up," so he opens his own wound to heal you. Use yourself as an example to guide your thinking to the positive side and help you get out of the emotional quagmire. And it is not said in a harsh and dry way, but warm and interesting. He even uses the points that mattered most to you in the past.
Do you understand? If a person really loves you, he will find ways to resolve your emotions instead of denying them. He will not hesitate to use himself as medicine to heal you. It will guide you to think about aspects that you have never thought of before, so as to become a better and happier version of yourself.
If a person really loves you, even if he doesn't say anything, he will do something. Caring about a person is not just about words in many cases, he will show it to you with actions and details.
Author: Qianxi Xixi, produced by the Bone Film Critics Team
