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Author: Hua Yuchi
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In fact:
Everyone thinks that Huang Zhenhua and Su Gengsheng are happy, but only Guan Zhizhi, who has been remarried for the second time, knows that such happiness is simply vulnerable.
Human nature is far more fragile and terrifying than we imagine.
As long as there is no string stretched, no morality and bottom line restrained, everything will slide down like a faucet.
Same kind of people
After Huang Zhenhua married Su Gengsheng, he met Guan Zhizhi again while visiting his client Harrison Group.
At that time, Guan Zhizhi was already Harrison's wife, and concurrently served as the company's legal person and did financial work. Huang Zhenhua looked at Guan Zhizhi, who had made a 180-degree turn in front of him, and couldn't help but admire the other party's change in his heart.
Huang Zhenhua couldn't help but sigh in his heart. At first, Rose dissuaded Guan Zhizhi from marrying Zhou Shihui. Now, due to a combination of circumstances, Guan Zhizhi has a successful career and has found her own happiness. However, Rose has lost her former glory and married Fang Xiewen. , mediocre all day long, even though he knew that his sister would not let herself down, he still regretted it.
The gap between the two is already huge.
The funny thing is that Huang Zhenhua thought that no one else could see through his thoughts, but Guan Zhizhi, who had been with Zhou Shihui for seven years, knew exactly what the other person was thinking.
Seven years is enough to understand a person and the people around him.
Birds of a feather tend to flock together, and people flock together.
Huang Zhenhua, who hangs out with Zhou Shihui and Zhuang Guodong, naturally has this in common.
At first, Huang Zhenhua thought that Zhou Shihui was reliable, down-to-earth and hardworking at work, which was naturally the case in marriage. However, after seeing Rose, he fell in love with Rose and changed his past good man style; and later, when Zhuang Guodong and Rose After getting together, he also thought that the other party was a good man. But it was this good man who was cold and violent towards Rose in their relationship and who cared more about his career than his own sister. Huang Zhenhua once again let Huang Zhenhua lose his sight.
Even Huang Zhenhua himself was hesitant when facing reality, thinking about the left side and wanting the right side.
In the story of Rose, everyone in the play, regardless of gender, is not perfect.
Insurmountable Desires
Sometimes, the most difficult thing to overcome is not people’s desires, but the bad nature in their bones.
From the beginning, this marriage contained many crises.
Su Gengsheng’s entanglement with his native family, his past with Peng Songtao, and Huang Zhenhua’s swaying mentality when faced with Bai Xiaohe and Su Gengsheng all secretly highlight this period to a certain extent. Hidden problems in marriage.
To put it bluntly, neither of these two people actually have a heart-to-heart relationship with each other, and neither of them trusts the other.
Su Gengsheng repeatedly put herself into passive situations because of her past. In front of Huang Zhenhua, she mustered up the courage to mention her past, and Huang Zhenhua expressed her heartache and understanding.
In reality, people who expose their own scars are often the first to be hurt.
This situation is also reflected in the play.
Huang Zhenhua's advantages are that he is soft and sincere, but this is also the most criticized thing about him.
He understands the people around him, but not so much. He has sympathy, but in the final analysis, he cannot empathize with them.
Whether it was facing Su's mother who had hurt Su Gengsheng or the hurt that Su Gengsheng had faced deeply, in fact, he could not understand what the other party wanted.
After all, not everyone can understand this matter of empathy.
On the other hand, Huang Zhenhua's guilty look when he met Bai Xiaohe and the child he was holding in his hand actually aroused suspicion to a certain extent.
Huang Zhenhua told his sister that he had done nothing. After Bai Xiaohe said that, he hurriedly fled the scene. However, when facing Bai Xiaohe, he was in a guilty state, and even faced Su Gengsheng's question. When asked, he admitted that he did sleep at Bai Xiaohe's place that night. As for what kind of stay he had, even he himself was not sure.
After knowing Bai Xiaohe's answer, Huang Zhenhua might just be satisfied that the other party gave him a reassuring answer.
The tug-of-war between Su Gengsheng and Peng Songtao in the later period actually "lay the groundwork" to a certain extent.
Two people who share the same problem are often more likely to get entangled. Did Su Gengsheng really not have feelings for him back then?
Under Huang Zhenhua's questioning, Su Gengsheng's visibly evasive eyes already explained the answer.
Peng Songtao returned to Beijing to sell a house, but Su Gengsheng went to meet Huang Zhenhua in private without telling him. She had confessed to him that she had been married before, but she had never described her past with Peng Songtao in detail. The extent illustrates the problem.
Realistic pressure
What this marriage is facing is actually not only "antecedent", but also real pressure.
In the drama, except for Rose, who has the halo of the protagonist, the lives of other people are closer to reality.
Entering 2023, the background of the times and Huang Zhenhua’s work situation and mid-life crisis provided by the screenwriter are actually very consistent with reality.
When housing prices were not high, only Su Gengsheng bought a one-bedroom apartment, while Huang Zhenhua had no sense of crisis. If it weren't for his children who wanted to settle down, he would never have even thought about buying the current house.
has entered a new era, and the housing market has been sluggish. Huang Zhenhua's company has been on the forefront of the trend, but it has also begun to show a state of naked swimming due to the retreat of the trend. On the one hand, the market is in a downturn. Under such circumstances, large companies can only downgrade their resources and adapt to the market. On the other hand, companies are also facing transformation crises and economic crises. After all, several scenes show that many companies are in default. Funds were not cleared.
And the problem of children’s education is actually gradually becoming more prominent.
In places where there are more educational resources and competitive pressures, there is more invisible education worship. Even though Su Gengsheng borrowed money from Rose to buy a house in the school district that she longed for, she still paid more attention to the educational resources of Huang Zhenhua's parents. After all, the heritage was there, the network resources were there, and the ready-made resources were there, which was better than hard work. Suffering is better achieved by groping.
Compared with Rose’s halo as the protagonist, the marriage and love life between Huang Zhenhua and Su Gengsheng is actually closer to reality.
The struggles and worries of ordinary people are actually more vividly reflected in the bodies of these two people.
In this drama, everyone has their own shortcomings and advantages, as well as their own little thoughts and worries.
But this is also the most suitable for life.
Facts have proved:
There is no perfect marriage in this world, but there is a perfect match for each other.
After all, no one is perfect. There is no perfect marriage in this world. If you want to get it first, you must give it first. People who always wait to give it first will often get nothing.
Only by working hard and working hard in both directions can we usher in the real spring.
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Author: Hua Yuchi, a freelance writer, combines romanticism and rationalism, focuses on women's growth and emotional writing, and inspires a woman who writes hard and loves reading.
loves the beauty of words, sells words for a living, and believes that one day he can become a better version of himself.
