text | Wu Qingqian
The family observation and growth variety show "My Girl 2024" has restarted after four years. The host Wu Xin who participated in "My Girl Season 1" has returned to "My Girl", but this time she is no longer a resident guest, but an observer. Yuan Shanshan , who participated in Girlfriends 1 with Wu Xin five years ago, also appeared in the camera, but she no longer appeared as a regular guest, but as a special guest. At the beginning of the pilot film, the program team conducted return interviews with some guests of the "My Family" series to see their changes. Wu Xin also talked about her changes during the hosting process. After five years of "struggle", she and Yuan Shanshan, two people who had been crazily urged to get married on the show, have become wiser and found ways to deal with it. One is sending his parents to travel, and the other is learning to keep it a secret.
Daughter 2024 begins with a review of Wu Xin’s participation in Daughter 1, which replays He Jiong ’s analysis of Wu Xin’s emotional state. He Jiong said that Wu Xin is a public figure. With her status, it would be unrealistic for her to go on blind dates one by one. If she was given more time and space besides work, she might be able to find a suitable partner. More realistic.
When the other two observers Wang Mian and Pu Yixing talked about being forced to marry at the age of 30, Wu Xin also actively joined the topic and was curious about whether the two men were being urged to get married. Because once you reach your thirties, your family will pay more attention to the issue of marriage, and this is the time when the pressure is strongest. These words seemed to be the deep feelings of someone who had been there, so Wang Mian, who was not urged to marry, asked her how she came here at that time.
Wu Xin said that at that time, she was just over thirty-one, and her parents pushed her very hard. They still push her now, but not as intensively as before. He also said that he found a particularly good way, which is to keep sending his parents to travel, filling their lives, exhausting their energy, and keeping their parents busy. When observer Huang Han concluded that according to Wu Xin's method, parents would be idle in urging marriage, Wu Xin actually agreed, but soon felt that this was inappropriate and quickly retracted, "You can't say that."
When the program reviewed the "My Family" resident guest series a few years ago, Yuan Shanshan also appeared. In the program, Yuan Shanshan asked her father what regrets he had when he married his daughter. Yuan’s father insisted on urging the marriage, saying that his regret was that the marriage was not successful, "But I think you have become smarter now, and you have kept a special degree of confidentiality." Okay."
This made Yuan Shanshan confused, "What do I have to keep secret?" Father Yuan said, "I guess you have a boyfriend." Mother Yuan also believed that her daughter had a boyfriend, but she didn't tell him. Parents. The reason they thought this was because their daughter would make phone calls behind their backs and not let them know what she was talking about. This made Yuan Shanshan dumbfounded. She felt that it was abnormal for her to make a phone call at the age of thirty-seven.
In fact, Yuan Shanshan is still single. The reason why she sometimes doesn't let her parents listen to her phone calls is because she feels that some content is not suitable for her parents to listen to, and she is afraid that they will worry too much. It may also be Yuan Shanshan's "strategy". Since her parents are happy to urge the marriage, and she is so annoyed that she has to think of something, then she can make a phone call quietly occasionally. For example, if her parents are easily frightened, she can Let them misunderstand, so as not to bother them.
Forty-one-year-old Wu Xin saw Yuan Shanshan acting like this every day and sighed, "This is so strong." This may mean that Yuan's father and mother are too determined to urge marriage, or it may mean that Yuan Shanshan is too strong in the face of crazy urging for marriage. She should be very lucky that she is over forty and does not face such intense pressure to get married. At the same time, she should also be very happy that her own method is more reliable. From time to time, I send my parents to travel, which makes them physically tired and distracted. They don’t have so much time and energy to urge me to get married. Moreover, when I keep traveling, I have become more knowledgeable and my mind is broadened. Many things that I couldn’t figure out before will become easier. If you slowly think about it and accept it, including the fact that your daughter is older and unmarried, then you will definitely not push her too much.
If Yuan Shanshan has watched "My Girl 2024", she can learn from Wu Xin's method. Otherwise, she will be 40 years old in three years, and her parents will definitely push her even harder. How will she live her life?
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