Xi Dapu Ben! Huang Yimei finally filed for divorce from Fang Xiewen~
The last straw for this marriage was that Fang Xiewen privately rejected the job opportunity for Huang Yimei, wanting her to continue to be "captive" by him.
At this time, Huang Yimei does not have to worry about the child in her belly like she did 3 years ago.
Her daughter Xiaochu is already able to go to kindergarten, and Huang Yimei has the support of her parents and brother, so she no longer has to endure Fang Xiewen's control.
Judging from the tense situation between Fang Xiewen and Huang Yimei when discussing divorce, these two people should hate each other extremely.
What was strange was that when Huang Yimei was filling out the divorce lawsuit in front of the computer, there was a photo of Fang Xiewen next to her.
Why didn’t she pack up all Fang Xiewen’s things and throw them away, but instead left next to it as an “eyesore”?
After reading the interviews between Lin Gengxin and Liu Yifei, I found the answer.
Although Lin Gengxin played Fang Xiewen very annoyingly, his understanding of the characters and their relationships was very thorough.
In Lin Gengxin's view, the reason why Fang Xiewen was able to marry Huang Yimei was the result of a specific period and special circumstances.
In other words, if Huang Yimei had never experienced Zhuang Guodong's love and hurt, she would not necessarily yearn for a life of fireworks, and would be moved by the care given by Fang Xiewen.
The reason why Fang Xiewen pursues Huang Yimei is that "sees color".
He and Huang Yimei did not study in the same major, and he did not know Huang Yimei's achievements while working in Beijing, nor did he understand Huang Yimei's favorite painting, art and psychology.
Fang Xiewen didn't appreciate Huang Yimei's talent, so he looked down on her work in the publishing house.
In order to catch up with Huang Yimei, Fang Xiewen "licked silently" in the early stage and "pua" in the later stage, trying to turn the roses swaying in the wind and rain into flowers in the broken flower pot for only himself to see.
(The material conditions Fang Xiewen gave Rose, such as a tube building and a bus, can only be regarded as broken flowerpots...)
And Liu Yifei mentioned in the interview that Huang Yimei's feelings for Fang Xiewen were not that warm, but " Wandering between "love and not love".
When Fang Xiewen went with Huang Yimei, she was in a happy mood and thought she loved Fang Xiewen, so she held his face and said "I love you."
But when Fang Xiewen no longer concealed his machismo and prevented Huang Yimei from returning to Beijing by saying, "If you marry me, you will be a member of our Fang family", Huang Yimei had actually realized that her feelings for Fang Xiewen had weakened.
Why didn't she just divorce Fang Xiewen with her belly full?
isn't just for kids.
Children are of course one of the reasons why Huang Yimei chose to follow Fang Xiewen temporarily.
After all, Fang Xiewen did not make the so-called "mistake in principle". Huang Yimei did not want her child to lose his father before he was born.
In a sense, Huang Yimei hopes to provide her daughter with a warm and complete family, just like her parents.
The more important reason is that Huang Yimei is no longer obsessed with the feelings in marriage.
She gradually understood that married couples may not always be able to maintain a relatively high level of emotional intensity.
As time goes by, the two may not love each other so much, may not like each other that much, and may even hate each other a little sometimes, but they can still get on with their lives.
I believe many married men and women have experienced this.
When Huang Yimei learned that Fang Xiewen was behind her back and turned down the job opportunity she had been fighting for for a long time, her dislike of Fang Xiewen finally reached its peak, erasing all her previous goodwill.
This prompted her to start thinking about the feasibility of divorce, including custody of her daughter, and her future relationship with Fang Xiewen.
After careful consideration, Huang Yimei decided to divorce, but at this time she no longer hated Fang Xiewen, nor did she dislike him, but had entered a passerby state of "no love, no hate".
If she is always full of hatred for Fang Xiewen, it will definitely show in her words and deeds, which will have a bad impact on the children.
Moreover, Huang Yimei graduated from the psychology major and is good at solving inner problems, relieving her negative emotions, and adjusting herself to a more positive state.
Therefore, when she was filling out the divorce lawsuit, she was able to look at Fang Xiewen calmly and would continue to keep photos of Fang Xiewen and her daughter at home for the sake of her daughter's mental health.
Su Gengsheng once said something to Huang Yimei when he forgave Huang Zhenhua for communicating with Bai Xiaohe in private.
"If you can't hold a little sand in your eyes, just don't open them."
Now it seems that Huang Yimei has really practiced this sentence, so that she can completely put aside the negative influence Fang Xiewen had on her, pack lightly and run towards tomorrow ~
