Recently, Gao Haining responded to the marriage-promoting barrage during a live broadcast by saying "Can't I do it without a man?" and became a hot topic with his domineering attitude.
Many people know her because of the role of Zhao Jingyu, the wife of Aquaman in "Only Thirty". Her previous roles as Xu Shiqing in "News Queen" and her crushing performance in "Infinite Beyond" also made her popular. The
emoticon pack is so popular that she even uses it herself.
Last year, she also won the Best Supporting Actress at the 2023 Thousand Stars Awards Ceremony for her role as Xu Shiqing.
In the declining TVB, it took her 15 years to finally show her talents. She worked harder than other seniors and was comparable to the last queen of TVB.
But I don’t want to follow the trend and beat her when she has just the right momentum.
The most worthy thing to talk about about her is not her hard work and her current achievements.
On the contrary, her life is actually high and low, and her appearance and personality are actually very disadvantaged in the entertainment industry. How to overcome the gap and keep the mentality from collapsing is its most powerful aspect.
After all, netizens recognize her as the kind of woman with regular menstruation and abundant qi and blood. This unique internal and external health and beauty is worth digging into.
Gao Haining had a smooth academic life as a student, with excellent grades and serving as various class cadres. Unexpectedly, randomly participating in a beauty pageant at the age of 21 changed the originally smooth life track.
Gao Haining's inner and outer appearance are actually very different. On the inside, she is a young student, but on the outside, she looks like an ambitious young girl. This natural "difference between appearance and inside" has destined her to lead a high and low life.
When the 21-year-old Gao Haining was interviewed, he always had the innocence and innocence of a good student. His unspoken little thought was also very simple. It was not about the championship, but the incidental benefit of being a Hong Kong sister: traveling.
Because it was a last-minute selection of Miss Hong Kong, she didn’t have any outstanding talents at the time, so she performed a dance with stiff limbs that was serious but funny.
There was an interesting cut during the beauty pageant. After the innocent Gao Haining was interviewed, the camera shrank to the corner. A glamorous version of Gao Haining wearing a swimsuit and with an amazing figure walked towards the center of the camera.
This scene has actually already foreshadowed her bumpy acting career after Miss Hong Kong.
Most outsiders only see her hot appearance. After being turned into a tool, it is difficult to see her true beauty.
Being an actress is actually not suitable for her.
First of all, looks.
Her appearance does not conform to the characteristics of a traditional heroine, and even contributes to the superficial treatment of her by the outside world to a certain extent.
Even though she is in the limelight, many people still think she looks weird.
The hard-to-ignore nose and pointed chin are both aggressive, but paired with cute eyes that sparkle when smiling. Several completely different temperaments appear on the same face, which is contradictory and complicated.
She often appeared on the screen as a tool of snakes and scorpions. In the early days, she played the most roles, such as mistress, traitor, etc.
"Walker" plays a traitor undercover
Even the roles that make her out of the industry now, such as Zhao Jingyu, the wife of Liang Zhengxian in "Only Thirty", or Xu Shiqing in "News Queen", are still inseparable from the "snake and scorpion type" supporting roles. category.
The limitations of her acting career have made her career development for many years always in a state of being unable to get what she wants.
In addition, she still has a serious student mentality, which also affects her development to a certain extent.
In "Infinite Transcendence Class", she seems to have returned to the state of a top student.
Li Fei'er, who is the same age as him, has already begun to regard himself as a senior youtiao teacher, but Gao Haining listened carefully when the instructor was teaching others, understood immediately, and set an example for his fellow rookies. The image of a model student like
is indeed very popular in this variety show, but once it is removed from this specific situation, it is a disadvantage.
In the fierce reality, those who can really break into the front line need only ability. Look at those who are above the front line, who is not fighting with all their strength, even if they are beaten to death, it doesn't matter.
We are in a profit-seeking circle, and sometimes you can’t help but fight for it.
But Gao Haining's nature is not good at this.
Everyone has heard her story about how she still didn’t have a wardrobe after being in TVB for many years. They are somewhat moved by her difficulty in climbing up the ladder and applauding her ambition to become a leading actress.
But few people know that she later clarified that she did not apply again after applying several times, so the cabinet still does not have her share.
She once said frankly that in the workplace, she is completely different from Xu Shiqing, who worked hard and even used unscrupulous means in "News Queen". She prefers to progress step by step.
"News Queen" Xu Shiqing's domineering quotes
And this is also one of the reasons for her slow development.
plus external environment.
Nowadays, TVB is in full decline. When she, like her predecessors, has risen from a supporting role to a leading role, gaining popularity and heavy time costs, the input-output ratio is too low.
According to Gao Haining's personality, it is indeed a bit worrying to break the game.
Fortunately, Charmaine Sheh, the former Queen of TVB, leads the way.
Do you know how she became associated with Zhao Jingyu and Xu Shiqing, two characters who now seem to be extremely important to her career?
was not something she pursued with clear goals, but was directly or indirectly promoted by her admired predecessor, Charmaine Sheh. When
received the invitation for "Thirty Only", she was actually very hesitant.
But Charmaine Sheh thought it was a good opportunity and advised her not to worry about the size of her role in acting, but to learn how the mainland production team works.
Sure enough, even as a supporting role, this hit drama still made more viewers know her.
Compared with the old-school TVB, she has also benefited a lot from the more modern and industrialized shooting methods in the mainland.
Everything is mirrored
Can you imagine?
But in fact, I rarely encounter such opportunities in tvb
"News Queen". She heard that there was Charmaine Sheh, and she didn't even know what role she would play, so she immediately agreed.
Charmaine Sheh is her lucky star, but he can only help her lead the way, but cannot move forward for her.
Compared with his predecessors, it can be seen that Gao Haining is a person with weak purpose and even a bit passive.
Therefore, the fact that she was able to reach this point and get her own results is a small miracle in itself, far more dazzling than the trophy.
She said that when she was hit in the early years, she would doubt herself and feel pain, but later she figured it out and felt that no matter what, she loved the performance itself, so as long as she was still doing it, she was satisfied.
In fact, in addition to career, Gao Haining also gets what he wants emotionally.
Her family atmosphere is excellent. Her grandparents who raised her since she was a child are loving, and her parents are also loving.
She once took her parents to a variety show. When her parents took wedding photos, she was even more excited and happy than her parents.
She originally hoped to start her own small family happily like her grandparents.
is completely different from the characters she often plays. She has a sincere attitude toward relationships, doesn't like to make small moves, and never doubts her boyfriend or checks her cell phone.
never thought that she had no idea that her boyfriend had been cheating on her for a long time. In the end, it was her boyfriend's friend who couldn't see it and told her that she learned the truth.
Afterwards, she shed tears and hid in her room all day long crying secretly.
She didn't come back to her senses until she found that her grandmother, who was distressed for her, had been crying outside the door, and slowly relieved herself.
What should you do if you encounter someone who is not kind to you?
Fortunately, she gradually became happy.
She is very free and unrestrained now and sincerely feels that there are many benefits to being alone, and it does not necessarily require a man.
She still loves children, but is beginning to plan to be a single mother.
had a bright face when he said this.
Gao Haining is kind, and she carries too many epitome of ordinary people.
Not everyone can become the exciting protagonist in the counterattack story.
It’s not that you become more courageous with every setback, that you continue to transform, and that you finally see the real chapter, which is worthy of praise.
is born with an unpleasant appearance and personality, and at the same time it is difficult to change. This is the truth about the life of most supporting characters.
But so what.
Although it was difficult, Gao Haining finally developed a qualified strong heart.
She didn't feel sorry for herself when she couldn't get what she wanted. Instead, she consciously trained herself and gradually became no longer demanding, but she should work hard and let the rest take its course.
"Life can have gray areas" was her later epiphany about life.
She has shared more than once that she met all kinds of people while traveling and relaxing:
On a temporary basis, she settled in Sanya with her family and lived a leisurely and comfortable life every day. Some people work all the way and travel around to see things. If they have money, they stay in hotels, but if they don’t have money, they set up tents. They are also very cool and wanton.
She was shocked to realize that life is not just a way of living step by step and working hard to climb up. Success in the worldly sense is black and white, but there are actually many ways for people to feel happiness.
Therefore, although Gao Haining is still essentially playing a supporting role as a snake and scorpion as in the early days, she no longer positions herself as a tool person.
These so-called "villains" are no longer labeled as black and white, but are all treated as "gray" by her -
Gao Haining performed the villain's unspeakable secrets, making the audience begin to sympathize with the villain.
Zhao Jingyu set up a trap to force Wang Manni out. The city is deep and the attack is accurate.
But she has a menacing and cruel side, and she also has the sadness of being a captive grandma who, although she wins the female competition, cannot control her own life.
Xu Shiqing even exposed her breasts and gave her lace panties under the laws of the workplace forest, pretending to be having an affair with her boss, but she did whatever it took, all because of her sick father.
In "Thirty Only", she and Wang Manni sit and talk together. The emotional rhythm of Zhao Jingyu, who is "completely victorious", gradually makes people ignore her aggressive appearance as the lines progress step by step. Through her eyes, she can see Her scarred heart.
Gao Haining is a level 10 fan of "The Legend of Zhen Huan". Her favorite character is Concubine Hua.
Concubine Hua is both loving and ruthless, pitiful and overbearing.
Compared with smooth sailing, the advanced version of Gao Haining has experienced a fifteen-year trajectory of high growth and low growth, and he understands this kind of villain supporting role with flesh and blood.
To a certain extent, those villains also "fostered" her and taught her that she could live a non-standard life.
The villain is only seen by others.
He plays a supporting role, but he is still the protagonist in his life.
Nowadays, you will find that she always shows some cute and playful expressions inadvertently. From this, it is not difficult for us to understand her satisfaction with the current situation and herself.
Someone in authority once pointed at Gao Haining and said, with your face, you will always be able to play a supporting role.
When "Thirty Only" became a hit, some people again touted her face as the face of a wealthy and real wife.
She expressed her gratitude to the latter, but said that she only needs to know her own value.
Perhaps Gao Haining will not necessarily become famous and become a super first-line actress.
But it doesn’t matter anymore.
The environment or some of its own limitations do not affect a person's ability to live a contented life.
Gao Haining used her beauty to prove:
You don’t have to be the protagonist to be popular and nourish people. With a supporting role and a good attitude, your face will still be glowing and full of vitality.