has to be the best
in 2024, and the main force in the internal entertainment supply depends on all the old and strong brothers and sisters.
Before, the Phoenix Legend concert became a large-scale KTV scene. Later, Na Ying appeared on "Singer", which set off a new wave of Internet meme craze.
Since I went online before watching the show, I have no idea what happened to Na Ying’s hair style on the day of the live match. I only remember the emoji with the flag hair and “50-year-old lady fighting against the great powers, Yehenala.” The loud slogan "defend the glory of the country" is majestic and tragic.
Let’s just talk about whether it hurts when a netizen slaps you in the face, right? After the list of contestants for the show came out, people shouted boredom-'Why is it Na Ying again?' After the show was broadcast, the public opinion immediately became-"This family will have to break up without her."
Then, the contrast between Yingzi's outstanding strength and full body joy once again became the source of happiness for the entire network. The most famous scene of
is undoubtedly the time when she faced the International Chapter eleven years ago. During the few minutes of the interview, golden sentences came out again and again - "It's hard to judge", "Every line is like a mountain", "I wish her success" " Maybe it plays a styling role."
It's obviously a very simple statement, but when Yingzi said it, it was inexplicably funny. The key is, we never say bad things in secret, we all say them face to face.
Zhang Ziyi herself was right next to her. She was smiling and trying her best to maintain the demeanor of a female star. Compared to Yingzi's arrogance, she looked more like someone from 24K Pure Vanity Fair.
Courtyard No. 2, the fun gathering place, is a remake of "I Want to Fall in Love, Really Want to Fall in Love" from "Sex and the City" 20 years ago. "Fucking fart", "Who signed me up", "This is simply alarmist", etc. Here it is. Although
is a character, her demeanor, tone, and bad temper seem to be tailor-made for Yingzi. After all, she is also someone who has left famous quotes on Weibo. Is there a perfect echo?
The next step is to make a lot of fools of yourself at various award ceremonies.
Others walked on the red carpet with dignified manners, and she was full of secrets;
Others held the trophy with pear blossoms in the rain, and she couldn't help but "hahaha" after thinking about it for a long time;
's acceptance speech was not easy to explain, and she even turned on the matchmaking mode, saying that she gave In the audience, Jay Chou and Stefanie Sun have been paired together. They really don't hold back their mouths when they are happy.
That’s not all. There were also many famous scenes at the concert, and none of the guests or the audience could “survive the disaster.” When
introduced Eric Tsang, she had to mention, "I heard he harassed Hong Kong ladies some time ago." When someone went to the stage to lay flowers, she didn't forget to add, "Stay away from me," not leaving any face to the other party.
shook hands with the audience during the interactive session. It was originally a warm and beautiful scene, but it was broken by Yingzi's words "Give me the ring back and pick it up." You see, it has always been her regular style to play cards that don't follow common sense.
Okay, let’s summarize it here for the time being, otherwise this article will become a "Collection of Interesting Things About Na Ying in Those Years".
She has been around for too long and has left too many famous scenes. Although I can't help but laugh out loud every time I see it, but after I finish laughing, I think: Is it really okay for her to do this? How did she survive being so outspoken and so popular?
survival tips? no, it's cute secrets
Looking back at those famous scenes, although Na Ying often made offensive remarks to the media and peers, you found that most of the time, when you were involved in them, you didn't feel annoying.
At the award ceremony, an old lady held the trophy and let out a simple laugh, and matched it with the younger singer Lalang. Did you feel that the dull air became lively? Sitting in the audience, your waist is no longer sore and your eyelids are no longer fighting!
When faced with a male colleague who was suspected of having a history of harassment, she would never condone it and would directly preemptively say ugly things about him. How could this not be a benchmark for rectifying the workplace?
During the concert, there was nothing wrong with picking up the ring after it fell off. Maybe it was borrowed, maybe it was valuable, maybe it had a very important styling role in the next performance... In short, your sister just couldn't do it. In order to take care of face and atmosphere, you ignore the interests that you care about most at the moment.
As for the media asking about Zhang Huimei’s boyfriend, she immediately turned away and made a stern face. Anyone with a discerning eye could see that she was not trying to show off to the media, but was pointing the finger at A-mei’s boyfriend. She was fighting for a good friend.
and the most famous one, she was very aggressive and rude to Zhang Ziyi, but you wouldn’t think she was bullying because she was a professional and experienced singer, and neither was the other person. What a little girl, she didn't bully the weak, but dared to fight hard to defend her profession.
This just shows that she is very brave, confident enough in singing, and has enough awe.
So to sum up, what is difficult for her to survive in ? She almost has all the important qualities to survive in society, okay?
is generous enough, principled enough, and has a sense of boundaries. He knows how to protect himself and those around him.
At the same time, she is healthy enough and will not ignore her own needs or suppress her emotions because of human sophistication. In front of her burning true temperament, all human relationships and rules must be put aside. Internal friction is absolutely a problem. It has nothing to do with your sister. Not to mention
, her professional strength is still so strong. I said it before when I wrote about Hao Lei, if a talented and accomplished person in the industry doesn't dare to rant or can't straighten his back and amplify his voice to say a few words, then who should he give up the right to speak to? Are those bad coins that have no real ability and a strong sense of deservingness?
Na Ying looks crazy, but she has the capital to be crazy;
Na Ying seems to be outspoken, but in fact her so-called outspoken words are all within a reasonable range.
She almost never acts deliberately for the purpose of suppressing others, but often out of the need to defend her personal interests or her whim, she needs to say this or wants to say this, and then she says it.
is like a monkey. She wants to fight back when she is beaten, defend when she encounters danger, and dance when she eats delicious food. All of these are her natural reactions as a living creature.
It has to be said that this kind of "nature" is actually rare in human society.
People have been subject to various constraints and disciplines since birth, such as listening to their mother's words, being able to watch people's words, being a person who is not a disappointment, and being a person who is in line with the times...
Countless dogmas are wrapped up in instincts, and countless "You should" buries "I want" and "I feel". As a result, sanctimonious, pretentious, and forward-looking people can be seen everywhere. There are not so many people like Na Ying who do what they want without restraint, pretense, or shrinking. .
She has unrestrained emotions and wants to win without hiding them. She looks like a wild horse running wild, but she has never caused any big trouble because of losing control (otherwise she would not have been able to dominate the Chinese music scene for thirty years). On the contrary, it is a habit. People who suppress their emotions will suddenly have a nuclear-weapon-level explosion.
Human nature is like this. The more it is exposed, the more flexible it is; the more it is ignored, the more dark beasts it breeds.
So when we laugh endlessly at those famous scenes, when we affectionately call Na Ying Yingzi, we are actually casting a precious vote for that stretched vitality.
This vote includes the rejection of hypocrisy and internal friction, as well as the expectation for ideal self and ideal relationship.Who doesn’t want to have such a wonderful friend by his side, and who doesn’t want to live a more casual and casual life?
is full of vitality and can always be the reason why a person is liked.
"Being liked" is a kind of super power
After reading this, some people may say: Oh, the key is to sing well. Without strength, what's the use of having a lovable personality?
I don't think so.
does not have superior singing ability. With her lovable personality, I believe she will also become a unique variety show star;
is not to mention that the two are not separated in the first place. Her bold personality and stretch of vitality can be used for singing. Style blessing, above a certain skill level, the singer's temperament and the song's temperament are inherently complementary and integrated.
Whether it is Faye Wong or Na Ying, their success is not only due to a good voice, but also due to the strong recognition formed by the combination of singers and singers.
There is a deep-rooted prejudice that really should be overturned: strength is important, but the power of "likability" cannot be underestimated, and you must not think that you are worthy of being liked only if you have strength.
This is just like having money does not necessarily lead to love; success does not necessarily lead to sincerity. Being likable is a very mysterious thing and has nothing to do with hard power.
You may be liked if you are lively and cheerful, and you may also be liked if you are melancholy and coquettish; you may be liked if you are positive, and you may also be liked if you are lazy and casual; you may be liked if you are serious and carefree; you may be liked if you are refined and elegant, grounded You can be liked even if you are angry; you can be liked if you are tall, rich and handsome, you can be liked even if you are a loser...
seems to find its own audience with different characteristics. Is "being liked" really a metaphysics?
In fact, there are rules, that is - be yourself.
Due to the various influences of nature and nurture, everyone has his own configuration. The more you can discover your true self and the more you dare to be yourself, the more you will be able to attract people who like you. In other words, as long as you are real and unique, there will always be someone who uses you as a mirror and projects his or her "heart's desire" from it.
Even if it’s just a small group, no one can guarantee that they will like you forever, but this naturally occurring relationship of attraction and being attracted is very precious and very sticky, and it will give the person you like the appeal. , will also give people who like others an inexplicable sense of direction.
Isn’t this how the idol industry came about?
is followed by everyone for money just because he is young and beautiful, because he carries the throbbing of hormones; he can only sing and dance mediocrely, but he has been a top performer for more than ten years. The mood of the times is closely aligned.
You must know that ’s admiration and appreciation for skills are extremely superficial, and true love that is heart-wrenching is the result of subconscious collision and blending.
So, excellence is definitely good, but trying to make people like you by becoming excellent and awesome is a path destined to be unsolvable, and it is a choice only fools make.
Don’t be a slave to excellence
The underlying logic of “become excellent and you will be liked” is: I am impeccable, I am flawless, I am a victorious general, I am Doraemon’s all-purpose pocket, you can’t find fault with me , then you can’t live without me?
You taste it, you taste it carefully. Is there a deep fear hidden under this logic: If I am no longer good, if I don’t have a perfect armor to protect me, then no one will like me with all my flaws?
Here, excellence is actually a kind of disguise, used to cover up the ugly nature. Under the improvement, it is the non-acceptance of self, and the low self-esteem that if I don't do something, I am nothing.
Who would like a cold armor? Who would like a machine that runs efficiently?
Na Ying's teacher Gu Jianfen has a famous "judgment" about her - she has a good voice but also a pig brain.
Just imagine, if Na Ying is a person with a low degree of self-acceptance, then she will have to work hard to make up for her shortcomings. She must speak carefully and carefully, and she will not dare to joke or roll her eyes. She seems to be stable and dignified, but is that still her? Can she still become the number one meme king in domestic entertainment in a few years?
's obsession with correcting his natural shortcomings is tantamount to self-castration, and it is also equivalent to personally cutting off the possibility of being liked by others.
There is another kind of "excellence" that is even more disappointing, and that is - the so-called excellence is not the excellence you want at all. A typical example of
is that what university you go to, what major you study, and what job you do are all controlled by your parents. They plan your life according to what they think is an excellent template, completely ignoring your wishes and talents.
Then you gradually become a hollow person. No matter how great your achievements are, it seems to have nothing to do with you. No matter how many flowers and applause you give, they can't really touch your heartstrings, because you feel that others are just praising a gorgeous body. Rather than the living you.
In short, when excellence becomes a fig leaf or a cage, it will only distance people further and prevent heart-to-heart relationships from happening. Then the parties involved will live in falsehood and loneliness for a long time, and even more Forget about exercising your right to “be liked.”
Epilogue
wrote about Faye Wong about half a year ago, and his evaluation of her at that time was - let nature take its course.
was shocked again today. In fact, her good friend Na Ying is also a very natural person. Isn’t that what it is? One hates pretense, and the other hates cupping. If they hadn't been so "compatible", they wouldn't have become good sisters.
Stay natural, stretch your longboard naturally, be lazy naturally, be stupid naturally, love naturally, hate naturally. This may not lead to great achievements, but it will definitely make you happy and full of energy, and continue to attract you. Friends on the same frequency.
's ability to be liked by others comes precisely from the fact that he never wants to be liked for the sake of being liked; similarly, the pursuit of excellence is first because he wants to pursue it, not to be worshiped or to reflect his functionality.
is like the classic line in the recent hit drama "My Altay": "Look at the trees and grass on this grassland. If there are cows to eat and people to use, they are called useful. If no one uses them, they are useful." It’s good to just stay on the grassland like this, it’s free, isn’t it? ”
Only by living naturally can you maximize your energy accumulation; learning to live naturally is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Author: Miss Bovary
Follow me, read people's hearts and interpret customs in the entertainment world.
