Do you still remember the "14-year-old girl in Changsha was bullied to the point of cutting her wrists to survive" that happened a few days ago?
Liu, a third-year junior high school girl, was beaten by several students, including Yan Mouhan. The beating methods included slapping and kicking her head. The entire beating process lasted for more than an hour. Later, Yan Mouhan and others asked to "change places." In order to avoid being beaten more violently, Liu had no choice but to pick up glass fragments on the ground and cut his own throat. attempted to use Kill yourself to get the bully to stop. As a result, the bullies beat Liu even more violently after seeing him slit his throat.
Later, after a hospital examination, Liu suffered multiple open wounds on his wrists and neck, facial contusions, and scalp edema after being beaten, and was identified as a minor injury of Level 2.
I thought this incident would be over after being handed over to the relevant departments. Unexpectedly, the father of Yan Mouhan, the "leader" of the small bullying group, refused. He said that a group of people beat him up after being uploaded online. Liu's video is inconsistent with the facts. The nature of the two parties should be a fight, and the injury was determined to be caused by self-inflicted injuries. Now that Liu's family has reported the crime, Yan's father is also very dissatisfied with his daughter being called to cooperate with the investigation many times. He also said that Yan Mouhan and Liu were best friends, and the "mutual fight" was a "word thing" between girls.
Then, the beaten girl Liu also spoke out about the matter. She said that starting from the summer vacation of 2023, Yan Mouhan often brought a group of people to beat her. On one occasion, Yan Mouhan hit Liu on the head with the heel of a high-heeled shoe, causing Liu a head injury and requiring three stitches.
Liu’s father also said that there was no fighting. Because Yan Mouhan not only beat Liu, but also made a video of the beating process and posted it on Moments. There is such a video in . Liu is sitting on the ground with disheveled hair. Yan Mouhan and several other girls take turns stepping forward to kick Liu.
Bully the younger ones, beat them frequently, beat them and make videos to humiliate them. If this series of actions are defined as mutual beatings by Yan Mouhan’s father, I don’t know how to define bullying?
Now, the results of the treatment of Liu being bullied by Yan Mouhan and others have come out. Yan Mouhan and another bully will be sent to a vocational school to receive one year of corrective education. also participated This bullying incident was not dealt with by anyone under the age of 15.
Don't ask what "no treatment opinion" means. It means that he is not old enough and cannot even be sent to a vocational school to receive one year of corrective education.
At this moment, I really want to snort.
Especially when they saw Yan Mouhan's father's attitude towards his daughter's bullying, many netizens became even more angry. They left messages saying that finally knew why Yan Mouhan acted so wantonly in school. After all, there was a confused person standing behind him. The father of right and wrong. The old father has such a wrong outlook on life. How can his child’s outlook on life be so upright?
You must know that many parents worry about whether their children will be bullied when they send them to school, but they rarely worry about whether their children will bully others. It’s pitiful to be the bullied, but isn’t it sad to be the bully? allows children to "not be bullied by others, but they cannot bully others". This should be a two-way education!
Many people have found a pattern after summarizing various bullying incidents. Those who are bullied often appear as "soft persimmons". Because they dare not resist after being bullied or do not know how to resist, they become bullies. The target of bullying is "more willing" to bully. While bullying the weak, the bully does not have to worry about the other party's resistance and can also enjoy the pleasure of making the other party surrender. Therefore, once a camp between the bully and the bullied is formed, this relationship will continue.
In addition, the reason why bullies are arrogant and domineering is closely related to school and family education.First of all, for schools, performance comes first. While pursuing teaching, too many schools ignore the importance of moral education; secondly, schools and teachers lack corresponding measures to deal with disputes between minors. The attitude of "deal with it" or "don't deal with it" makes bullies more unscrupulous; then, family factors are also crucial. Many bullies' parents are accustomed to using violence to deal with disputes, and their children have been exposed to it since childhood. For example, although some bullies are arrogant in school, they are often punished by their parents at home because of performance problems. Finally, it is also related to the "protecting the calf" behavior of some parents. As mentioned before, some parents only care about whether their children are bullied, but do not care whether they bully others. Being unclear about right and wrong, and not being able to distinguish between right and wrong, also contributes to the bad culture of bullies.
