German Internet celebrity Ah Fu and his Chinese wife Julie
created short videos that became popular due to cultural differences.
has accumulated tens of millions of fans.
The two announced their divorce on April 1, which sparked heated discussions among netizens.
Some people understand and support,
thinks they face their feelings honestly, and
some people question the hype.
html On April 29, @ Julie sister julie posted a video chat to end her 12-year marriage with Ah Fu. Julie said: I feel very brave. I finally made up my mind to leave a marriage that seemed stable to outsiders. I finally chose to follow my heart and left the so-called halo of being a wife. I no longer wanted to be suffocated by this identity. I no longer wanted to drown myself, criticize myself, or even deny myself because of this identity. We don’t have those bloody dramas spread on the Internet, and I am still very grateful to him for his companionship and tolerance over the past 12 years.She said frankly, "I still love him, but I have to learn to love myself first, otherwise my love will come with expectations and prayers for return. This 12-year marriage has not been able to give us a complete life because of my birth defects. But now I am very happy that this is God's love for us, because he hopes that when we turn around and leave, we can both be more free and easy. I admit that it is not easy to get over an unforgettable relationship, and I am slowly healing myself. .
German Internet celebrity Ah Fu and his Chinese wife Julie
created short videos that became popular due to cultural differences.
has accumulated tens of millions of fans.
The two announced their divorce on April 1, which sparked heated discussions among netizens.
Some people understand and support,
thinks they face their feelings honestly, and
some people question the hype.
html On April 29, @ Julie sister julie posted a video chat to end her 12-year marriage with Ah Fu. Julie said: I feel very brave. I finally made up my mind to leave a marriage that seemed stable to outsiders. I finally chose to follow my heart and left the so-called halo of being a wife. I no longer wanted to be suffocated by this identity. I no longer wanted to drown myself, criticize myself, or even deny myself because of this identity. We don’t have those bloody dramas spread on the Internet, and I am still very grateful to him for his companionship and tolerance over the past 12 years.She said frankly, "I still love him, but I have to learn to love myself first, otherwise my love will come with expectations and prayers for return. This 12-year marriage has not been able to give us a complete life because of my birth defects. But now I am very happy that this is God's love for us, because he hopes that when we turn around and leave, we can both be more free and easy. I admit that it is not easy to get over an unforgettable relationship, and I am slowly healing myself. ."
[Previous report]
When he first came to Shanghai in 2007,
the German boy Afu fell in love with it.
decided "I must live in China in the future."
In 2011,
he went to Tongji University to study as an exchange student.
He came to Fudan University to study
again, and during this period he met the other half of his life
- his Shanghai wife Julie (real name Zhuli Ping)
So
Afu and Julie took
the Chinese cat "Steamed Bun" and the German cat "Bread"
formed a Chinese-Western home in Shanghai
Ah Fu and his wife got married in Shanghai (Picture source: Jiemian News)
In March 2016,
Ah Fu posted an article titled
"Complaining about a foreigner marrying a Chinese wife.
Yes "How do you feel?" video
In the video, he plays multiple roles
Wearing a wig and pretending to be mother-in-law to promote marriage and give birth
Acting as father-in-law, playing poker and mahjong
He also imitates his wife buying jewelry
and planning a trip
to complain about "foreign sons-in-law" The interesting things and dilemmas
encountered after marrying into a Chinese family
Ah Fu’s lively performance
and fluent Shanghainese
were in sharp contrast with his foreign appearance
The video also quickly became popular on the Internet
This started the relationship between Ah Fu and his wife
The career path of self-media in making short videos
The video has received 500,000 views on site b
Ridiculing the interesting story of being a "foreign son-in-law"
Telling the story of German parents living in China.
It is the highlight of Afu's early short videos
Subsequently, he gradually broadened the theme of his works
and produced many videos about Chinese food and tourism
as well as introducing German customs
His humorous style, cross-cultural collision
and his understanding and love for Chinese culture
have won him the love of many netizens The main reason
After gradually cultivating a group of loyal fans
Afu's creation is no longer limited to this
He turned his attention to Shanghai's society and culture
For example, after Shanghai implemented garbage classification in 2019
Afu's work among the people The square conducted a garbage classification test for passers-by
and used four-category Internet celebrity trash cans as prizes
to popularize garbage classification knowledge
In addition,
he also began to pay attention to
ordinary people working hard in Shanghai
and took the camera The delivery man who met at three in the morning
The online ride-hailing driver who returned home thousands of miles to take care of his children
and the young Hu Piao couple
After several years of savings
Afu has gained over 10 million fans on all platforms
△ Ah Fu released a video in 2019, telling the story of Xiao Zhou, an online ride-hailing driver, who drove all the way from Shanghai to his hometown in Jiangxi to meet his children.
However,
No matter how loving a couple is, there will still be conflicts.
As short video bloggers
Ah Fu and Julie’s Personal time
and working time are inseparable
When the two people quarreled most seriously
they had reached the point where they had to hire a lawyer
to sign for divorce
After a certain quarrel
the two decided to put Ah Fu's weight loss on the agenda
At that time Ah Fu Her weight has reached 280 kilograms
She has severe fatty liver
Her cardiopulmonary function has also been affected
In order to be healthy and prepare for pregnancy
Afu began to change her eating habits
combined with appropriate strength exercises
She successfully lost 120 kilograms in three years
Comparison of Ah Fu before and after losing weight
After witnessing each other's transformation
The relationship between Julie and Ah Fu heated up again
In 2022
The two went to Paris to spend a romantic tenth wedding anniversary
Once again won the envy and blessings of netizens
"How to stay in love for a long time"
has also become a topic of endless discussion in the comment area
In January 2023
Julie announced
that she was admitted to Germany's top business school
and started her career of studying in Germany
Half a year later
Julie
, who seemed optimistic and cheerful, suddenly revealed that she was suffering from depression
and almost opened the window and jumped from the 14th floor
Julie described the pain of suffering from depression
In addition,
"Married for ten years without children" has always been a problem. There was an unavoidable knot between the two.
After many efforts to no avail
, they were constantly laughed at by relatives and friends.
For this reason,
Julie went to get artificial insemination injections.
The pain was so painful that she collapsed and cried. Relevant video posted by Li on Weibo
On February 8 this year
he was still sharing the twists and turns he had experienced with Julie in a brisk tone
Who would have expected that two months later he would say "we are separated"
Netizens who were still addicted to CP were instantly disillusioned
Some people were in regret and shock and refused to believe
Some people felt that the separation of the two had already been foreshadowed
Various speculations about the reasons for their divorce
also occupied the accounts of Ah Fu and Julie. Comment area
Source: Comprehensive Pear Video, Micro Shanghai, Jiemian News, International Pai, Shangguan News, Netizen Comments