" Spring Beauty Sends Love to My Lover ", after the photo of Zhuang Jie forcefully kissing Chen Maidong at the station was posted on WeChat Moments, Liao Tao confidently believed that his daughter would not do anything like a passionate kiss at the train station.
But the facts soon hit her in the face. When Liao Tao found out that Zhuang Jie was the heroine in the photo, it was like a bolt from the blue. Liao Tao was so angry that she was shaking all over and wanted to rush up and tear Zhuang Jie and Chen Maidong apart with her own hands.
Regarding the relationship between Zhuang Jie and Chen Maidong, Liao Tao believes that Chen Maidong's family is not healthy, and Zhuang Jie has experienced a lot since childhood, and is worried that even if the two fall in love, there will be no beginning or end.
Later, Chen Maidong’s ex-girlfriend Song Yi suddenly returned to Nanping Town and was recognized by her neighbors while buying cooked food. Liao Tao learned that she was Chen Maidong's ex-girlfriend, and his mood became very bad. After much thought, he decided to talk to Zhuang Jie and ask about her relationship with Chen Maidong.
Zhuang Jie answered truthfully and said that love is not always for the purpose of marriage. However, Liao Tao did not agree with her view of love and opposed being a hooligan in the name of freedom and openness. Once pregnant, she would be disrespectful to herself and others. Responsibility, mother and daughter had disagreements.
Zhuang Jie said this, but did she really think so?
Because her younger sister He Niao Niao wanted to give gifts to her classmates, Zhuang Jie asked Chen Maidong for help and found that he was very clever. In Chen Maidong's room, Zhuang Jie saw Chen Maidong's ex-girlfriend's belongings, but she said she didn't mind, thinking that everyone has a past and just cherish the present. Besides, she will return to Shanghai soon, and there is not much sweet time left with Chen Maidong. many.
Although Zhuang Jie said so, she still couldn't restrain herself later and went to the beach to catch Chen Maidong and Song Yi cheating.
On the way to catch the rapist, Zhuang Jie's mind was full of thoughts, all of which were scenes of Chen Maidong and Song Yi's entanglement. However, when Zhuang Jie knocked on the door, there was no Chen Maidong inside, but Song Yi and his husband.
After failing to catch the traitor, Zhuang Jie returned home and took the initiative to send a message to Chen Maidong. She sincerely admired Chen Maidong for being able to calm down and stay in the small town after seeing the bustling scene.
In contrast, Zhuang Jie felt that she was still unable to overcome her deep-seated inferiority complex and needed to rely on many things to arm and prove herself, so it was difficult to make changes in a short period of time. Chen Maidong replied to her and asked her to be herself. Chen Maidong's words made Zhuang Jie feel warm in her heart.
I have said before that Zhuang Jie lost her father in her early years and one of her legs is still disabled. For her, both her family and herself have lost their integrity. Stepfather He Zhangyue was very kind to Zhuang Jie, and the family was very harmonious. However, due to the unfortunate death of He Zhangyue, the re-established family also lost its integrity.
In addition, the gossips in the town are talking about Liao Tao Kefu, Liao Tao Kefu, and his daughter may also be Kefu. In this way, there was a gap in Zhuang Jie's psychological integrity.
The integrity of her family, body, and spirit are all in trouble. Zhuang Jie needs more external things to rebuild her integrity and look for substitutes that can replace her own imperfections.
The love between Zhuang Jie and Chen Maidong is indeed beautiful. However, the better it is, the more Zhuang Jie wants to keep it forever. The more you want to have it forever, the more you fear losing it. The result of fear of losing is that you dare not expect to have it forever. Therefore, Zhuang Jie activated her psychological defense mechanism again, deceiving herself and saying that all she wanted was the process of falling in love and cherishing the beauty of the moment.
Why do you say that Zhuang Jie is deceiving himself? If she hadn't deceived herself and others, Zhuang Jie would not have caught Chen Maidong and Song Yi cheating. Zhuang Jie's concept of free love is, in essence, no different from her mother Liao Tao's traditional concept of love. It's just because of Zhuang Jie's deep-seated lack of confidence that she adopted a psychological reverse formation. Saying grapes are sour when you can't eat them is also a reverse formation.
In real life, what a person lacks is what he cares about most. Whatever you care about most in your heart, you will care less about in your mouth. Many things require looking beyond the surface to see the essence.
Zhuang Jie's sales performance, needless to say, is to use a new external thing to replace one's own incompleteness, so as to rebuild the psychological balance.
The reason why many outstanding figures, especially some scientific figures who have made significant contributions, have psychological or physical disabilities is the reason above.
Zhuang Jie's boss, Ji Tong, suggested that Zhuang Jie work hard to get more money and a higher status, so as to gain the recognition of his family, which is essentially the same.
Everyone knows that the way of heaven is a balancing mechanism, and the way of heaven is reflected in society, which is psychological balance. In reality, many women are beautiful but brainless, and many men are ugly but have successful careers. A good man has no good wife, and a good girl sleeps with her clumsy husband. The boss has low education, but his subordinates are all highly educated. These are all balancing mechanisms. Only in this way can people's psychology be generally balanced. With psychological balance, people's hearts will be stable, and when their hearts are stable, their families and society will be stable.
Zhuang Jie is kind, beautiful and smart, but physically disabled. Liao Tao is also a kind and capable person. He Zhangyue is also very kind and treats Zhuang Jie and Zhuang Yan very well. The re-established family is happy. However, because of He Zhangyue's death, the happy family was incomplete. The reason why He Zhangyue died suddenly was not Liao Taokefu, but a certain balancing mechanism.
Why do Zhuang Jie and Chen Maidong definitely come together in the end? It is also the balancing mechanism at work. Chen Maidong is handsome but engaged in body plastic surgery, and Zhuang Jie is beautiful but physically disabled. No matter how sweet their relationship is, others are mentally balanced, and they are also mentally balanced with each other.
