" Spring Beauty Sends Love to My Lover " Hot search on death education: Death is not the end, but another new life.
Chen Maidong, a corpse plastic surgeon played by Li Xian, with a calm face, talks about death, although the core is very different from previous funeral film and television works such as " Life Events " and "Sanyue Has a New Job". Not bad, but it still made many viewers think.
Among them, one sentence with great staying power is -
"The death of someone close to us may be a signal from God to remind us that after the most reliable barrier disappears, sooner or later it will be our turn. Precisely because life is limited, we should work harder to live, create, and love. "
Parents are the curtain between us and death.
As parents, we always feel that we are children. Our understanding of death is abstract, and we cannot even feel the crisis of approaching death.
But once our parents leave, the wall between us and death disappears, and we can basically clearly see our end.
It’s not about age, it’s about experience.
This is probably the reason why the death education in "Spring to Love" directly touches the audience's inspiration: to understand death, not to be afraid of death, and to cherish the people around you.
In addition to death education, the lines about having children and the relationship between parents and children in "Spring Love" also triggered heated discussions: "Is having children a selfish desire or a merit?"
In the play, Liu Lin Liao Tao, the mother who plays the role, said: "Who is right about filial piety? When you say having children, they are all selfish desires and not meritorious. If the parents are decent, they can walk around, and if they are not qualified, they can hide. It saves bad luck."
Some viewers said that some parents thought it was a merit: "The parents of the previous generation felt that they were always right, and they felt that it was a merit that they gave their children life. "
There are also quite a few. Many viewers thought it was private and shared the case, which resonated with netizens.
shared a conversation with his child on a netizen: "I asked my child, is it okay for your mother to give birth to you and see the world? She replied that it would be okay. It proves that if she has a choice, she does not have to come to this world. Then I gave birth to her just out of selfish desire."
Comments on this case resonated a lot: "I am in my 30s, and if I had a choice, I would rather my parents not give birth to me."
Some netizens also talked about having children. This is the understanding of selfish desires: "Most ordinary couples have children to protect themselves from old age. Rich people have children to inherit their parents' family business. In short, it will not be 100% out of love. If they are so selfless, they will not say 'I How to raise a child like you? In the eyes of some people, having children is an investment, but most people subconsciously don’t want to admit it. Parents say they don’t ask for anything in return, but try it and see how they feel if you don’t.”
has been discussed and discussed. In fact, there is no standard answer. After all, everyone has their own understanding.
However, when it comes to filial piety, the audience is quite unified: decent parents move around more, and unqualified parents stay far away.
Do you think having children is a selfish desire?
