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In Hefei, Anhui, a 60-year-old mother risked her life to get pregnant and gave birth to twin girls, which has always been the focus of public opinion. Now 74 years old, she has been hit hard in the past two years. First, she was defrauded of her hard-earned money to raise her children, and then her husband suddenly fell ill and died in December 2022.
What is even more surprising is that 16 months after the death of her lover, Sheng Hailin broke the news to the author, saying that her husband died in the hospital or due to abnormal circumstances. The author was quite shocked to learn the news. Sheng Hailin said that after her husband passed away, as a general practitioner, she was worried about her husband's treatment and rescue process, and she always suspected that there was something wrong with her husband's rescue process. At present, she has taken the hospital to court, and the preliminary investigation has ended, and will soon enter the trial stage.
After the death of her eldest daughter Yingying in 2010, Sheng Hailin took the risk of getting pregnant and successfully gave birth to twin daughters, Zhizhi and Huihui. Now, the two daughters are about to celebrate their 14th birthday. Sheng Hailin's arduous journey of raising her for 14 years has made her feel the happiness of her mother again. However, deep in her heart, the figure of her eldest daughter still occasionally passes by.
Looking back on the past, Sheng Hailin still lamented that if she could turn back time, she might not have given birth to the twins. In 1980, Sheng Hailin's eldest daughter Yingying was born and became the couple's favorite. For her, Sheng Hailin spent 5,000 yuan saved over the years to buy a piano, which was considered a luxury at the time. After Yingying entered elementary school, her husband went out to work, and the mother and daughter depended on each other. In 1998, Yingying was admitted to the university and lived on campus. She missed her family beyond words. After Sheng Hailin retired in 2005, she placed the meaning of her entire life on her daughter.
However, in September 2008, her daughter entered the marriage hall. Sheng Hailin originally thought that she could enjoy her old age in peace. Unexpectedly, on the fifth day of the first lunar month in 2009, her daughter and her son-in-law died of gas poisoning. Sheng Hailin was tortured and even lost her hope for life. courage. In order to comfort her, her relatives and friends suggested that she have another child or try in vitro fertilization surgery. These words gave Sheng Hailin the idea of trying. Although she knew the madness and danger of this decision, she finally chose to move forward.
In March 2009, Sheng Hailin embarked on a journey to seek in vitro fertilization. She first consulted in Beijing, but was told that she was too old and advised not to try. Then she turned to experts in Nanjing, but was rejected. Until July 2009, she found a hospital in Hefei. The doctor was moved by her persistence and agreed to perform in vitro fertilization surgery for her.
Subsequently, Sheng Hailin began to take care of herself according to the doctor's instructions. After her body's various functions recovered well, she underwent in vitro fertilization surgery on the morning of October 13, 2009. On May 25, 2010, when Sheng Hailin was more than seven months pregnant, twin daughters Zhizhi and Huihui were born, making Sheng Hailin the oldest mother in China at the time.
The birth of Zhizhi and Huihui completely changed the life rhythm of the entire family. Although Sheng Hailin became a mother again, this process attracted widespread attention at home and abroad, and for a while supporters and opponents argued endlessly.
However, life is not easy. Sheng Hailin recalled the years of raising twin daughters, which were full of hardships and bitterness. The two children need money to support their lives. From medical treatment to milk powder to hiring a nanny, the monthly expenses are tens of thousands. The child was still young at the time, and she was already over 60 years old, but she had to travel around to make a living, working outside for more than 200 days a year, just to give her child a carefree future.
However, fate always likes to make some jokes. In 2015, after Sheng Hailin's lover suffered a stroke, the burden fell entirely on her. Her time away from home was drastically reduced, and she could only rely on her husband and her own pension to maintain her daily life.
Sheng Hailin used to be an experienced general practitioner before she retired. Although her lover suffered a stroke, she gradually returned to normal life under the care of her and her nanny. She had no problem walking with a cane, even though she had heart problems several times. Sheng Hailin was able to find out in time, send her to the hospital for treatment in time, and come back safely.
However, this time on December 4, 2022, her lover said he had heart discomfort. Sheng Hailin sent him to the hospital but never came back. What makes Sheng Hailin even more unable to extricate herself is that she was not by her side when her lover left. 20 minutes ago, her lover was still talking to her on the phone with a loud voice, saying that he wanted to eat steamed buns. 20 minutes later, she received a call from the doctor saying that her lover was not alive.
Sheng Hailin still had tears in her eyes when talking about the departure of her lover. She said that December 4, 2022 was a Sunday, and her two daughters who were studying in private schools were going back to school at 5:00 in the evening. At about 10:00 in the morning, Her lover forcefully closed the door at home and soon developed heart discomfort. Sheng Hailin gave him medicine. At about 1 p.m., his heart still felt uncomfortable, so Sheng Hailin decided to send her lover to the hospital.
Sheng Hailin thought that she would send her two children back to school soon, and send her lover to the hospital to drink some water, take some medicine, and recover. So she immediately called 120. Sheng Hailin said that her lover was wearing her own clothes and went to the bathroom. She went downstairs on crutches and got into the ambulance. After
arrived at the hospital, he went to the hospital emergency room and was treated according to his history of heart disease. He was given oxygen, put on a mask, and was given some blood-vasodilating drugs. At that time, his wife was in a good state of mind.
"After I stayed with the hospital for more than 4 and a half hours, considering that the child was still at home, the nanny at home had to get off work, and my lover could only be admitted to the hospital after taking relevant tests and had to wait half an hour. I saw that he Everything was very good, and he himself told me that the hospital had found a chaperone and that he would no longer accompany him and asked me to go home and see the child, so I left," Sheng Hailin said.
Sheng Hailin said that ten minutes after she got home, the hospital called her husband to tell her that her blood oxygen saturation was a little low and she might need to be put on a ventilator. "I was very surprised at the time. I asked what the blood oxygen saturation is now. The doctor said 85%. It should be said that 85% of the blood oxygen saturation is low. I think it comes from its heart, which does not supply blood and oxygen well. The problem was not that big. "
" It was already evening. My wife said he was so hungry that he didn't eat at noon or at night. He wanted some steamed buns, so I asked the escort to buy them quickly. About 20 minutes later, I called. They called me quickly and told me to go to the hospital quickly, saying that my lover’s breathing and heartbeat had stopped. They had been rescuing him for 20 minutes. I was stunned when I heard that. As a clinician who has been working for decades, I am also a general practitioner. , I was eating buns on the phone just now, my voice was so loud, how could something like this happen suddenly? "
" When I rushed over with my daughter, I saw him lying there, but I didn't see any rescue measures. My hands seemed to be massaging the chest several times, but there was no infusion or any rescue. The electrocardiogram I saw showed an arrhythmia, and ventricular fibrillation is often a symptom of the heart before death. I asked if there was any electric shock, and the doctor said. The electric shock passed. My mind went blank when I witnessed this situation. "
"I am very surprised. As a doctor with decades of clinical experience, a patient who is also the father of my own dearest child should have this problem. Why didn't I notice this kind of dying situation? I don't know what I did wrong? When a patient discovered dangerous symptoms, he had more or less premonitory symptoms. "
" His voice spoke to me on the phone. Hong Liang was hungry and wanted to eat steamed buns. When I left him, his lips were not cyanotic, his breathing was steady, and his limbs were not swollen. For a person with a heart disease, how could such a situation suddenly occur, and the breathing and heartbeat suddenly stop? I was in a hurry to handle the matter, and my two children were in tears. "
" At 12:00 in the evening, someone from the funeral home picked up my wife and said goodbye. I brought him his favorite military uniform to wear. On my body, my lover is very calm, as if he is asleep."
" Later I kept thinking, what on earth did my lover experience in just 20 minutes? Two months later, the hospital asked me to go and get the medical records. Only then did I see the rescue records. It took less than two hours for him to be admitted to the ward and only a few hours for him to go to the emergency room. He asked the escort to buy steamed buns for him to eat. , walked for 20 minutes, and when I came back to buy the buns, there was no one left. "
" I found the problem from the medical records. They put him on a ventilator according to respiratory failure. The ventilator is a third-level surgery. Third-level surgery requires a full-time person and must be operated by a professional doctor. I don't know this person. Are the doctors qualified? Anesthesia must be given when putting on a ventilator, and anesthesia also requires a full-time anesthesiologist. Does the anesthesiologist have any qualifications? Is there any problem with the anesthetic dosage? "
" I have a few questions: My spouse has never had respiratory infection or respiratory failure in the lungs. He only has a heart problem. Why should he be intubated? Why use a ventilator? Why use anesthetics? Do anesthesiologists have qualification certificates? Is the amount you used correct? He has a heart problem, the ventilator is a respiratory system problem, and the heart problem is a circulatory system problem. These two systems are not the same thing at all. "
Sheng Hailin told the author that in June 2023, she found a lawyer to file a lawsuit, and the court filed the case in less than a week. As of today, the case has been classified as a medical damage case. According to Xiong Fei, the attorney in the case, in During the investigation of the case, it was discovered that the hospital’s medical records did not have original files and were electronic files, which meant they were in a draft state. In this case, medical records could be modified at any time. In medical damage cases, such medical records cannot be used as evidence
. In this case, Sheng Hailin asked the hospital to issue qualification certificates for several doctors involved in treatment and rescue, but they have not yet been submitted. A pre-trial conference has been held on the case, and the date for the trial has not yet been determined.
Sheng Hailin said that she is now 74 years old. , the death of my lover on December 4, 2022, completely disrupted the family’s life rhythm, not only causing a loss of family affection to the two underage twin daughters, but also causing financial losses. “The father of the child belongs to our family. The main financial support, and the worry of two underage children. When I was 60 years old, I gave birth to a pair of twins. The couple agreed to watch our daughters start a family and get married. However, everything was ruined. Even if the hospital could lose money, it would not be possible. There is no way to undo the family's pain. "Original works, any form of reproduction is strictly prohibited, infringement will be prosecuted.