When I watched the show before, I was afraid that Zhu Dan would say one more word. Now when I watch the show, I am afraid that Zhu Dan won’t say enough.
After the broadcast of "Study Trip of Love" last year, the topics surrounding Zhu Dan and Yiwei Zhou were simply queuing up to be trending.
was still saying at the beginning that Zhu Dan was defrauded of a huge amount of money by a friend, but her boyfriend Yiwei not only stayed with her, but also accompanied her to pay back the money.
Later, he talked about Yiwei Yiwei's affection for Zhu Dan as a little country girl who would not let the outside world hurt her.
However, this is not the end. Later in the program, Zhu Dan talked about his experience of meeting his parents-in-law for the first time, which was surprising.
He never expected that Zhou Yiwei would be no different from a child from an ordinary family in terms of his clothing and behavior, but his family background was completely overwhelming.
01. Her mother-in-law is a military personnel
When Zhu Dan met her parents-in-law for the first time, she was already pregnant out of wedlock.
In this situation, the woman will inevitably feel a little confused.
Along the way, Zhu Dan was secretly wondering in his heart, should he call him mom and dad, or uncle and aunt?
Speaking of which, Zhu Dan added that Yiwei Yi’s parents are both military personnel.
The public's stereotype of military personnel is always serious.
Zhu Dan really didn't know if he could get the approval of his parents-in-law since he was divorced and pregnant first.
Of course, some of the celebrities have family members who are members of the military. However, Yiwei Yi's mother is no ordinary soldier. She is a colonel in the Rocket Force. Not only does she hold many positions, she is also a national first-level director. Due to physical reasons, Zhou Yiwei's father did not develop as well as his mother, but he was also a soldier.
Zhou Yiwei grew up in a military college. However, not only did he not enjoy any of the resources brought by the children of military personnel, but after attending college, he was ignored for a time and it took him several years of hard work to get ahead.
looks at it and thinks that the parents-in-law should not be so tolerant towards the younger generation, but who knows, Zhu Dan's next words are so heart-warming.
02. A strong identity, but a loving heart
When he arrived at the door of Yiwei Yiwei's house, his father was already waiting happily at the door.
Zhu Dan chose to call her conservative. Yiwei Yiwei's father didn't mind, and just told her enthusiastically that her mother was cooking in the kitchen, cooking what you like to eat.
Zhu Dan instantly understood that Yiwei Yiwei's parents didn't mind her past.
She immediately felt relieved, and Yiwei's parents, like all parents-in-law who are looking forward to seeing their daughter-in-law, kept entertaining Zhu Dan, and even told Zhu Dan that they would take care of the child after it was born.
You must know that Yiwei Yi's mother still has responsibilities, but she is willing to give up her career and life so that the young couple can focus on their careers.
Zhu Dan is really lucky to have such parents-in-law. Facts have proved that soldiers are true to their word. After Zhu Dan gave birth to the child, her parents-in-law took good care of the child. There is severity, but love is even greater.
When Zhu Dan's children were young, their parents-in-law showed them two TV programs, one was Zhu Dan's "Dan Xing Xian" and the other was Zhou Yiwei's "The Forbidden City". Sometimes the family gets together and watches these two programs.
Love is in the details, pain is in the little things. Knowing that Zhu Dan would miss her children, her parents-in-law would often bring their children to visit her class. With such a family atmosphere, it's no wonder that Zhu Dan's smile is full of happiness.
03, Zhou family’s wisdom in getting along
It is said that if a mother-in-law lives with her daughter-in-law, the war will start in minutes.
But Zhu Dan and her mother-in-law became mother and daughter.
Zhu Dan's mother-in-law never bothered with the way the young couple loved their children. All she gave them was silent love and support. Zhou Yiwei must have learned the
model 100%. Express love with actions.
In the show, Zhou Yiwei was really forced to do business from the beginning. He really didn’t want to be on the show, let alone put his marriage in front of others.
But because Zhu Dan wanted to come, he came with a supportive attitude. The two agreed to follow the usual way of getting along, as comfortable as possible, and as real as possible.
As soon as the situation started, Zhou Yiwei adapted to the rhythm, and finally let the audience see how these two people get along.
Zhou Yiwei is obsessed with details. He will listen to every word Zhu Dan says. When Zhu Dan takes the stage to host, Zhou Yiwei will immediately take out his mobile phone to record the whole process. Afterward, he also specifically explains that Zhu Dan is very professional in hosting.
When he sees the beautiful scenery, Zhou Yiwei will also take out his mobile phone and silently take various beautiful photos of Zhu Dan.
Zhu Dan is not very skilled in cooking. Zhou Yiwei is either lighting the fire or cleaning the stove and cleaning the pots. He doesn't even say a word against Zhu Dan, but praises Zhu Dan for doing a good job.
Although I don’t like to talk about love very much, my words of love are my export.
He compared himself and Zhu Dan to the desert and the Crescent Spring. He said that he was the desert and Zhu Dan was the Crescent Spring, because the Crescent Spring was better and he wanted to leave the best to Zhu Dan.
was picking up a pebble to tell a story about the two of them. Yiwei Yiwei took out the pebbles and said that he and Zhu Dan could not finish the story.
even wrote a thank-you letter to Zhu Dan on the show. Although it didn't look like a thank-you letter at all, every sentence made people's hearts beat.
04. A good marriage is about accepting both the good and the bad.
In the "Study Trip of Love", the program requires couples to write a letter to each other.
Zhou Wei’s letter is out of the circle again.
In the letter, he said that he was very lucky to accompany Zhu Dan to this program, because Zhu Dan had an outlet to express himself here.
He also said that everything that has happened will definitely happen. Remember the good parts, forget the bad parts, and take care of your heart.
After finishing reading, he also made an agreement with Zhu Dan. There was no need to change anything about the past, the future, or the present. They could live however they wanted in this life, and they would continue to live as usual, without changing anything.
This is the original intention of happiness. It is no wonder that Zhu Dan, who is extremely lacking in sense of security, can smile sweeter and sweeter in the love of Zhou Yiwei.
Perhaps, the secret to running a successful marriage is never to check for omissions and fill in the gaps, and to become better together, but to be like Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan, how they love each other when they love each other, and how they will be after marriage. receive.
No relationship is perfect. Real perfection is to maintain the comfort and sweetness of the initial relationship.
Only by never forgetting your original intention can you achieve success. In relationships, the same applies.
At least, this sentence is clearly reflected in the marriage between Yiwei Yi and Zhu Dan.
