"The Story of Cheng Huan" is so tear-jerking. My grandma passed away. What she said to Mai Cheng Huan before leaving was like a revelation. It is Mai Cheng Huan's good advice for independently managing Xin'anli Hotel in the future. Facts have proved that to do good things, you must first learn to be a human being. Everyone can do it. No, that's probably the truth about how to do things.
Grandma Chen Shuzhen actually does not have much blood relationship with the Mai family. She fell in love with Grandpa Mai Chenghuan at dusk. Grandpa was paralyzed in bed, but grandma took care of him and did not let him suffer.
The three sentences that grandma said to Mai Chenghuan can be said to be the most important sayings in life. Only those who can understand the truth can truly understand everything.
It is very important to meet a noble person in your life, because she appreciates you and trusts you, so she will entrust you to do great things. In fact, grandma has already chosen Xin Anli's successor. She is Mai Chenghuan, who is strong, independent and brave.
Those words that grandma said to Mai Chenghuan before she left are worth remembering and always vigilant.
In fact, my grandma weighed between Yao Zhiming and Mai Chenghuan. She felt at ease that if Yao Zhiming ran the hotel, if it was acquired by Yueda Group, the old employees would be treated badly. Therefore, grandma’s last will was to hand over the hotel to Mai Chenghuan, while Xiao The ownership of the bungalow belongs to Yao Zhiming, and her arrangement is very interesting. Because she is very accurate in judging people, she believes that Mai Chenghuan will run the business well.
Grandma said: It is a good quality to be independent and strong, but you always use your advantages to face everything. Over time, your advantages become disadvantages.
Grandma's words actually tell Mai Chenghuan that although it is important for a person to be strong, he should not be too rigid. Too rigid will break easily. He should know how to be flexible and have softness in his rigidity. Only in this way can he respond to everything flexibly and not take detours, leading to I have lost too much.
Grandma lent the small house to the Mai family to live in because she wanted to take care of them. However, Mai Chenghuan was so strong that she paid her grandma half a year's rent. She believed that she was thirty years old and should not take advantage of her grandma. But grandma thought she was too strong and didn't know how to show weakness. As time went by, her advantages turned into disadvantages.
Grandma told Mai Chenghuan her life insights, with the purpose of telling her how to behave in the world. When managing her peace of mind in the future, she must know how to be flexible and not be rigid, as this is not conducive to growth.
Grandma also said: Don’t show off in front of your family. Family members have to share each other’s burdens and trouble each other. There are many times in a person's life when he needs help. Otherwise, how can people get closer to each other?
This sentence is so important. Liu Wanyu was so narrow-minded that she forced her daughter to get engaged with the Xin family, and eventually mother and daughter fell out. Grandma expressed the philosophy of life, why should we have a family, because family members share burdens and troubles with each other. Your family is your harbor and your place of habitat. Only with the help of your family can you be happy and live in harmony.
These are the life experiences of being a person and doing things. Grandma used her decades of life experience to tell Mai Chenghuan that she must love her family, unite her family, and not have conflicts with them, because only with the help of her family can she be selfless.
Just like if Mai Chenghuan didn't accompany her grandma often, her grandma wouldn't regard her as her own family. Although they are not related by blood, they have a very good relationship with each other. Grandma trusted Mai Chenghuan, and finally handed over the management of Xin Anli to her, and also enjoyed ownership. This is because grandma believed that Mai Chenghuan was of good quality, had a big picture, was not selfish, was a good manager, and would treat every customer with care.
Grandma also said: Independence is important, but if you make yourself exhausted and independent from others, what good is it?
Mai Chenghuan is too strong and not gentle. Grandma is worried that she will be hurt because she is too independent, so she persuades her that independence is important, but what good is it if she makes herself exhausted and independent from others? You can't be too arrogant or too conciliatory as a person. You still need to know how to be flexible, flexibly control the right to speak, and balance the relationships between all aspects, so as to prevent yourself from getting hurt.
In fact, my grandma said it very well. People are a social species and cannot leave society, let alone their families. We live in groups, so we must handle various relationships well. It is important to establish a good personality in everyone's mind, but you cannot let yourself be affected. , if you feel happy physically and mentally, and the people around you also feel happy, it means that this way is more harmonious.
Grandma's words that lingered in Mai Chenghuan's heart before she left: When a person is born, he faces this new world alone, and when he dies, he also has to say goodbye alone.
Grandma is simply a master of life. Every word she says has profound meaning and makes people understand deeply. Indeed, she is right. When a person is born, he faces this new world alone. When he dies, he must also be alone. bid farewell. The person closest to grandma is Yao Zhiming, but she is not afraid of leaving alone and saying goodbye to everyone alone. It is true that most people spend time with themselves and their families.
When we are alive, we should respect and love each other, and live together in harmony and friendship. This is the importance of family. Being a family does not mean becoming enemies with each other, let alone torturing each other, but caring for each other and giving unreservedly to each other. This is true for being a relative, this is true for being a friend, and even more so for being a lover.
Grandma’s life is full of pain and loneliness, but she is very self-consistent and still smiles every day. She does not use money to confuse people. She respects everyone’s choice. She is wise and emotional, and she is With wisdom, she lived to an old age, and when she left, she was happy, not in pain, and gratified because she found her heir, Mai Chenghuan, who she felt at ease with.
There is no regret in living a life like grandma, because she has reconciled with everyone and herself.
