The 86-year-old "Fairy" Yu Mulian has appeared in many works such as "The Trickster", "Dragon" and "The Best Partner". She is a gold medal green leaf in Hong Kong film and television dramas.
Due to the auspicious combination of people and heaven, Yu Mulian has been hospitalized for nearly half a year and can finally go home to rest and recuperate. However, her movements are no longer as usual as before, so she has to take personal care of her daily life and food.
Although her health is not as good as before, Yu Mulian's kindness and care have never faded due to illness. After being discharged from the hospital, she even asked the vice president of a weekly magazine, Huang Tinghuang, to write her first autobiography "I am a strip". "Beans", eloquently talks about the joys and sorrows of life, hoping to influence lives with life. All proceeds from
's books will be donated to the Children's Cancer Fund without deducting costs. Full of kindness!
Yu Mulian, who revealed earlier that she had to go to the emergency room for treatment due to a fish bone, turned out that her Indian domestic helper was going back to her hometown to visit relatives for a month. Many of Yu Mulian’s friends were very anxious when they found out, worrying that if she lived alone within this month, she would not be able to survive. I had to take care of myself, and I was afraid that an accident might happen, so I found a brand-new nursing home that had been open for half a year in a short period of time, and immediately arranged for Yu Mulian to stay temporarily.
However, when Yu Mulian was interviewed by the media a few days ago, she said: "I'm so used to it! I want to go home quickly!"
Recently, the media visited Yu Mulian in person at the nursing home and saw that the facilities in the nursing home were new and complete and the environment was good. The staff were very impressed by Friends. They take good care of you and have a friendly and kind attitude.
In the double room where she lived alone, although Yu Mulian was full of praise for the nursing home, she still couldn't help but grimace and said that she was not adaptable to the life in the nursing home. From her words, she fully felt her lack of security.
Yu Mulian said: "I understand that nursing homes have their own rules and schedules, but every day they have breakfast very early, dinner at 5 o'clock, and lights out at 8:30 to go to bed. Usually I can go to the park downstairs. Take a walk, breathe fresh air, move your hands and feet, stretch your muscles, chat with neighbors, and watch TV at any time at night! "But when I live in a nursing home, even though I have residents playing mahjong with me, I can't go out casually. The daily schedule is different and I can’t see my neighbors. It’s really hard to get used to it. It’s so boring. Every day seems like a year! I look at the calendar every day and count the days, waiting for the Indian servant to return to Hong Kong. I want to move back home immediately! Go home quickly, I really want to read "Matteo Ricci" by Liu Songren. "
In the room where Yu Mulian lives, there are a lot of daily necessities, as well as a calendar filled with the phone numbers of friends.
Because she didn’t know how to use a smartphone and couldn’t store her friends’ contact numbers in her phone, these calendars became her most important treasure and spiritual support.
Especially when she was in a nursing home and felt depressed without leaving home, Yu Mulian flipped through the calendar again and again, and called relatives and friends to chat to pass the time.
Although I have been staying in the nursing home for just over two weeks, my friends in the circle, including Wu Lizhu, An Dezun and the volunteer team of the Yoyo Charitable Foundation, have been visiting the nursing home in person.
An Dezun, who took time out of his busy schedule to come here a few days ago, even stayed for 3 hours, chatting with Yu Mulian to relieve his boredom.
As for the Indian maid in her hometown, while enjoying family happiness, she still cared about Yu Mulian who was far away. On the day of the media interview, Yu Mulian received a call from the Indian maid, reminding her to go to the hospital for follow-up consultation on time. This shows that their relationship has transcended the main point. The relationship between servants is deep and meaningful.
Although the purpose of staying in a nursing home is to provide the elderly with more comprehensive care, it does take time for the elderly to adapt, and it often causes emotional ups and downs and different thoughts.
Lack of security and fear are inevitable. Leaving a familiar environment and living a group life in an unfamiliar environment with new people and things may not be tolerated by the elderly, and they may even feel abandoned and lonely. .
effectively eliminates their doubts and reduces the sense of helplessness. The support and care of relatives and friends, every word and word, is the motivation for the elderly and helps them integrate into the new environment. If there are elderly people in nursing homes around you, remember to visit them more often.
