cover news reporter Li Huagang's picture according to Shanhe Mingyue Drunk City
"The sister on stage is from Hejiang County and is 25 years old this year."
"Is there any handsome single guy from Hejiang in the audience? The age requirement is from 24 to 30 years old "
"Jiangbei Matchmaker" Zheng Anyu gave a live matchmaking session at Luzhou Son-in-law Plaza.
With the recent popularity of "Kaifeng Wangpo" on the Internet, on March 30, "Jiangbei Matchmaker" from Luzhou City, Sichuan Province On-site matchmaking at a cultural tourism project called "Shanhe Mingyue·Drunken City" also gained huge popularity and became popular.
A matchmaker who has been a matchmaker for others for more than 30 years. The matchmaker in Jiangbei, Luzhou, has more than 1,000 goddaughters.
The real name of "Jiangbei Matchmaker" is Zheng Anyu. She is from Fangshan Town, Jiangyang District. She is 54 years old. She usually sells sex in the markets of Jiangbei Town and other towns. Special agricultural products such as cakes, sausages, and bacon.
Luzhou “Jiangbei Matchmaker” Zheng Anyu
“I liked to be a matchmaker for others before I got married. It has been more than 30 years. And I started live broadcasting to be a matchmaker for others in May 2019. Now on the online platform "Jiangbei Matchmaker" Zheng Anyu is a moderate "Internet celebrity" in the Luzhou Internet community. She only has a junior high school education and likes to be a matchmaker for others. She accepts anyone who comes to her for matchmaking. As a "goddaughter", there are now more than a thousand "goddaughters".
Live matchmaking attracted a large number of onlookers
"Because I usually host live broadcasts to do matchmaking for others and need a venue. After our Shanhe Mingyue Evernight City project in Luzhou opened, it became very popular, so I wondered if I could go to their place to host live matchmaking." Zheng Anyu asked the person As soon as they inquired about it, the two parties hit it off immediately. This "Internet celebrity", who was originally only famous in Luzhou, appeared on the stage of Shanhe Mingyue, and unexpectedly became popular all over the Internet.
The cultural tourism project was originally just a performance to recruit a son-in-law and gradually evolved into an on-site matchmaking
"Our project started operations on February 5 this year. At the beginning, the 'Luzhou Recruitment' Plaza of our project only had a performance-based activity, allowing tourists to come on-site Experience the ancients throwing embroidery balls to attract a son-in-law. " Wang Jinbei, general manager of the Luzhou Shanhe Mingyue Drunk City project, said that with the operation of the project, consumers continued to leave messages to them on the backend of the public account, requesting that they be proposed for marriage through this platform. Later, as the "Jiangbei Matchmaker" also came to visit, it gradually turned into an offline platform for matchmaking and interaction.
Live matchmaking is very popular in the audience
Wang Jinbei was both surprised and expected that "Jiangbei Matchmaker"'s live matchmaking became popular for their project.
"The purpose of our project operation is to bring fresh and different experiences to cultural tourism consumers coming from afar." In order to meet the needs of more tourists, Wang Jinbei said that their project will start from April 10 , fixed every Wednesday, Saturday, and Sunday, so that the "Jiangbei Matchmaker" can continue to provide live matchmaking for everyone here.
Analysis: Modern young people have an open concept of marriage and love and pay more attention to personal self-realization.
Will on-site matchmaking lead to "flash love" among young men and women? In public, why are young men and women willing to go on stage and let others do matchmaking for them? Shu Lan, a senior instructor of family education at
, a national second-level psychological counselor, and a senior marriage and emotional counselor, believes that currently, the marriage concepts of the post-90s and post-00s generations have undergone some differences and changes compared with those of the post-70s and 80s generations. “Post-90s and post-00s have a more rational and independent attitude toward marriage, and no longer regard marriage as the only way of life or an inevitable choice; and they pay more attention to personal development and self-realization, with the rise of individualism and a more diversified concept of marriage. . In addition, when they consider marriage, they will pay more attention to material foundation and quality of life."
In his daily work, Shulan also found that young people now have more diverse ways of socializing, paying more attention to their personal lifestyles and interests, hoping to find a partner who is compatible with them. In addition, modern social media has changed people's Social methods and interaction patterns affect love and spouse selection. Therefore, modern young people’s concepts of family and marriage have become relatively open and flexible.
“Everyone’s concept of marriage and love is unique and is affected by many factors. The concepts of marriage and love of those born in the 1970s and 1980s also have their own merits and values. Different generations should respect and understand each other's differences in marriage concepts.
Suggestion: Both men and women should cultivate patience and understanding, and not rush for quick results.
Why are modern young people prone to "flash love"? Shu Lan believes that the pace of life in modern society is fast, and single men and women hope to quickly establish a relationship emotionally. , coupled with the popularity of social media, it is easier to meet new people and accelerate the love process between single men and women.
"However, flash love and marriage may have some impact on marriage and have potential problems. "Shu Lan said that insufficient understanding between young men and women may lead to the discovery that they are not suitable for each other after marriage; lack of running-in, conflicts and conflicts are prone to occur in getting along; and the emotional foundation is not strong, and it may be difficult to cope with difficulties together. "Especially Family pressure arises after marriage because of insufficient psychological preparation and the lack of ability to cope with problems in the marriage. Compared with marriages that have been fully understood and considered, the risk of divorce in flash love and marriage may be higher. "
What kind of views on marriage and love should young people uphold? Shu Lan believes that when facing marriage and love issues, both men and women should cultivate patience and understanding. Love and marriage require time and effort, and they cannot rush for success.
