On April 6, Sun Li shared a piece of good news in an article: She successfully passed the first-level cello certificate - this is another big step forward from her dream of forming a family band , only Deng Chao's "final kick" is missing.
Since accompanying her two children to learn musical instruments, Sun Li has always had a dream: to form a family band!
At that time, my son Waiting was learning the drums, my daughter Xiaohua was learning the piano, Sun Li was learning the cello, and Deng Chao was learning the violin.
Over the past few years, the family has worked neatly towards 's dream of forming a family band . As a result, the other three people persisted, but Deng Chao gave up the violin and decided to become a "conductor" instead.
Regardless of herself or her two children, Sun Li always carries a "hard energy", self-discipline, hard work and persistence; but when it comes to Deng Chao, Sun Li's "hard energy" disappears, and she even has a "laissez-faire" attitude. The feeling of "flowing by itself and getting by".
Deng Chao and Sun Li received their marriage certificates in a low-key manner on February 8, 2010 (Deng Chao’s birthday), and the good news was officially announced in April 2011. When the wedding was held in Shanghai on June 7, 2011, Sun Li was already 4 months pregnant... ...
Looking at their 14-year marriage, you will find that Sun Li, who looks strong on the surface, is the one who is firmly "controlled" by Deng Chao.
Women are not ruthless and their status is unstable
Sun Li started learning piano on December 13, 2021. She passed the junior cellist exam on March 2 last year and passed the first-level cello exam in April this year.
This learning progress seems ordinary for an adult; but at the same time, she also learned calligraphy, painting, boxing, yoga...
What's even more amazing is that all of the above interests are She found time to study and practice. After all, she had a family and a career to take care of. The reason why
is so "erudite and talented" is because after she started accompanying her children to interest classes, she hoped to lead by example and set an example for the children.
In 1995, Sun Li was 13 years old and her parents divorced. She lived with her mother for several years without a fixed residence. When she was 15 years old, because her daughter had a talent for dancing, her mother sent her to the Shanghai Garrison District Art Troupe. While in the army, Sun Li After overcoming arduous military training and persistent dance practice, he finally stood out.
This experience has made Sun Li much more mature mentally than her peers. She knows that only through continuous hard work can she and her mother live a good life.
In 2001, Sun Li participated in a talent show in Singapore and won the runner-up. After that, she signed a contract with Hairun Company founded by veteran soldier Hai Yan and became the first artist under Hairun. At the end of the year, she starred in the TV series " Jade Guanyin". Officially entered the entertainment industry.
From a dancer to a professional actor, Sun Li's "hard energy" once again came into play because she did not have a professional background. In just a few years, she was promoted to a first-line actor.
When filming "Auntie Duohe", in order to show the appearance of being so thin that the veins are bulging, Sun Li tied her forearms with rubber bands to make the blood vessels bulge;
During the filming of "The Legend of Zhen Huan", director Zheng Xiaolong said that he was not with Sun Li had eaten a complete meal, but every time he was only halfway through the meal, Sun Li would say, "Director, I have to go back and memorize the lyrics."
"The Legend of Zhen Huan" has indoor scenes in winter. When the actors speak their lines, it is inevitable that they will gasp. In order to eliminate the breathlessness, Sun Li and the others came up with an idea: put an ice cube in their mouth and spit it out before the director shouted "Start filming".
Not only is it difficult when acting, but in daily life, Sun Li's persistence and self-discipline have also reached an admirable level.
For example, starting in 2020, Sun Li learned calligraphy and copied the "Heart Sutra". It took her 3 years to finally copy it 100 times; and her goal is to copy it 100 times in the next 3 years.
Sun Li raised Deng Chao as another son.
Sun Li’s diligence, studiousness, and well-managed housekeeping deeply influenced, infected, and moved the two children.
For her birthday last year, her son and others carefully made a commendation video for her mother; her daughter Xiaohua handmade a certificate, calling her mother "Classmate Sun Li", commending her for accompanying her in classes, learning dance, piano, and taking care of her. The daily life of a family.
Deng Chao originally planned to post a message on time at zero o'clock to send a birthday greeting to Sun Li, but a message suddenly came in on his phone. By the time he finished processing it, time had passed.
To some extent, Sun Li raised Deng Chao as "another son".
In 2020, when Deng Chao, Lu Han and others went to film the variety show "Hahahahaha", he didn't know how to use his mobile phone to pay. Sweeping away a shared bicycle on the street was enough to excite him for a long time.
During filming, Sun Li asked a gynecologist she was familiar with to make an appointment for a comprehensive physical examination for Deng Chao. Deng Chao ran to the door of the gynecology department and waited for a long time. Seeing that no one called him, he called Sun Li to complain, saying "No one paid attention to me" .
Sun Li was so angry that she almost suffocated, "What kind of examination can you go to the gynecology department? You don't even think about it! If you have the words, you can ask, what kind of examination should be done, and where should you go!"
Deng Chao's grievance suddenly came to him, "I can not do it".
This year, when Deng Chao was filming the latest season of "Five Ha", he quickly ate a box of ice cream and revealed that he had "bad teeth." Uncle Gemstone asked in surprise: "How can you still have bad teeth if you maintain your health so well?"
Deng Chao explained hesitantly: "It's just because I want to keep in good health that I don't eat ice. When I'm at home, I can only drink Coke secretly. Sometimes I take it with me and take a few sips outside."
Deng Chao Is the invisible head of the family
In daily life, Sun Li takes care of all the family affairs for Deng Chao, which seems to be true to her word; but if you look closely, you will find that Deng Chao is the real head of the family, because "big things" are all done by him That’s what you say.
After the two received their marriage certificate in a low-key manner, they planned to live a happy "time for two", so they bought a very small house. As a result, Sun Li became pregnant "unexpectedly" and her son arrived suddenly, so that Sun Li had to wear a wedding dress and hold the wedding with her 4-month-old belly.
After their son was born, the couple slept in the living room for a full year before moving to a bigger house.
After the birth of her child, Sun Li greatly reduced her workload and only took on one film and television production per year on average.
On the other hand, Deng Chao, in order to realize his dream of becoming a director, has successively filmed films such as "The Breakup Master", "Bad Angel" and "China Ping Pong". has attracted countless complaints.
After "The Breakup Master" was criticized as a bad film, Deng Chao used the excuse of "being a director for the first time"; when filming "Villain Angel" and "China Ping Pong", he roped in Sun Li to assist, but the reputation is still dismal.
Objectively speaking, Deng Chao’s acting skills are by no means low. His many honors such as Mr. Billionaire Box Office, Golden Rooster Best Actor, Golden Goblet Best Actor, and Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actor are the best proof; with great directors such as Stephen Chow, Zhang Yimou, and Guan Hu , have also had good cooperation and are highly recognized - as long as he is willing to film in a down-to-earth manner, he will definitely achieve greater things.
True Love Is Invincible
With Sun Li's eye for script selection, superb acting skills, and rich experience in working with many directors, would she not be able to see what the level of a movie directed and starring by Deng Chao is?
But she supported Deng Chao in pursuing his dream without hesitation. Not only did she sacrifice her own reputation and audience popularity to participate, but she also tried her best to help him promote it.
There is no explanation for all this except true love!