In "Cherish Huazhi", the marriage between Huazhi and Shen Qi was originally officially stamped and certified. The Hua family and the Shen family were old friends, and the old man nodded in approval. Huazhi was about to transform into the young lady of the Shen family.
Unexpectedly, the Hua family was in trouble, the men were exiled, and the marriage was put on hold.
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, but the poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them. In the past, the Hua family was a high-class family in the capital, and it was too late for ordinary people to curry favor with them. Nowadays, dragons swim in the shallows and tigers fall into the sky, and everyone is eager to take a bite and step on them.
It's easy to add insult to injury, but it's difficult to deliver help when it's time. In the name of buying a family property, Chen Zhi defrauded the Hua family's women and children of their jewelry and satin. The fourth wife went back to her natal family for help, but her biological parents also avoided her. Although the third wife's parents felt sorry for their daughter, they wanted to make a clean break with the Hua family. Draw clear boundaries.
The more depressed you are, the easier it is to see people's hearts clearly.
When the Hua family was in decline, as the future in-laws, the Shen family also cut off the Hua family in time. They turned a blind eye to what happened to the Hua family and avoided it, fearing that they would be harmed accidentally.
In episode 6, Mrs. Shen came to the door with a letter of cancellation of engagement, wanting to cancel the marriage between Huazhi and Shen Qi.
When Mrs. Shen arrived at the Hua family, she naturally wanted to meet the head of the family, Mrs. Hua.
In the past, both families were high-ranking officials, and they were also parents-in-law, so their relationship was unusual. Nowadays, the Hua family is in great trouble, and the Shen family has not seen each other for many days. Mrs. Hua naturally understands the mystery.
Although Mrs. Shen opened her mouth to call her "old sister" and kept her mouth closed to talk about friendship, the annulment letter in her sleeve had already betrayed her. Mrs. Hua has always been smart, and she accidentally caught a glimpse of the divorce letter in her sleeve, and instantly understood the other party's purpose - to break off the engagement.
According to common sense, since you have seen through the Shen family's intention to break off the engagement, it is better to speak openly and directly expose this fig leaf, and then go with the flow and end the engagement.
However, what Mrs. Hua did was very confusing. She chose to turn a blind eye to the Shen family's divorce. As long as Mrs. Shen didn't speak, she would pretend nothing happened.
Therefore, Mrs. Shen did not hand over the divorce document because of her feelings.
We originally thought that Mrs. Hua’s actions were because she felt sorry for her granddaughter Hua Zhi and did not want to break up the couple.
However, just two episodes later, on the day when Hua Zhi took charge of the house, Mrs. Hua took her granddaughter to visit the Shen Mansion in person and proposed to terminate the engagement. This reversal happened so quickly that people felt confused for a moment.
Obviously a few days ago, Mrs. Shen had come to the door with a letter of divorce, but Mrs. Hua chose the ostrich tactic of seeing through the situation without telling the truth, and doing what the in-laws had to do. Now, a few days later, why did she change her mind and break off the engagement?
In the past, it was the Shen family who broke off the engagement, and the Hua family still had a good reputation; now, it is the Hua family who broke off the engagement, but the Shen family has gained the reputation of abiding by the engagement and not breaking the engagement.
Why does the old lady Hua do this?
All the answers are hidden in Shiliting's farewell day.
Before that day, Shen Qi and Hua Zhi had already agreed that he would be responsible for driving the car to take Hua Zhi's family to Shiliting outside the city to see Hua Zhi's grandfather, father, and uncles off.
However, something unexpected happened before departure. The young and old of the Hua family waited and waited, but could not wait for Shen Qi to appear. In desperation, Huazhi could only drive in person to say goodbye to her grandfather and father.
Before this incident, although the Shen family had not intervened in the Hua family's troubles, Shen Qi helped sell the family's property and donated her own jade pendant, showing her loyalty and love. , which is a great bonus for myself.
From the perspective of Mrs. Hua, Shen Qi's ability to run around and be busy at least shows that the Shen family has not indicated that they will completely break with the Hua family. What's more, after the men over ten years old were exiled, the Hua family was in urgent need of a man to be the backbone, so Mrs. Hua would bet on Shen Qi.
However, Shen Qi's disappearance on the day of farewell changed everything. At that time, the Hua family waited and waited, but there was no sign of Shen Qi.From that day on, Mrs. Hua gradually understood the Shen family's attitude and saw clearly the Shen family's face.
Husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes. What's more, Huazhi and Shen Qi are not a couple who crossed the same boat or slept together. When the Hua family is in trouble, who will care about the other?
The disappearance of Shen Qi made Mrs. Hua give up her fantasy. However, this is not the only reason why the old lady decided to break off the engagement.
Before bidding farewell, the Hua family always believed that the country is a big family and the home is a small country. It has always been a man's business to show off and make decisions. Therefore, they entrusted all their wealth to Chen Zhi and others, hoping that they could help buy land and houses.
However, after Shen Qi broke the date, Hua Zhi took the initiative to hitch a carriage and became a coachman, letting Mrs. Hua see that a woman can hold up half the sky.
Huazhi is not afraid of danger and steps forward, breaking the stereotype of the old, young, women and children of the Hua family. It turns out that the convention of men taking charge outside and women taking charge inside can also be broken, and the person in charge of the house can also be a woman.
Therefore, when we look at the timing of Mrs. Hua’s proposal to break off the engagement, it becomes more meaningful. Before Mrs. Hua broke off the engagement, Hua Zhi had just offered to take charge of the whole family. It was her move that allowed grandma to see the light in the darkness.
Who says women are inferior to men. Hua Zhi's knowledge, confidence, temperament and courage gave Mrs. Hua the direction and boosted her confidence, so she safely left the whole family in charge of her granddaughter and openly proposed to the Shen family to break off the engagement.
The Hua family took the initiative to break off the engagement, and the Shen family fell into disgrace. The cp that was once officially certified by Mrs. Hua has been offline.
In this relationship, Shen Qi cherished, persisted, worked hard, and retained Hua Zhi. However, his arms could not twist his father's thigh.
A relationship died prematurely. Huazhi is a good woman, but it is a pity that Shen Qi is not lucky.
