Recently, 90-year-old performing artist You Benchang shared his views on love in a program. He talked to Li Xueqin about the process of chasing his wife and said that he once wrote a sack of love letters for his wife. He repeatedly emphasized that "love is not possession, but equality", which made Li Xueqin sigh that You Lao's view of love is worth learning by young people.
You Benchang has been married to his wife for 60 years. He couldn’t hide his excitement and said that on this wedding anniversary, he “gave her a gourd and she liked wearing it very much.”
"(At that time) I was pursuing her." You Benchang recalled, "I wrote to her...so I wrote a bag, a lot, a sack." He also said, "In fact, it is (good love) ) can be 1+1>2. If you encounter good things, they can share them with you; if you encounter bad things or unlucky things, they can be reduced by half."
He also shared the secret of preserving his 60-year marriage, "There are Conflicts are normal. Between two people, you have your upbringing, and I have mine. Then we must understand each other, and then we must understand... First of all, we must have love, which is very important, but Love is not possession, it is equality."
You Benchang's view of love has also aroused heated discussions among young netizens: "There is no girl who doesn't like this kind of romance. These words are sincere and sincere." "A marriage of 60 years is really enviable." "Grandpa You Benchang's view of love is really upright." "Good love really brings a lot of things." "I believe in love again!" "I didn't expect that the love of the older generation is so beautiful. It is really a steady stream." "The old man is so romantic"...
Editor Li Jie
