Marriage Warning " Little Days " is about to end with the death of "living father" Zhu Dali from cerebral infarction. Zhu Dali may have had a sudden awakening before his death, but unfortunately the "I'm sorry" came too late.
Zhu Jincao and Gu Moli experienced a series of twists and turns, and also ushered in the expected remarriage. Being deceived by the "mistress" into a "strategic divorce" that looked like the real thing is frightening. This process also revealed that Zhu Jincao and Gu Moli were not the same people at all. The circle is different. If you insist on forceful integration, the process will inevitably be painful. After the turmoil in , will the married life of the two people who have experienced the storm together really be smooth sailing in the future? not necessarily. Zhu Jincao and Gu Moli have very different families, personalities, and ways of dealing with the world. After living a "small life" as they wish, their future run-ins are still waiting for them.
How is Zhu Jincao made?
As a young man who grew up in a small city and came to Shanghai through his own efforts, in order to integrate into the city, he had to act well.
is kind, polite, thoughtful, hard-working and emotionally stable. He seems to have integrated into the city and is comfortable in all aspects, but the tension of worrying about gains and losses cannot be erased.
And what are the young people in small towns really like? He has a strong sense of morality and always has a lingering sense of guilt. Without the support of his parents, he would not be where he is today. The gratitude for his parents' hard work makes it difficult for him to harshly criticize his parents even though he knows they have done something wrong. The key is not to dare.
With a mother who takes credit every day and a father who is supremely patriarchal, Zhu Jincao cannot even think about disobeying his parents. Children raised by extremely controlling parents are either rebellious or cowardly, and Zhu Jincao is the cowardly and rebellious kind.
In short, it is: the skin of Shanghai’s elite, the core of small town youth.
Zhu Jincao seems sensible and filial, and a good son. But looking back at his family and his parents, they couldn't help but wonder if this "big boy" was real? Because his mother was too controlling and nagging, and he felt sorry for her and didn't want to hurt her, he had no choice but to do things in a perfunctory manner. His "living father" goes crazy at every turn. He resents his father's behavior in his heart, but more importantly, he is afraid. If he doesn't agree with his father, he will make the whole family go crazy. How can he dare to say another word? Zhu Jincao, who comes from a family like , can only suppress his true self and play a good son.
What is gratifying is that Zhu Jincao finally toughened up in the finale. Faced with his father's violent behavior against his mother again, he, who has always been calm and calm, finally broke out.
This kind of "patricide" behavior is also a kind of transformation of himself. At the end of , Zhu Dali's death from cerebral infarction was a little sudden, but what this plot represents is the demise of "patriarchal authority" and "husband's authority." It is the catalyst for Zhu Jincao's mature and independent personality, and it is also the beginning of Zhang Shanya's rebirth after awakening.
How was Gu Moli made?
Zhu Jincao did not have the relaxation that Gu Moli, who had lived a privileged life and seen the world since childhood, was born with. This real and refreshing character comes from the nourishment of his native family. Lao Zhu's house did not have his daughter's name written on it. This was more because the other party was disrespecting his daughter than because of their small house.
As long as their daughter lives well, they are willing to jointly buy a house with their in-laws, and they will not use this matter to mentally kidnap and control her when buying a house for their daughter. Jasmine's work was stalled and she had no results due to messy things. Wu Yulan came to help domineeringly and brought a group of rich women and sisters to rescue her daughter. Her parents-in-law and husband are all giving her troubles, and only her mother is helping her solve the problems.
How can we be so timid in a life where there is always a way out?
Moreover, Gu Moli's family atmosphere is very good. Although she has various conflicts with her parents, she always talks about anything and dares to speak out. Mother and daughter should criticize and self-criticize each other, so as not to let bad emotions continue to ferment.
How many families have children who, when they grow up, dare to speak frankly to their parents, dare to "disobey" their parents, and still be understood and not criticized?
Zhu Jincao is everywhere, how many Gu Moli are there?
Gu Moli's family gave her the confidence not to hold back on anything, even to her own parents, and she would not accept moral kidnapping. And what about Zhu Jincao? Gao Xiajing made him lose his job and Jasmine's trust, but he still chose to let her go. Good people are really good people, but they are kind without edges.
As a bystander, I can see more clearly that his meek and "constant-temperature good guy" character not only failed to solve the problem, but also hurt the people closest to him.
Zhu Jincao first lost his job, and then his father severed ties with him and took back the house. The external support was gone, and so was his courage. He clearly loved Jasmine deeply in his heart, but he flinched.
Conclusion
In their marriage, Gu Moli has always been the braver one, "marrying down", "living in a small house", "difficult parents-in-law", "proving her innocence", "finding the truth and tearing up the mistress"... some behaviors She may seem willful, but she always keeps the initiative in her own hands. itself has ideas and a strong ability to take action, the courage to try and make mistakes, and the ability to correct mistakes. From rejecting Zhu Jincao's proposal to get back together, to later discovering that she still loved him deeply and took the initiative to remarry, the woman who firmly controlled her destiny in her own hands, marriage was just the icing on the cake.
"Little Days" is coming to an end soon. Although the plot has some bloody parts, you can also see the shadow of reality behind the story, which triggers some thinking. What do you think if you are watching the drama? Let’s chat in the comment section ~
