In the latest plot of " Ode to Joy ", Yu Chuhui's luck continues. First, there were good things that came from heaven, such as the boss securing a matchmaker and the company getting a boyfriend, and then he received a date invitation from Liu Su, a turtle young man and a financial elite.
Every girl who loves to laugh will have good luck. God favored and favored Yu Chuhui in every possible way, and at the same time, two high-quality options were airborne. Whether it is Ma Xiangdong or Liu Su, both of them are young and in their prime. They have the support of decent jobs and the blessing of second-generation status. They are simply the best choices for ideal boyfriends.
When you are unsure about something, you can ask the spring breeze; if the spring breeze is silent, just follow your heart. Both options are like standard correct answers. If you are an ordinary candidate, you will compare them repeatedly and figure out your psychology before answering carefully.
Yu Chuhui did not follow the routine. She has always claimed to be from the beginning of society, and her ideas for solving problems are also original. In front of two outstanding suitors, she took action and gave away Wang Zha - Dad Yu.
In this kind of large-scale blind date, most people will be careful and deliberately disguise themselves, covering up all their own shortcomings, eager to give themselves and their families an all-round beauty without any blind spots.
From dressing to language communication, from hobbies to family background, from career planning to three views, blind date is like this, showing off one's own charm while quietly watching the other person's performance.
The most taboo thing about a blind date is actively criticizing someone and exposing their shortcomings. However, Yu Chuhui was different. As soon as she came up, she dropped the bombshell that her father had intentionally harmed him and was facing jail time, and she directly exposed her biggest shortcomings in front of the other party.
Whether meeting Ma Xiangdong or dating Liu Su, Yu Chuhui has a set of tactics and a way of playing - focusing on a person who is straightforward and outspoken.
In front of Ma Xiangdong and his parents, she said this, " Our family is very difficult to deal with. My dad is squatting in the detention center waiting to be sentenced. I'm afraid that when he is released, he will have to break the rules even more. Didn't he cheat last year? I used some unruly self-media to expose me in the company, so I usually didn’t dare to go to my friends’ houses, lest my dad would follow suit and get stuck on me, and I wouldn’t be able to escape. ”
In front of Liu Su, she said this " My father is in jail for a violent crime. He will depend on me after serving his sentence. Just don't eat. Please find a subway station to drop me off. Really, it is a crime of intentional injury, and it is the kind that causes serious injury." .”
Most people would shake their heads after seeing Yu Chuhui’s suicidal style of play. If you follow this method when dating and falling in love, sooner or later you will end up alone.
As a young person in society, I have many beautiful people and a bright mind. With her intelligence, why would she adopt this strategy of killing a hundred enemies and damaging herself by eight thousand?
Great skill is like clumsiness, great wisdom is like foolishness. This seemingly terrible tactic is exactly Yu Chuhui's cleverness.
She seems to be laughing and joking, but she is not confused. As what she calls a peacock girl, Yu Chuhui has a clear understanding of her own strengths and weaknesses. In a love relationship, Yu Chuhui's biggest shortcoming is not himself, but his hateful biological father and his speechless family.
When ordinary people meet a native family like the Yu family, their first reaction will be as real and natural as Ma Xiangdong's parents. They wish they could have wings under their ribs, step on hot wheels, and immediately run away from the blind date scene.
With such a premise, Yu Chuhui would promote family ugliness and self-destruction from the very beginning. She has always been like a mirror, and naturally understands that if she falls into an unforgettable love, but cannot achieve the right result due to her family background, at that time At that moment, the only one who hurts is himself.
In order to avoid such an ending, she could only choose to avoid a fruitless beginning. The advantage of Yu Chuhui's doing this is that he can tell his shortcomings frankly; if the other party is willing to tolerate and accept them, the love between the two parties will last long.
In a sense, this is the best way to screen suitors. Yu Chuhui used the simplest way to achieve quick screening.
Just like the well-known "I, Qin Shihuang, send money" or "door-to-door shooting notification" scams, most people will think that this scam is too weak and will not succeed at all. However, the fact is that even with such a low-level scam, you can still catch fish and make money.
Could it be that there are too many fools and not enough liars?
In fact, for scammers, the more stupid, anti-intellectual, and naive methods are used, the faster they can screen out the target deceivers. Think about it, if he believed the retarded remarks about Qin Shihuang's resurrection and Hawking's house arrest, it would be much easier to deceive him next.
Qin Shihuang is a symbol and tool used by scammers to filter. You said, I'm not stupid, I don't believe it, don't lie to me, your method is too simple and crude. So congratulations, you are not among the target group of scammers, but if you are smart, you will not believe it, and if you are stupid, others may not believe it.
Just like in this world, there will always be people who believe that the earth is flat. You don’t understand, I don’t understand, but not understanding doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
Returning to the topic of Yu Chuhui, the reason why she brought up the trump card that Yu's father was in jail at the first moment of the interview and dinner date was precisely to test the other party's reaction.
If he exclaimed like Ma Xiangdong's parents and felt like they were being deceived, then there would be no need to continue the conversation; if he was as calm and calm as Liu Su, then there would be the possibility of starting a relationship.
Yu Chuhui uses the simplest, most direct, and funniest way to eliminate risks and minefields for his love and marriage, thereby avoiding invalid social interactions and invalid love.
Life is short, the rest of life is very expensive, and getting along with someone who is not worth it, every extra second is a waste.
Yu Chuhui’s wisdom is engraved in his bones.
