TV series " Little Days " has made the audience feel a lot about Gu Moli's life choices. Why did this girl from a wealthy family, with a high degree of education and outstanding appearance, choose to marry Zhu Jincao, who was inferior to her in all aspects, and even crowded into a small living room with her husband, children, and parents-in-law after marriage? The original work reveals to us the truth and secrets behind this, making people feel suffocated by what Gu Moli did.
Gu Moli, a typical urban girl, comes from a wealthy family and is doted on by her parents. She grew up surrounded by praises. She is used to being superior to others in everything, and she strives to pursue excellence both in her studies and in life. However, such a seemingly perfect girl made an incredible mistake when she was 19 years old - she had a relationship with her Chinese teacher, not only gave her virginity, but also became pregnant with a child. This incident undoubtedly became a stain in her life, and also made her subsequent marriage choices full of calculation and scheming.
Wu Yulan, Gu Moli's mother, in order to protect her daughter's reputation and future, quietly took her to another place to have an abortion. However, the impact of this incident on Gu Moli was profound. She began to realize that her actions might have serious consequences, which also made her become more cautious and utilitarian in her marriage.
However, as she grew older, she gradually felt anxious and uneasy. She watched her friends around her get married and have children one by one, but she was still single, and she couldn't help but feel a strong sense of loss in her heart.
It was in this context that Gu Moli met Zhu Jincao. Zhu Jincao is handsome and has a good temper, which fits Gu Moli's imagination of an ideal partner. The appearance of Zhu Jincao seemed to satisfy all her needs.
However, Gu Moli's choice of Zhu Jincao was not out of pure love, but full of calculation and utilitarianism. She took a fancy to Zhu Jincao's appearance and family conditions, and thought he was a suitable marriage partner. However, she did not consider Zhu Jincao's family background and personality characteristics, nor did she seriously think about whether she really loved him.
Such a marriage has hidden dangers from the beginning.
After marriage, the life of Gu Moli and Zhu Jincao was not as beautiful as she imagined. They not only have to face the pressures and challenges of life, but also deal with conflicts and frictions with their parents-in-law. Gu Moli began to feel tired and helpless. She discovered that the perfect life she was pursuing did not exist, and marriage was not as simple and beautiful as she had imagined.
What is even more suffocating is what Gu Moli did in her marriage. She tried to maintain her status and dignity by controlling Zhu Jincao, but she ignored the basic principle that husband and wife should respect and understand each other. Her calculations and scheming will only make the marriage more fragile and vulnerable in the end.
Looking back on Gu Moli’s life choices, we can’t help but think: What is true happiness? Are you pursuing superficial perfection and success, or are you pursuing inner peace and satisfaction? Gu Moli's story tells us that marriage is not a game of calculation and utilitarianism, but a journey that requires joint efforts, mutual understanding and support from both husband and wife. Only when we truly know how to cherish and manage marriage can we gain true happiness and satisfaction.
The original work of "Little Days" shows us a real and complex world, allowing us to see the multi-facetedness and complexity of human nature. Gu Moli's crazy choices and the truth about marriage give us a deeper understanding and thinking about marriage and life. Perhaps it is these true and profound descriptions that make this work a thought-provoking masterpiece.
