TV series " Little Days " has been aired. Most of the comments on the Internet are complaining about Zhu Jincao's "weird" parents. Many viewers, including the characters in the play, believe that as long as Zhu Jincao can persuade his parents Back home, all the problems of this small family were solved.
But when Zhu Jincao decided to go to Jinshan to work, his series of performances told the audience that things were not that simple.
Due to the plots of the first two episodes, many viewers were misled into thinking that Zhu Jincao's mother Zhang Shanya was also a troublesome person.
However, through the subsequent plot, you will gradually find that Zhang Shanya is still kind in nature, but her way of thinking and life philosophy are very different from young people and her peers in big cities.
Zhang Shanya said that she was a kindergarten teacher before coming to Shanghai. If it were not for Zhu Jincao and his wife to look after their children, she would already be the principal.
Two pieces of information can be obtained from this sentence. First, Zhang Shanya himself has a certain level of education, otherwise he would not be a candidate for the principal.
The second reason is that she sincerely cares for her son and granddaughter, and can give up the career she has worked hard for her whole life for the sake of the father and son.
Of course, it cannot be denied that Zhang Shanya can only say that she is average to Gu Moli. Even if she is "good" to Gu Moli, it is entirely for the sake of her son and granddaughter.
Including when Gu Moli was confronting Gao Xiaqing, she stood up to support Gu Moli entirely because "Gu Moli is Keke's biological mother."
But no matter what, Zhang Shanya can be regarded as a very good mother in terms of treating Zhu Jincao. l
Zhu Jincao is recognized by his colleagues as a 37-degree man, so of course he is also sincerely filial to his mother.
It was precisely for this reason that when he went to work in Jinshan, the person he was most worried about was his mother. The main reason why
is uneasy is because of his father Zhu Dali.
Before Zhu Jincao was about to leave, he twice had no choice but to plan the next life for his mother.
The first time he hinted his father to leave was at the dinner table.
In order to live the life he and Gu Moli wanted as soon as possible, Zhu Jincao decided to work in Jinshan branch.
While having dinner with Zhu Dali and Zhang Shanya, Zhu Jincao proposed this decision at the dinner table.
Zhang Shanya is not like her son going to work in other places, but she will not be overly involved in her son's work. She just expressed some of her concerns.
Zhu Dali acted very sensible at this time. While drinking, he pointed out to his son, "A good man should aim everywhere." Although this was a bit like a slogan, it was indeed a good thing.
But then he said again: "It seems that you are right to divorce", which sounded a bit disgusting.
However, Zhu Jincao didn't care about him. After all, what he said next was the real focus.
Zhu Jincao was hesitant to speak, lowered his head and said: Leave Zhang Shanya alone in Shanghai to take care of Coco.
Of course, Zhu Dali immediately heard Zhu Jincao's intention of letting him go back to his hometown, and his expression immediately changed, but Zhu Jincao stopped talking.
The second time was to ask Gu Moli to take Coco to see Zhang Shanya when she was not at home.
When Gu Moli sent Zhu Jincao to the car, Zhu Jincao packed all the luggage and opened the car door before he could bear it. She couldn't help telling Gu Moli that she hoped that he could take Coco to visit Zhang Shanya every week after she left.
Seeing Gu Moli's questioning eyes, Zhu Jincao hesitated to say that he was worried that Zhang Shanya would suffer if Zhu Dali and Zhang Shanya quarreled.
Zhu Jincao said it tactfully, but Gu Moli could still hear the actual meaning, that is, Zhu Dali would do domestic violence to Zhang Shanya.
Gu Moli is the person closest to Zhu Jincao. The two have been married for seven years, and he never let Gu Moli know that Zhu Dali would often domestically abuse Zhang Shanya.
Judging from Zhu Dali's current behavior, it is definitely impossible for him to get rid of his domestic violence problem after Zhu Jincao got married, so it can only be that Zhu Jincao deliberately concealed it and did not want Gu Moli to know the true relationship between his parents. .
The reason he concealed it was that Zhu Dali had actually cast a great shadow on her psychology.
When Zhang Shanya picked up a stray cat, Zhu Dali raised his voice, and Zhu Jincao quickly came out to rescue him. The look in his eyes with Zhang Shanya was completely the tacit understanding established by relying on each other for a long time under Zhu Dali's violent suppression.
It is conceivable that Zhu Jincao must have grown up in such an environment since he was a child, and his mother Zhang Shanya was his only safe haven.
This also explains why he took his mother to the hospital even though he knew she was pretending to be ill. At that time, although he desperately longed for the freedom and warmth of a small family, he still couldn't bear to let his mother leave.
can also understand why as long as the family does not make trouble, he can compromise on anything and will always try his best to protect the temporary peace and tranquility of the family.
The reason is that Zhu Jincao has not felt safe since he was a child. Growing up in such a family environment will inevitably make him always worry about gains and losses.
So he was very afraid of losing Gu Moli. When he knew that Gu Moli and Jiang Haitao met by chance, and when he saw rumors about Gu Moli and the painter, he would become very sensitive.
If you want Zhu Jincao to get out of this shadow, perhaps you can only completely defeat Zhu Dali psychologically.
