Some people say that the difference between a mother-in-law and a mother is that the mother has endured the hardships herself and does not want her daughter to endure them again; but the mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to endure the hardships she has endured!
I just started watching " Little Days " and I felt like I was going to be blown away. Zhu Jincao, played by Chen Xiao, , and Jasmine, played by Tong Yao, both knew how to fall in love. When they met the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and real problems, the two The key to everyone being able to take charge of the family is that the children are very old, and they act like children.
But the further you look at it, the clearer it becomes. Isn’t “Little Days” a portrayal of some ordinary families today?
Zhu Jincao's father, Zhu Dali, is an extremely traditional rural man. He loves face and values authority, so he is unwilling to buy a house with Moli's family.
Zhu Dali is a section chief of the publicity department of a machinery factory. In a place like his hometown, there are frequent favors and flattery, so he always felt that he was doing well and superior to others.
Later, Zhu Jincao worked and settled in a big city and wanted to buy a house, so he regarded his son as part of his dignity.
The son found a local wife in a big city, and the son’s job salary was not bad. So when the son said he wanted to buy a house, under the patriarchal mentality, he felt that the Zhu family had to pay for the house, and he could not ask for money from the woman’s family without letting Zhu. The family is inferior to others and cannot hold its head high for the rest of its life.
Even though his son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter were uncomfortable living in a house of more than 50 square meters, he firmly believed that it was the right choice. The house was Zhu Dali’s face, and it was also the confidence of his son Zhu Jincao. Zhu Jincao Only at home can you have the right to speak.
Zhu Dali is arbitrary and arbitrary. He hopes that the whole family will respect him. He even wrote a house rule for a day, hoping that the whole family will listen to him. He not only takes care of his son and wife, but also forces Gu Moli to obey him!
Gu Moli's family is relatively healthy. She has lived in a relaxed environment since she was a child, so she can't stand Zhu Dali's domineering behavior, so she only got along with Zhu Dali for a few days before she couldn't stand him and hurriedly moved out. .
When I first started watching the drama, I always felt that Zhu Jincao was very incompetent and cowardly. He couldn't do anything. He wanted to change his house but had no money. He asked Zhu Dali for it, but he didn't dare to express his anger after being criticized. He was also embarrassed when facing his father-in-law and mother-in-law. Weird pride.
But this is the influence of his native family. Under Zhu Dali’s authority, Zhu Jincao’s character is relatively weak. Facing Zhu Dali’s anger, he instinctively wants to escape. This is why he clearly knows that Zhu Dali is domestic violence against his mother. Zhang Shanya didn't dare to expose it, but just hinted Moli to visit Zhang Shanya more often.
Zhang Shanya also has the same mentality. She is instinctively afraid of Zhu Dali, so she clearly knows that she should not stay in Shanghai and should not disturb the life of the young couple and their family of three. She knows that she may be disliked, but she pretends not to hear or see. , because she did not want to go back to live with Zhu Dali because she was afraid of domestic violence.
When Zhang Shanya saw her son being obedient to Jasmine, she felt jealous again. She felt that Jasmine had a good life, a good background, good looks, a good job, and a good husband~ She couldn't help but provoke the relationship between the young couple, and felt that she Jasmine should also suffer the hardship.
Until her son and daughter-in-law divorced, Zhang Shanya began to regret again~ How many mother-in-laws is this a true portrayal of? He doesn’t cherish the harmony of the family, he dominates the world by himself, and regrets it when the family breaks up. He thinks his son is good at everything~
