42-year-old Aislin (ezlynn) is a Malaysian singer. Recently, she attracted people's attention because she took the initiative to help her husband take a concubine..
(Singer Aisling)
In 2021, Aisling and her 45-year-old husband Wan Mohd Hafizam announced the good news of their marriage.
(Aisling and her husband)
Before they got married, they both had separate marriage histories.
In 2011, Aisling married her former personal agent, but they divorced in 2017 and the two have no children.
The man has been married twice and has three children.
(Aisling and her husband)
The two met at an NGO event. The man was the first person to donate a liver in Malaysia. Aisling was moved by his sincerity and enthusiasm for charity work, and the two met. People fall in love.
On September 11, 2021, the two held a wedding.
At that time, during the COVID-19 epidemic, Aisling and her family lived in Kuala Lumpur, and her husband lived in Perlis.
They only held a simple ceremony, no celebrations were arranged, and there were not even wedding photos, which fully complied with the epidemic isolation regulations.
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Two weeks after the wedding, Aisling announced her marriage to the public, and also shared a photo of her husband and a son on social media;
(a photo of her husband and son)
and a photo of her and her husband. The photos of this stepson look quite warm.
(Photo of Aisling and her stepson)
After the wedding, their lives returned to peace.
Judging from the public photos, the relationship between the couple seems to be pretty good.
(Photos of Aisling and his wife’s life)
Until recently, they were on the hot search again. This was because she publicly announced that her husband had taken a concubine, and it was her initiative (Polygamy is allowed in Malaysia, A man can marry up to four wives).
Not long after they got married, Aisling announced that she wanted to take a concubine for her husband, but she couldn't find a suitable candidate.
Later, the husband met a female doctor himself, and their relationship was supported by Aisling: "Because it definitely fits his vision."
After her husband's introduction, Aisling and the female doctor also got to know each other.
Aisling agreed to their marriage, but also made a request to her husband -
Her husband should not interfere with the content she posted on social media, because for her, social media is a business platform.
"People like to see the personal life of artists, and my husband accepted this request."
(Aisling and her husband)
In March last year, Aisling's husband married a 26-year-old female doctor, and the three of them started a marriage. Polyamory life.
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They agreed at the beginning that the husband would live with the two wives respectively, rotating every three days.
But because the two wives live in different cities, it is very troublesome for the husband to travel back and forth, so now it is changed to a rotation every seven days.
Aisling had her own reasons for offering to take concubines to her husband twice.
"The reason why I find another wife for my husband is that I am very busy at work, and traveling on business will make me feel very uneasy."
"Now, at least there will be a wife to help him take care of his life, which will be more convenient, and I will also Able to focus on work."
(Aisling and her husband)
Aisling said that some women think her behavior is unreasonable.
But she said that her husband does not belong to her alone. If everything can be coordinated like now, that would be great;
If it doesn't work, then they will find a better solution.
herself admitted that this approach was not in line with public values and warned everyone not to try it casually.
“Polygamy is not suitable for all women.”
“If the wife does not accept it, it cannot be done because it will cause psychological harm to the wife and children."
(Aisling and her husband)
The situation of Aisling's family is destined to be just an example.
After all, love is selfish, and not everyone can accept "sharing" a partner with others.
More importantly, all of this All must be established on a legal and voluntary basis...
