I went to Oita for Valentine’s Day yesterday!
Biaozi and Sister Zhong were reunited in Thailand and were seen together many times. The two of them directly posted a photo together on Instagram and simply announced it officially.
Let’s just say, congratulations to Biaozi for defeating the breakup rumors, is finally the first to mention the official status awarded by Sister Zhong!
also became the couple with the lowest body fat rate in domestic entertainment.
Looking at the official announcement photos of the two, Sister Zhong’s muscular female boss is full of visual appeal. Look at Biaozi again, hiding behind Sister Zhong’s shoulder with a pure face.
Who would have thought that when it comes to love, a handsome young man with so many tricks up his sleeve would look like an honest and dutiful young man?
Speaking of Jiaohu, although Jiaohu is not as popular as the Jiaowives group, it is still quite popular when in love.
Today, Yang and her sisters will come to watch the daily life of Jiao Fu?
High-end male nanny
The ceiling of male virtue
A spoiled husband, as the name suggests, a delicate husband, is suitable for a big woman who works hard to make money to support the family.
A high-quality spoiled wife, one person can play multiple roles:
Baby daddy, nanny, chef, driver, male moral representative + 24 filial piety...
In the message area where we wrote about spoiled wives last time, many sisters mentioned Sichuan and Chongqing spoiled wives. husband.
Not all men in every region are darlings, but darlings in different regions have their own characteristics.
Sichuan and Chongqing Jiaofu, commonly known as "raking ears".
When the Spring Festival comes, it will be like this.
like this.
like this.
Sichuan and Chongqing sweetheart, the more colorful the apron, the more fierce the cooking skills.
Sichuan and Chongqing region version favors boys over girls: Traditional skills such as cooking are only passed down to men but not to women.
Regarding the production of spoilers in Sichuan and Chongqing, some sisters pointed out the key to the problem.
It is not Sichuan men who love cooking and doing housework, but Sichuan women's men.
taste it carefully.
Some sisters also gave suggestions on how to choose a husband with raking ears:
Sichuan has a culture of raking ears, but not all men have raked ears. If you want a husband with raked ears, you must choose a good seed before getting married:
Choose a good-tempered husband Yes, if your mother-in-law is more stubborn, her ears will naturally grow longer and narrower.
Opposite to Sichuan and Chongqing Sweet Wife, there is also Northeast Jiao Hui (yes, it is the proud Jiao, and the husband of Northeast Jiao Wife is Northeast Jiao Fu.
Northeast Jiao Fu is different from Sichuan and Chongqing Jiao Hui, who selects seed players and trains them personally. .
Their respect and fear for their wives comes from the suppression of blood.
The typical representative is Sister Yu from the Northeast.
Sister Yu chops wood, kills pigs, and carries her husband on her bicycle.
When you meet such a wife, the Northeast Naturally, my husband doesn’t dare to make a mistake.
Northeast’s wife is afraid of his wife. 1: Report in advance, for fear that he won’t be able to explain to his wife when he gets home.
“I just got married and my husband went drinking with his buddy. When it was too late, he drank too much and stayed at his house. I reported it to me, but my mother-in-law didn’t know. The next day, she grabbed her husband and scolded her. said that he was married and was not allowed to stay out at night.”
“My husband once went out to drink and I didn’t give him any money.” I called him to get anxious, and he said that other wives had called, and it seemed that his wife didn’t care about him.”
However, the Northeastern Jiaofu also has his own three-piece set of free actions: cooking, mopping the floor, and washing dishes. .
Just like the men in Sichuan and Chongqing who go to the kitchen, the sweethearts in the Northeast also love to cook.
Married men basically go to the kitchen, and it is common for men to cook while women wait for dinner.
Even when a few gentlemen are drinking and partying, they also cook. We will discuss each other's cooking skills, and we are proud that our wives and children love to eat their own meals.
Northeastern Coward is afraid of his wife 2: My wife does not agree.
In the Northeast, women are generally easy to talk, so let's put it this way, in If there's anything you don't want to do outside, just say "My wife doesn't agree" and that's it.
Beautiful men in Northeast China can also be chauvinistic, but their performance as a man is:
"Go away, you are a woman working for you", don't mess with it, don't mess with it, I'll do it, I'll do it, I'll do it ".
However, some netizens mentioned that just like Sichuan women are capable, Northeastern women are very fierce.
Northeast and Sichuan and Chongqing produce spoiled wives. Essentially, it is because Northeastern women are powerful, capable, tempered, and good at dealing with others. They are just very well-behaved.
In addition to Sichuan and Northeastern spoilers, there are also western-style Shanghai spoilers.
The typical representative of Shanghai spoilers: the painter Lao Bai played by Xu Zheng in "The Myth of Love".
Shanghai spoilers, Hechuan One big difference between Jiaofu in Northeast Chongqing is that although Jiaofu in Shanghai also go to the wet market to buy vegetables, cook, and pick up and drop off their children.
But in addition, they usually also have other skills, such as living in an apartment, stock trading, painting, and writing. Novels and movies.
As more literary men, they can still provide a little bit of emotional value when helping with housework.
The proud wives of Shanghai’s big women be like: What else can I do, my husband Pamper yourself!
The essence of spoiled husbands
Not greedy for gender benefits
Besides regions, spoiled husbands can be divided into many categories.
For example, spoiled husbands who are stay-at-home dads are equivalent to the sexual version of stay-at-home mothers. .
Their daily life revolves around the baby 24 hours a day, while the rest of the family tries their best to be a good external aid.
When the child is older, they can obviously return to the workplace, but considering the benefits of raising the child by themselves.
After all calculations, they are still their wives. The hourly wages are relatively high, but they are still willing to give up their careers and spend time at home with their children and taking care of their wives.
On their wives’ birthdays, they will also give them carefully crafted wish coupons, beat their legs, pinch their backs, and go out to watch movies... It’s true 24 A filial man.
In addition to the homely version of the sweethearts, there are also rich and wealthy sweethearts such as He Youjun and Nicholas Tse who have recently appeared in variety shows.
Their backgrounds and financial capabilities are not bad, and their personalities cannot be said to be strong.
but, etc. Jiaofu has an important characteristic: sister control + loyal dog.
Externally, he is an unattainable cold noodle boss or the second generation of a wealthy family, but internally, he is a cook who personally cooks fried tofu.
Let’s just say, rich and charming, focusing on contrast.
There are also foreign versions of wealthy couples, such as the Beavers and the Biebers and the Big Beans.
Two wealthy daughters go out with their husbands every day. Let’s feel the style for yourself.
To sum up, spoiled men are not only not afraid of being called spoiled wives, they also claim to be wives and treasured men, corresponding to some girls who are called husbands and treasured daughters.
But spoiled husbands are the same as spoiled wives. No matter which one they are, the threshold is quite high.
A sweet wife is not completely free from housework, and a sweet husband cannot completely rely on his wife. Behind the reversal of titles is the changing gender division of labor.
Summarize the essence of Jiaofu:
They not only understand the reasonable division of labor in the family and support women in life, but also do not misogyny or objectify women spiritually, and respect women.
It’s not that spoiled women have low self-esteem, it’s that they have a sense of responsibility and self-esteem but don’t believe that their dignity is achieved by suppressing women.
Take as an example the husbands of two major stars in the entertainment industry:
Tony Leung and Ang Lee.
Let’s talk about Tony Leung first. Although he has to go abroad to feed pigeons, he has been skiing in Japan for more than 20 years without speaking a word of Japanese.
But there is no doubt that he still provided Carina Lau with emotional value including appearance.
It was also rumored that Carina Lau was kidnapped, and Tony Leung supported her in suing East Weekly, which eventually led to a large-scale collective public protest.
These things are enough to show that a sweet husband like him is still hard-core in nature.
When it comes to Ang Lee, this coquettish art of using softness to overcome strength becomes even more obvious.
"10 Years of Movie Dream" edited by Zhang Liangbei mentioned the details of his marriage.
Li An didn't work for six years and spent every day buying vegetables and cooking. His cooking skills were so good that his father-in-law and mother-in-law wanted to invest in him to open a restaurant.
Later, Mrs. Li An became pregnant and did not live with Li An throughout the pregnancy.
She drove herself to the hospital to give birth, and at this moment, Li An was still playing Frisbee with others in the park.
In comparison, Li Anjiao’s is simply too much.
But looking at Ang Lee’s self-reflection and deep understanding of women in the interview, it is not difficult to find that even if he is a spoiled husband, the threshold is quite high.
Cowards may make less money, but making less money does not mean they are lazy, nor does it mean they are weak.
A high-quality human spoiled woman looks withdrawn on the outside, but in fact she is full of rebellion on the inside. The essence of
Jiaofu is that they actively deconstruct the disciplines attached to male gender by traditional culture.
does not covet male gender dividends, but takes the initiative to get rid of the dross of traditional machismo and become a more modern and civilized husband and father.
Such sweethearts, as women, how can we not hope that they can come more? After all, during this Chinese New Year, there are still some places where women are not allowed to eat at the table!
