In the prosperous Hong Kong, there was a woman whose life was like a movie of ups and downs, full of unexpected turns. She is Wu Yongwei, a legendary woman who once belonged to a gang, but later rose to prominence with her stunning looks and became "Miss Asia".
From rebellious girl to pillar: Ng Yung Wai’s transformation path
In 1969, Ng Yung Wai was born like a bright star in the prosperous and noisy Hong Kong, China. However, this star did not land in a gorgeous palace, but in a very simple family.
My father, the quietly dedicated accountant, works with numbers in the factory every day; and my mother, a hard-working cleaner, uses her hands to wipe away the dust from the family.
Wu Yongwei is the little princess in her family. Her two brothers are like guardian angels, protecting her from wind and rain. Despite living a simple life, the home was always filled with laughter.
Wu Yongwei's character is like the summer sun, bright and enthusiastic. Her straightforwardness and boyishness make her unique among the crowd.
However, in junior high school, Wu Yongwei's life encountered a huge turning point. Her beauty and intelligence are like the brightest stars in the night sky, attracting jealousy and rejection from people around her.
Those bad students were like dark clouds, trying to cover her light. The repeated bullying filled Wu Yongwei's heart with doubts and fears: Why would her excellence become the target of others?
Until that time, she bravely stood up to resist, but she was suppressed even more violently. Surrounded by fourteen or five bad students, she was like a wounded deer, helpless and confused. At that moment, she understood that only by becoming stronger can she protect her own light.
So, Wu Yongwei began her transformation. She cut off her long hair, put on men's clothes, even joined a gang and met her big brother in society. She became what others called "Miss Wu" and embarked on a rebellious path. However, this did not allow her to truly find her belonging, but instead plunged her into deeper confusion and struggle.
Weng Jiangpei’s test and Wu Yongwei’s counterattack
In those days, her hands were roughened, and her heart, after being exhausted again and again, gradually understood the importance of reading. So, she resolutely returned to school, paving a road to university with sweat and perseverance. After graduating from
, Wu Yongwei stepped into the door of a magazine and became a clerk.
She works hard and has a sunny personality, like a ray of warm sunshine, illuminating every corner of the office and winning the love of her colleagues. If she continues on this trajectory, she may live a plain and stable life.
However, fate arranged an unexpected encounter for her at a business banquet in 1988.
Weng Jiangpei’s marriage history is like a transnational version of the “Encyclopedia of Failed Marriages.” But when he saw Wu Yongwei, the fire in his heart was ignited again. He began to pursue a passionate pursuit of the young girl, and Wu Yongwei gradually fell in love with Weng Jiangpei's romantic offensive.
But Weng Jiangpei is not a man who gives his sincerity easily. He was worried that Wu Yongwei was just coveting his wealth, so he set up one test after another.
When they met for the first time, he specially drove a cheap Japanese car to pick her up. Wu Yongwei was unaware of this, and her joy and happiness satisfied Weng Jiangpei - she was not a materialistic girl.
However, the greater test is yet to come. Weng Jiangpei suggested that Wu Yongwei participate in the "Miss Asia" contest. This is a test for him: if Wu Yongwei can maintain her original intention in the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, then she is worthy of his deep love.
Wu Yongwei accepted the challenge, signed up for the competition, and used her actions to prove her love for Weng Jiangpei.
From beauty pageant star to controversial widow: Wu Yongwei’s ups and downs in life
After becoming popular, Wu Yongwei had a smooth star career. She soon participated in the TV series "The Driver" and stepped into the prosperous world of the entertainment industry. At this time, she was surrounded by many admirers, but her heart remained the same and never wavered.
And Weng Jiangpei, a man who is 31 years older than Wu Yongwei, witnessed her love and righteousness and was deeply attracted by her charm.
He was determined to marry her and give her a happy home. In 1990, the two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand. The wedding was extremely romantic, as if the prince and princess in the fairy tale finally came together.
Wu Yongwei thought she was married to love and became the happiest woman in the world.
However, fate played a cruel joke on her. While she and Weng Jiangpei were on their honeymoon, Weng Jiangpei suddenly died of a heart attack, leaving her alone to face this sudden change.
At that time, she had just been married to Weng Jiangpei for 13 days, and she fell from the peak of joy to the abyss of grief.
The death of Weng Jiangpei plunged Wu Yongwei into huge controversy and grievances. At only 21 years old, she not only became a widow, but was also labeled as a "concubine girl" and a "money worshiper girl". These groundless accusations and misunderstandings made her feel painful and helpless.
What made her even more sad and angry was that Weng Jiangpei left hundreds of millions of inheritance, but as the legal heir, she was turned away by her mother-in-law.
In order to safeguard her rights and dignity, Wu Yongwei decided to file a lawsuit with Weng Jiangpei's mother in court. The lawsuit was long and difficult and lasted for 10 years.
In these 10 years, she experienced countless hardships and struggles before finally winning an inheritance of 9 million. Although this victory was hard-won, it could not make up for the deep pain and regret in her heart.
From the abyss of despair to the other side of love: Wu Yongwei's journey of rebirth
The death of Weng Jiangpei, for Wu Yongwei, was not only the loss of love, but also the collapse of the soul. At that moment, she seemed to have fallen from heaven to hell, and grief came like a tide, drowning her. The controversy and abuse from the outside world were like salt on the wound, making her miserable.
In order to numb herself, Wu Yongwei chose alcoholism. The anesthesia of alcohol made her temporarily forget the pain, but it also made her start to indulge herself. She fell in love frequently, trying to fill the emptiness in her heart with new feelings.
However, this indulgence did not allow her to find true happiness, but instead plunged her into deeper confusion and pain.
Later, Wu Yongwei met Lian Haitang, the man who helped her find love again. Although Lian Haitang was wary of her at first, Wu Yongwei did not give up. She impressed Lian Haitang with her sincerity and enthusiasm, and the two finally came together and entered the palace of marriage.
After staying away from the decadent life, Wu Yongwei began to focus on her acting career. She has used her talent and hard work to achieve great results in the entertainment industry, and her life has gradually improved.
When reporters asked her about being a "third party" back then, she faced it calmly, admitted her mistakes generously, and had the courage to bear the consequences.
Wu Yongwei’s Marriage Defense Battle: The Victory of Tolerance and Wisdom
In 2010, Lian Haitang was actually captured by the camera sharing a romantic moment of candlelight dinner with a young woman. This news was like a bombshell, instantly causing an uproar in the entertainment industry.
Netizens were filled with indignation, accusing Lian Haitang of "marital cheating" and voicing grievances for Wu Yongwei.
However, in this turmoil, Wu Yongwei showed unexpected calmness and wisdom. She did not choose to accuse angrily, but stood by her husband's side and defended him: "After 11 years of marriage, he was photographed for the first time, just having dinner with friends."
Time flies, in the blink of an eye It’s 2016.Lian Haitang was once again exposed to the scandal of having a tryst with a young woman. This time, everyone thought that Wu Yongwei would walk away angrily. However, she once again chose tolerance and understanding.
She even took the blame on herself and humorously told the media: "Go home and hit two hundred boards!" This kind of self-deprecation and humor not only resolved the embarrassment, but also showed her generosity and wisdom.
Perhaps influenced by Wu Yongwei's generosity and tolerance, Lian Haitang has never had any scandals since then. He and Wu Yongwei fell in love in a low-key manner and guarded this hard-won happiness together.
chose to respond to the doubts and speculations from the outside world with practical actions.
Today, the 54-year-old Wu Yongwei is still active in front of the screen, and her state of mind has long become indifferent and detached. Those past disturbances are no longer important to her.
She used her own experience to tell us: On the road of life, sometimes only by choosing tolerance and understanding can we gain true happiness and tranquility.