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domestic entertainment shoots romance, the brothers and sisters are beautiful; Korean drama shoots romance, heals childhood, heals old love, heals parents, heals friends, heals yourself. In short, it is love that spreads to the world.
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When the Korean drama "Say You Love Me" premiered, I wrote a recommendation, the core of which is:
This is Zheng Yusheng! Zheng Yusheng! Zheng Yusheng!
However, when I catch up to the 12th episode, I would like to offer this recommendation that starts with appearance and finally heals.
In addition to Jung Woo Sung’s age-old beauty, I will give you three more reasons to watch this drama.
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truly touches on the plight of deaf and aphasic people
Logically speaking, people who watch romantic dramas do not come to understand the world. What they want to see is love and me, what they want to see is you and me being thick, and what they want to watch is fantasy and fantasy. Beautiful love.
This drama also has it.
When Zheng Yusheng looks at you intently with a pair of searching and affectionate eyes, oh, no, heroine, rounding it off is me watching the drama, the whole world will become quiet, and you will feel that nothing is important anymore, Just let time stay at this moment, and then you can melt into this gaze.
However, this is the feeling brought about by Zheng Woosheng's personal appearance assets and his acting skills.
Along with this feeling, the screenwriter actually used Zheng Yusheng very carefully to show us the plight of deaf and aphasic people that was rarely seen in TV dramas in the past.
Speaking at a young age, good deeds are misunderstood:
When he was painting on the street at night, he was hit by a drunk greasy uncle. He was kind-hearted and worried about the greasy uncle. He followed the greasy uncle and saw that he was about to be hit by a car. When he got hit, he immediately went to pull the greasy uncle away. As a result, the greasy uncle sent him to the police station.
When he encountered this kind of misunderstanding and no policeman who knew sign language showed up, he could not defend himself at all. Even if he showed that he could communicate by writing, the police also required that someone who knew sign language must be beside him before he could record a confession.
To put it more seriously, he lost his beloved because of it:
When he encountered a fire, everyone left, and he who couldn't hear him was concentrating on painting. He had no idea what was happening in the world and could not save those who were separated. My girlfriend, who is holding a door open, cannot save myself. The screenwriter
showed me a brand new world. As a person with intact facial features, I have never experienced a world and dilemma before. This is a task that a romantic drama did not need to achieve, but the screenwriter achieved it.
This dilemma cannot be represented by my typing four words: deaf and aphasic.
What Zheng Yusheng's ex-girlfriend Bai Yueguang said when she broke up with him may express the biggest difficulty for this kind of people to be understood.
She said:
Only you stay in the quiet world, and I have to bear everything in the real world, which makes me feel too tired. So, she chose to break up.
For another example, when Zheng Yusheng was seen by his girlfriend’s parents, even though they admitted that this man was really handsome and tall, the next question was, will my daughter have a hard time with his situation? What will happen to their lives in the future?
You can say that this is a normal reaction, but they are also a group of serious people who should be respected according to their abilities and should not suffer this so-called "normal reaction".
Maybe, if Zheng Yusheng hadn't been starring, I might not have understood the difficulties of this character so seriously. Thanks to Zheng Yusheng and the screenwriter.
A handsome actor, he can make a lot of money just by filming commercials. He is already a movie king. However, he chooses to play such a role. Through the role, we can see the plight of this kind of people. It’s really It's great.
In this world, there are people who are blind all day long, and there are also people who cannot express their inner feelings. Thinking of this, can we be less resentful towards the world? Try to live with more enthusiasm?
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If you have friends like this, what more could you ask for?
The character played by Zheng Yusheng has a good friend. This good friend is his close friend, who was abandoned together with him since kindergarten in the orphanage.
If this drama hadn't paired them with official partners, the two of them would be partners in my eyes.
When Zheng Yusheng was laughed at in elementary school, his friend used fists to teach him a lesson without saying a word. This was a manly way of expressing his attitude. Although it was too rough, it was impactful.
When Zheng Yusheng was abandoned by Bai Yueguang, he was the only person who stayed with him.
This companionship is very difficult.
Because Zheng Yusheng paints in a car every day and doesn't go to work. Of course, he doesn't know where to go to work. So, guess what, he got the money from eating, drinking and having sex?
In the lines, Zheng Yusheng said in sign language that he was very grateful to him for always providing him with all the financial help. Friends like
are like reborn parents.
Because, he did not provide it for one or two days, but for seven years.
Seven years later, Zheng Yusheng finally learned the lesson and got over the guilt of not being able to find Bai Yueguang in the fire. He became a painter and taught students at the art center.
eventually became a painter in the TV series who could hold art exhibitions and make money.
Everyone knows that those who do art are very poor because it costs money. Why is it so expensive? Because before you become famous, you only have input and no gain. If you don't become famous in your life, you will either die of poverty or become a painter.
The same goes for people who write articles.
Therefore, it was his friend who handed him over, witnessed every trough in his life, and helped him at every trough.
Therefore, one of the biggest charms of this show is this friendship.
Every time I watch the update of this drama, I look forward to seeing his tough guy friend who is not handsome but is full of warmth.
Because whenever Zheng Yusheng goes to his store, he will immediately open the closed lock. He wants to chat with him, but he doesn't want to chat with him and drink with him.
Even when Zheng Yusheng had insomnia in the middle of the night and liked to go outside to paint, he would go to other people's homes to supervise because of his worries.
If he had not been married and had no children, I guess these two could have lived together, and they would have been more loving than the Cheongdam-dong couple.
Jung Woo Sung must have experienced his love with Lee Jung Jae, so the relationship with his friend in this drama is very natural.
When Zheng Yusheng met his new girlfriend, he encouraged Zheng Yusheng to fight for it;
When Zheng Yusheng met his girlfriend and felt emotional, he taught him how to open up to his girlfriend;
When Zheng Yusheng's new girlfriend came to him, he would tell him about Zheng Yusheng's past and worries. Telling the truth without any secrets, and also telling the truth about the difficulty of dating someone like Zheng Yusheng. This is a relationship that should not be started if you are not determined. This premise is really good. If you want to have fun, don't come here;
When Zheng Yusheng’s Bai Yueguang comes to him, he will politely tell her the truth, hoping that Bai Yueguang will not cause trouble;
In short, he is like an NPC placed by the screenwriter in the drama, responsible for everyone around Zheng Yusheng Pass on the information on how to get along well with Zheng Yusheng.
Having such a friend by your side is like God giving you a backdoor.
This friendship cured Zheng Yusheng’s loneliness caused by his deafness and aphasia.
Put it this way, this drama makes me feel that the friend I want to have most in 2024 is Zheng Yusheng’s good friend. It is stronger than my desire to have Zheng Yusheng, because I know that it is too difficult to have Zheng Yusheng. Ha ha ha ha.
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Two people who love each other go to each other in order to fall in love and understand
When this drama was first aired, many people said that Zheng Yusheng was too old and not as handsome as the original version when he was doing sign language.
However, this is Zheng Yusheng.
If it weren't for him, wouldn't it be more ordinary for ordinary people to do sign language?
Although the heroine's acting skills are really poor, very poor, very poor, the screenwriter's skills are still good. The screenwriter
makes us feel through the lines that the woman loves each other out of love, and then goes all out to understand the other person, learns sign language for the other person, and strives to feel the other person's world.
Zheng Yusheng, on the other hand, fully felt the other party's love and respect for him, as well as his understanding and tolerance.
Women often say, I love you, so I want to understand you and try to understand your world.
Every time anything happens, the woman will feel the other person's feelings immediately. The character
herself really loves the man.
So does the man.
He can understand the efforts the woman makes to get closer to him.
In love, the most fearful thing is taking everything for granted.
Since you like me, you should do whatever you want.
When I was young, I once thought so ignorantly.
feels that there is a standard for liking. If the other person cannot do it, he or she is not good enough to him or doesn’t like him enough.
But in fact, love is because I like you, so I understand everything you do and I feel your feelings.
After the woman's parents came and left, the woman immediately ran to Zheng Yusheng's house to see how Zheng Yusheng was doing, and expressed that she loved him very much and couldn't wait to see him tomorrow, so she wanted to take a look before going home.
This is how considerate she is of him.
Because she knew that Zheng Yusheng must have captured the stunned expressions of her parents.
After all, he can only capture people's thoughts through facial expressions.
When you love someone, try to experience the world from his perspective. Although it is difficult, it is an easy way to the heart.
Understanding is the same as love.
The woman's approach will also heal him in the finale from the hurt caused by Zheng Yusheng and Bai Yueguang abandoning him.
Although Bai Yueguang is back, life cannot be repeated. I can only sigh that you were too young at the time.
In short, this is really a very healing Korean drama, because it cleared up the knots in my mind that I had not figured out for many years. The only downfall is that the female lead's skills are too poor. If Son Ye-jin had been cast instead, it would have been perfect.
January 16, 2024
in Hong Kong