author | Sahuan
editor | Xiang Wanwan
"A lot of Zhang Jiayi's film and television resources were provided by my father. He is just a soft-boiled man."
Du Jun said disdainfully on TV, his face full of disdain.
When Zhang Jiayi heard this sentence, the smile on his face obviously couldn't be stretched.
Normally, his wife would talk about it at home, but this was in public, obviously to expose his background.
He felt that his wife was becoming more and more strange. It was obvious that the two of them were as loving as glue at the beginning, but now his wife's behavior made him feel so strange.
In fact, Du Jun's dissatisfaction with him has reached the extreme.
After getting married, the two had different concepts of life. What Du Jun wanted was a neat and clean home.
As for Zhang Jiayi, just getting by is fine.
I often throw away clothes and dirty socks at home. For Du Jun, this was simply challenging her bottom line.
The two often quarreled over this matter.
Whenever they have a quarrel, Du Jun will definitely bring this matter up to make himself appear superior to others.
As more and more small things broke out, the two of them clashed again and again. They were so quarrelsome that neither one gave in to the other.
So in 2002, their marriage came to an end.
In fact, looking back at their family backgrounds, I can't help but see some clues.
01
Zhang Jiayi’s childhood and Du Jun’s eighteen years of life are like
In 1970, a Shaanxi boy named Zhang Xiaotong was born.
He most likely would not have thought that he would be an actor at thirty. But before that, I spent the first half of my life wandering around looking for opportunities.
His father named him Zhang Xiaotong. Later, he was dissatisfied with his name, so he changed his name to Zhang Jiayi.
's parents are employees of the Coal Science Institute. In addition to him, there are four older brothers in the family.
When he was a child, he would follow his brothers to dig out bird's nests in the spring, startling the birds, and they would fly into the sky in a hurry.
When it was summer, they jumped into the water and played together. When the fruits mature in autumn, they quickly climb the trees to pick the fruits. Wait until winter, and play snowballs in the white snow with my brothers.
spends the whole year like this, heartlessly.
On the other hand, Du Jun was born in a family of intellectuals.
Growing up, my parents raised me to be knowledgeable and sensible. Therefore, when she was a child, she played with new toys, wore the latest designer clothes, talked with people who had achieved success in various fields, and tasted all kinds of music, chess, calligraphy and painting.
is immersed in this environment and naturally has higher requirements for himself and achieves better results. At the same time, this also subtly affects one's judgment of people and things.
When he went to school, Zhang Jiayi did not show a strong interest in learning. On the contrary, he is very playful.
The get out of class bell rang, like a wild horse that had escaped from the reins, he whizzed and ran out of the classroom immediately.
During class, he would stare at his deskmate’s arm. As soon as he crossed the 38th parallel, he would immediately pick up the pen on the table and prick the other person.
In order to help Zhang Jiayi get rid of this bad habit, the teacher specially arranged for a beautiful and good-looking girl in the class to be his deskmate.
So, every time he stared at other girls, he held his head with his hand to support it. If it hurt, he would switch to the other hand, but he no longer guarded the "38th Parallel".
Until high school, his cultural classes were still not ideal.
So, he chose another path, becoming an athlete, practicing wrestling, and dreaming of one day winning the Olympic championship, or at worst becoming a soldier.
At this point, the turning point occurred.
A relative said to him:
"Did your grades in the cultural class not be good? Beijing Film Academy is recruiting students for the physical performance and recitation test. Why don't you try?"
So Zhang Jiayi became excited after hearing this. One way is one more opportunity.
Immediately afterwards, he started to take action, and together with Xing Minshan, Zhang Zijian and others, he performed a tongue twister and recitation of "One Black, Two Black" for the teacher.
So 17-year-old Zhang Jiayi successfully entered college.
Although there are not many cultural courses in the performance department, they often need to rehearse and form teams randomly, regardless of gender.
Waiting for Zhang Jiayi was not enough. As soon as he acted with a girl, his ears instantly turned red, he did not dare to look directly at the other person, and he hesitated when he spoke.
When the teacher noticed this problem, he immediately arranged for Zhang Jiayi to have a scene with a girl. When the teacher called start, Zhang Jiayi ran away without a trace.
years later, "Snail House" became a hit, and the passionate scene between Song Siming and Li Nian, translated by Zhang Jia, was also very interesting.
It can be seen that the teacher’s guidance on Zhang Jiayi’s acting was very helpful.
After graduation, all his classmates had movies to shoot, but he never found a good movie to shoot, so he returned to Xi'an Film Factory to work part-time.
After graduation, Du Jun acted step by step under the arrangement of his father, who was a screenwriter.
After returning to Xi'an, those who have no scenes to film may choose to resign themselves to fate. But Zhang Jiayi chose to start as a small player, helping the crew move stools, clean, carry lunch boxes, and be busy.
But as soon as there is a chance to rest, I will immediately open my eyes wide, watching how the actors are performing, watching their every move and smile, and let myself imitate them.
In his spare time, he went to the video store selling DVDs in front of his home and borrowed all three DVDs. Basically, he only watched the DVDs when he had time at night, and learned how to play out the lives of people from different classes.
is just like this, learning over and over again.
was noticed by several good friends around him. Whenever there was an opportunity, they all recommended Zhang Jiayi to play the role.
Finally, in 2001, someone who had known Zhang Jiayi for a while recommended him to star in the TV series "Doctor Pamir".
02
The worlds of Du Jun and Zhang Jiayi have no intersection, but they became acquainted because of a TV series.
writes about how two such different people came together, and then how they separated due to some conflicts.
In the drama, Zhang Jiayi plays a doctor and meets Du Jun, who is also in the drama.
Du Jun's gentleness, generousness and outstanding temperament quickly attracted Zhang Jiayi.
Zhang Jiayi takes the initiative and takes good care of Du Jun in the drama. Soon, Du Jun also felt that Zhang Jiayi was different. Slowly, the two fell in love.
When Du Jun chose to take Zhang Jiayi home, he was surprised to find out that the acquaintance was his father-in-law.
When his father saw that the two of them matched well, he asked Du Jun if he wanted to get married.
Du Jun asked shyly: "He has nothing, so won't I have to endure hardship when I get married?"
His father said firmly: "He is so capable and is willing to endure the hardships of filming. He will definitely achieve something in the future, it's just a matter of time. Question."
The two got married naturally with the blessings of their parents.
Life after marriage is not so romantic as in love, but more about daily necessities. In order to give Du Jun a home, Zhang Jiayi took out a loan and bought a house in Beijing.
But this house did not bring them a warm home, but wind and rain.
Although the house has zero down payment, it needs to be paid off within half a year. They borrowed money here and there, looking for ways to get loans from banks. Some of the money was borrowed from friends, and they owed many favors.
For this reason, Du Jun was very unhappy, and the seeds of dissatisfaction were planted in his heart. After
, in order to pay off the money owed to a friend. Zhang Jiayi is even more busy than before. Often going home late at night, the emotional communication between the two becomes less and less.
Until the father-in-law's birthday, the accumulated conflicts between the two completely broke out.
After Zhang Jiayi paid off the loan, he used the remaining money to buy some fruits for his father-in-law. When his wife Du Jun saw it, she almost exploded with rage.
She quickly took Zhang Jiayi's hand aside and asked, "Don't you know today is my father's birthday? Ah!"
Du Jun thought that all the dissatisfaction from the past came to mind, and she had to subsidize various living expenses.
Zhang Jiayi still treats such an important occasion like this.
got angrier and angrier as he thought about it, and roared: "Zhang Jiayi, you are just a soft-hearted man.If you hadn't taken so many resources from my family, you wouldn't know where you would be playing a small role now. "
Faced with Du Jun's lack of face, Zhang Jiayi's face turned dark and he left without saying a word.
This incident turned a red light on their marriage. In 2002, the two announced their divorce.
03
After separation How did he become popular? Finally, he wrote about how he met his lifelong partner and how he overcame the previous problems.
After the divorce, Zhang Jiayi worked harder instead of giving up on himself.
When Zeng graduated, his teacher told him sincerely that he With his appearance, you may have to play a supporting role, and it will take a long time, longer than you think. Don't give up.
Every time when filming feels hopeless, he will use these words to encourage himself, and he will definitely succeed. .
While filming "National Mission", his persistent attitude towards acting bit by bit attracted the love of his life.
At first, Wang Haiyan was dissatisfied with him for deleting the lines in the play.
Just the day before, She memorized the lines backwards and forwards. She had just understood the emotions of the characters in the play, and now she had to overturn it again.
She had a bad impression of the man who deleted the lines, but little did she know that he would later become her husband.
The director listened. After arriving, I thought about it for a few minutes, repeatedly compared which one was better, and finally chose to delete it.
After that, Zhang Jiayi took another look at every detail in the play.
With the help of the DVDs he watched repeatedly in his hometown of Xi'an and the various characters he observed, Act your character to life.
During this time together, Wang Haiyan also changed his mind.
Zhang Jiayi was also attracted by her bold personality and loyalty. The two also had a secret affection, but no one revealed it. That layer of paper.
Finally, Zhang Jiayi’s opportunity to confess came.
Someone in the crew had a birthday, and the two of them chose gifts together.
When passing a bracelet shop, Wang Haiyan was attracted by two bracelets, and looked at them over and over again. He put it down again, put it down and picked it up again, and finally chose one of them.
Zhang Jiayi saw her longing expression, sneaked back and bought the single one.
While she was still immersed in the mood of loss
As the relationship deepened, Zhang Jiayi was deeply attracted by Wang Haiyan. He was deeply attracted. As a result, his desire to marry Wang Haiyan became stronger and stronger.
But every time he mentioned it, he was rejected.
Zhang Jiayi thought that Wang Haiyan looked down on him, so he continued to work hard and consume his body More and more times, the previous spinal problems became more serious, and I was eventually hospitalized.
Wang Haiyan rushed to the hospital and said distressedly: "Why don't you take good care of your body?"
Listening to her complaints, Zhang Jiayi couldn't help but said:
"My ex-wife also dislikes me, and you dislike me now. I just want to Work hard so that you can respect me."
After hearing what Zhang Jiayi said, Wang Haiyan was troubled and said quickly: "When you recover, we will go and get the certificate."
In 2007, the two announced their marriage.
Du Jun’s father said that he missed a good man. Du Jun sneered: "Young man, I want whoever I love!"
With the support of Wang Haiyan, Zhang Jiayi became popular a year later. His role as Song Siming in "Snail House" made the public say, "What a great performance!"
When he got his salary, he bought his wife a 70 million villa and let her choose a 2 million luxury car.
What’s even more surprising is that the wife’s name is written on the real estate certificate, which gives her a full sense of security.
04
In married life, of course there are frictions between the two.
Zhang Jiayi likes to play mahjong very much, and he will stay up all night when playing. Wang Haiyan was naturally very unhappy. She thought that she would not give him a good look when she waited for him to come home.
When Zhang Jiayi came home, he smelled something wrong. With so many years of acting, he knew that his wife was angry.
So he found a sofa for himself and said, "You go ahead and I'll listen."
Wang Haiyan was a little angry before, but seeing that his attitude was okay, she decided to say less.
When he was about to speak, the sound of snoring sounded in his ears. She didn't know whether to laugh or cry. Finally, she found a quilt and covered Zhang Jiayi's body.
Once the news of their divorce was posted on the Internet, and I saw scandals flying all over the place. So Zhang Haiyan launched her own Weibo.
Following this scandal, netizens dug deeper into Zhang Jiayi’s ex-wife Du Jun.
saw an interview before, and the reporter asked her if she regretted it. She said slowly: "I don't regret marrying Zhang Jiayi, nor do I regret divorcing him. Let the past things pass."
is written at the end
Looking back at Zhang Jiayi's marriage, it also corresponds to his career.
can’t help feeling that life is a climb up step by step. Although the starting point is low, if you have a heart that refuses to admit defeat, you will see the wind and rain after experiencing all kinds of hardships.
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