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variety show "Study Trip of Love" The day when Shi Boxiong and Wu Qianyu visited Wuyuan Huangling must have been a very happy day for them, because on this day they were simply surrounded by compliments. First they praised each other, and then they also praised each other. Received praise from Charlene Choi (Asa). It is a happy thing to be praised, especially from good friends.
On the night when the study group visited Wuyuan, the program team set up the game "Friendship Adventure". The task for the unmarried group was to ask their friends to evaluate the strengths and weaknesses of their significant other, and to ask their friends whether they and their significant other were suitable. When recording that episode, Wu Qianyu had not yet obtained the certificate from Shi Boxiong, so she had to complete the task of the unmarried group. She chose to contact Asa, who would help them complete the task.
Wu Qianyu is very direct. He did not go around for a long time to guide Wang Jiaer to tell the answer to the task like He Youjun did before, but went straight to the point - I want you to talk about one of Shi Boxiong's shortcomings and one advantage. Asa was very impressive. She said from the beginning, "Shi Boxiong's advantage is that he is handsome." Wu Qianyu said, "He is going to be so happy." The reason why he said this was because when they were photographed in love, Shi Boxiong was mistaken by netizens for an older wealthy businessman. , and also ridiculed Wu Qianyu for finding a "dad" to fall in love with, which is a father-daughter relationship. But in fact, Shi Boxiong is not very old. He was born in 1989, which is only 4 years older than Wu Qianyu.
Asa repeatedly praised Shi Boxiong three times, saying that he is handsome, "And he is a very responsible person, very thoughtful, very knowledgeable, and has seen a lot of things. This kind of boy will be very attractive..."
After talking about a lot of advantages, when Wu Qianyu asked Asa to talk about Shi Boxiong's shortcomings, Asa "couldn't answer" - I seemed to... I didn't seem to notice the shortcomings.
When Wu Qianyu asked Asa to talk about the reason why they got along, Asa talked more, saying that they could both work in the kitchen and out of the living room. No one would dislike such people, and they have great social skills and can Get along well with everyone. These words are actually more about praising Wu Qianyu. I praised Shi Boxiong so much in the first part, and I will praise Wu Qianyu in the second part. We cannot favor one thing over another.
Ah sa can still talk. According to the topic setting of the program group, she seems to have to talk about the shortcomings first and then the advantages, and she only needs to talk about one of each. But Asa just said yes, and said a lot more. After praising the man, he also praised the woman. He really mastered social skills very well. No wonder she has been going smoothly for more than 20 years since her debut. There have been no major disturbances, and she is also very popular. This must be inseparable from her good social skills.
This wave of praise from Asa can be regarded as "like upon like" for Shi Boxiong and Wu Qianyu. When they were playing in Huangling, Wuyuan during the day, Shi Boxiong spent ten yuan to buy three postcards filled with words and gave them to Wu Qianyu. One of them listed Wu Qianyu's ten advantages and praised him for being perfect, including praising her beauty, Be smart, have a sense of humor, have good taste, be motivated, etc.
When resting at the B&B in the evening, Wu Qianyu thanked Shi Boxiong for his compliments during the day and gave Shi Boxiong a postcard in return. He also wrote about the other person's ten advantages - hard work, integrity, courage, kindness, humor, humility, motivation, Ambitious, responsible and considerate of others.
After the interview, Wu Qianyu said that these cards filled with words are very important gifts, and they are also proof that the other party has devoted their time and thought. A good gift is not necessarily an expensive gift or object. Things like postcards can make the other person feel your most direct and sincere love.
Shi Boxiong and Wu Qianyu gained quite a lot from this study trip. Before participating in the show, Wu Qianyu was not very good at praising Shi Boxiong, and many of his emotions were digested by himself. After participating in the program, I slowly learned to praise each other, and I also learned to share my emotions with each other, no matter whether they are good or bad. It can be said that the study trip promoted their relationship, making each other more trusting and closer, so the two got married after completing the marriage registration process. When their study trip in Jiangxi Station was broadcast, In fact, they can be classified into the married group.
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