01 The current situation of school bullying - a "war" without gunpowder
Recently, #Hao Shaowen's wife revealed that her daughter was bullied at school# - this news immediately rushed to the hot search list and caused an uproar on the Internet. It is not only because it involves the children of celebrities, but also because it touches the sensitive nerves of society: If the children of celebrities are like this, are our children still safe in school?
It is reported that on January 2, the wife of actor Hao Shaowen broke the news on social platforms, saying that her daughter was bullied by classmates at Wycombe Abbey Experimental School in Hangzhou. With the exposure of the incident, public attention suddenly increased, and relevant local departments immediately intervened in the investigation. On the 3rd, the relevant departments in Xiaoshan District, Hangzhou responded to reporters saying that they had called in school monitoring and the matter was still under further investigation.
What surprises many people is that even the aura of celebrities cannot protect their children from school bullying. When negotiations with the school failed, they had to rely on media exposure to maintain their legality. rights and interests. It is not difficult to imagine the helplessness that children from ordinary families feel when encountering similar bullying.
It is no exaggeration to say that the current situation of campus bullying is a "war" without gunpowder.
02 Official response - full efforts will be made to investigate
After the bullying incident, the negative attitude of the schools involved made parents quite dissatisfied. However, fortunately, the relevant local departments responded quickly after the online public opinion. Education, public security and other functions The department has carried out further investigation into the incident in conjunction with the jurisdiction. They stated that they will handle the matter strictly in accordance with the law and regulations, effectively protect the legitimate rights and interests of minors, and make every effort to create a good environment for the healthy growth of young people.
No matter what, this at least shows that the relevant departments pay attention to such incidents. We hope that the investigation of this bullying incident will come to light.
03 Reflection on the education system - these two issues need to be clarified
Speaking of school bullying, we are no strangers to it. Over the years, there will always be stories on the Internet about someone’s child being bullied by his classmates. The news, the kind of bullying that causes all-round harm from physical to mental hurts the hearts of many parents.
Over the years, although the relevant education departments and schools have tried to cure this stubborn disease and have made great efforts, I always feel that the results have been minimal.
The reason is very simple, because these so-called "measures" are often loud and small, and do not fundamentally deter those who bully and make them restrain themselves. What's more, some schools are so secretive out of various selfish motives that the real victims of students can rarely seek justice for themselves, and those who are the initiators of bullying can only receive a few mild criticisms from the school authorities. .
Every child is a unique being and enjoys equal rights. Their safety and mental health should be highly valued by the school. We need to clarify these two questions:
First, does the current education system provide sufficient protection for students?
Second, do school administrators have sufficient educational resources and relevant training to enable every teacher to identify and deal with bullying behavior in a timely manner?
04 The responsibility of the whole society - to build a safe fortress for children
The problem of campus bullying affects everyone who cares about education and children's growth.
Objectively speaking, school bullying is an educational problem all over the world. It should not be regarded as an isolated incident, it is a systemic problem.
This means that the unilateral efforts of the school alone are not enough. If we want to completely solve the problem of campus bullying, it not only needs to be faced and solved by the whole society: from family education to the shaping of school culture, from the establishment of the legal system To the improvement of social supervision mechanism, every link is indispensable.
At the same time, we also need to establish a long-term mechanism: that is to say, we cannot just passively find emergency solutions when problems arise, but should focus on preventing and eradicating bullying.
Every child should grow up in an environment full of care and respect. This is not only their right, but also the responsibility of our society. If an extremely bad bully is found, the relevant departments will never tolerate it, but will make the other party pay a price commensurate with his bad behavior. The cost is so high that the next time they want to bully their classmates, they will feel like throwing a bullet at the door.
05 Looking forward to completely changing the phenomenon of school bullying - not just waiting but taking action
It is undeniable that Hao Shaowen's daughter was bullied and attracted a lot of attention. This is naturally related to her family background. However, we cannot ignore those children from ordinary families who are bullied but unable to defend their legitimate rights and interests. They also need attention, protection and solidarity.
From a deep level, we are not only looking forward to the fair handling of this incident, but also looking forward to it becoming a catalyst to promote the formulation and implementation of anti-bullying regulations on campus in the future, so that more children can live in a campus without violence and fear. grow in the environment.
We admit that for many children who are bullied, the pace of justice may be slow, but if each of us takes action, we can speed up its arrival.
allows us to shift from focusing on the case of Hao Shaowen’s daughter to focusing on the broader social issue of school bullying. Through the efforts of education, law, family, social services and other parties, we jointly protect the safety of every child in school and build a growth environment for them that can meet their needs for security.
