Love is based on mutual attraction and mutual induction, rather than prayer and emotion.
In relationships, women should never just cater to others, but should improve themselves to attract the other person.
When you have these three qualities, you will naturally arouse a man's love and make him reluctant to leave you.
Clean external image
Everyone loves beautiful, novel, and vivid things, especially people who are visual animals. We are inevitably attracted to the outside.
When encountering beautiful things, I always want to look at them twice, or even collect them carefully.
Appearance is the ticket to the beginning of a relationship. No matter how good a person is, if you look sloppy, it will not arouse other people's interest in getting to know you.
If beauty is a compliment to a person's skin, then cleanliness is an affirmation of a person's temperament.
Clean is the most advanced adjective for appearance. It means concise, fresh and decent, giving people a feeling of spring breeze and an inexplicable good impression. It is a unique but not ostentatious temperament.
Just like through a tidy room, we can see a person's passion for life, a clean appearance can let us see a person's requirements for himself.
's clean external image can penetrate into every aspect of life and moisturize things silently.
A clean person must behave appropriately and be pure on the inside.
Compatible personality
A relationship often starts with appearance, but this does not mean that the continuation of the relationship only depends on appearance.
If a person has a beautiful face and a weird and stingy personality, then the relationship will not last.
In a relationship, appearance only accounts for a small part, and personality compatibility is the most reliable.
When you first started dating, you were grumpy, impatient, and unreasonable, but it didn't matter because he liked you and he would accommodate you.
But truly long-lasting love cannot be sustained by the accommodation of both parties.
The compatibility of personalities and the harmony of souls will play a key role in the duration of this relationship.
"In a person's life, it is not rare to encounter love or sex. What is rare is to encounter understanding."
When you meet someone who understands you, life can be less frictional.
In front of people with the right personality, you can tell everything you know.
But in front of people with different personalities, there is only so much to say and not much to say.
There is no perfect personality in the world, only the personality that suits you.
Only when your personality matches his and your soul blends together, can you naturally inspire the love in his heart.
Reliable character
The ultimate direction of marriage, in the final analysis, depends on the character of the other party.
The establishment of a relationship depends on the support of character, and the long-term maintenance of a relationship depends on reliable character.
Montaigne: "A happy marriage is a sweet union in life, full of steadfastness, loyalty, and countless useful and reliable help and mutual obligations."
A marriage maintained with passion is only short-lived after all; Only a marriage maintained by character can grow old together.
How many people usually live in deep love, but they part ways in the face of crisis.
Only a marriage that is true to one's character can last forever; only a love that is true to one's character can last forever.
Marriage is not a temporary love, but a lifetime of trivial matters.
Only trustworthy character can help us spend the rest of our lives.
Appearances can only attract people for a while, but character can be relied upon for a lifetime.
Xu Rusi: "The long-lasting relationship of marriage depends on two hearts, not the bodies of both parties."
The closeness of two hearts begins with a clean appearance, a consistent personality, and loyalty to a reliable character. .
May we all possess these three qualities and spend the rest of our lives happily with the people we love.
