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watched the live broadcast of Dong Yuhui and Yu Minhong's union. In front of the camera, the young man looked tired and haggard, and it was difficult and rarely possible to smile.
Not to mention that as before, he often used golden sentences, and from time to time he burst out hearty laughter from the heart, the kind of laughter that made his eyes become slits.
He said in the live broadcast that he had hardly slept or eaten much in the past few days.
In fact, he was nervous and became more and more stressed after the incident. He suffered from anxiety and insomnia and had difficulty falling asleep. He had to rely on medication to maintain his sleep.
I don’t know what kind of suffering the turmoil in the past few days has made this young man who has no experience in the world endure.
Watching the video, an inexplicable worry arose in his heart.
I hope that all this will not become the straw that breaks the camel's back, even if it is just one of them.
I hope Dong Yuhui is well.
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After watching the live broadcast, I think Dong Yuhui’s pattern is great.
I don’t know if it’s because he doesn’t understand the hardships of the world that he has such a big pattern.
Born in a rural area, he always has that land in his heart. He recognizes Dongfang Selection’s achievements in agriculture and agricultural products, and he is willing to devote his whole life to it.
Even at this time, he was still thinking about when a group of brothers from New Oriental would be able to come back and work together.
He calls himself "idle" and likes to be "arty". What he is most willing to do is tell books and introduce culture.
He maintains a rare sobriety in the world, saying that he has never attracted public attention because of his good sales of products. "I sell rice, but what you remember is the snow in Changbai Mountain. What I sell is Su Dongpo, but you remember." I have lived in a world of life and death for ten years!"
"I am not a good salesperson. I feel that the world does not lack me as a seller, and I do not want to take this opportunity to become a top sales anchor in the industry. .”
What’s even more rare is that Dong Yuhui also revealed the essence of the current top anchors’ sales.
talked about his job-hopping to make a lot of money. He said that it was nothing more than “having to shout at the top of my lungs every day, and then using some exciting music or clever language to encourage everyone to place crazy orders.” “I make more money than others. Buying more is consumerism. You spend a lot of money. My income brings inconvenience, unhappiness, abnormality, and unhealthy to many people..."
He said, "I can't take advantage of everyone's opinions on me. With love and care, you can turn yourself into a sales champion and grab more profits."
As a top anchor, being able to think like this, say such words, and make such choices is really Very admirable.
Moreover, Dong Yuhui mentioned several times that he should think about the value and significance of his work, and not leave any regrets when he looks back on his life when he is old.
He considers issues from the perspective of his entire life, and he obviously stands higher than others.
03
In front of Yu Minhong and hundreds of thousands of online netizens, Dong Yuhui finally said those words:
A scholar will die for his confidant.
The weight of this sentence is very heavy.
Dong Yuhui said this, undoubtedly entrusting his future and destiny to Yu Minhong.
Dong Yuhui, who comes from an ordinary background, should not have a noble person who can vigorously promote him in life, or an expert who can completely stand on his side and give guidance when faced with confusion.
He regarded Yu Minhong as a noble person who changed his life and destiny, and as an expert who could make him make the right choice.
suddenly discovered that Dong Yuhui has a very literary temperament.
The temperament of a scholar as I understand it is not about how many books he has read, how many poems he can recite, or whether he is as tall as a jade tree. It is about the ideal of self-cultivation, family governance, and the peace of the world that scholars have had since ancient times. That kind of compassion for the world and others. A kind of innocence that is always maintained in the impetuous world.
Dong Yuhui has the innocence of a scholar.
This innocence gave him the courage to pursue the breadth of the heart, the freedom of the body, the freedom of thinking, and the unrestrained behavior.
This innocence is easy to entrust and easy to mispay.
This innocence can make his achievements greater, or it can also make him suffer deeper harm.
I think Yu Minhong also has the temperament of a scholar.
Although as a successful businessman, he does not lack the decisiveness and sophistication that a decision-maker should have, he also retains the feelings of a literati, and he should not be as sinister as some people say.
I hope Lao Yu can help Dong Yuhui find a balance between business interests and personal feelings.
04
Lin Yutang said: "A genius often causes his wife or those who love him very much to worry about him, making people wonder whether he should be respected and loved for his fearless spirit, or should he be discouraged and protected in order to protect him from the harm of others. he".
I don’t know if Dong Yuhui is a genius, but he is indeed loved by many even strangers. They like him, are afraid that he will be harmed, and want to protect him.
I think he is worth it.
Dong Yuhui is just an honest poor boy. Fate suddenly gifted him with a set of great wealth, made him undergo some tests, and gave him greater hardships and temptations.
But he was not blinded by desire, did not take that step greedily, but soberly adhered to his original intention.
In today's materialistic world, among a bunch of old professionals in the workplace, this seems very valuable.
Many of the people who gave Dong Yuhui ideas were actually businessmen, and they all weighed the pros and cons based on the amount of money.
Dong Yuhui is just a literati. In his heart, he has the nobility, aloofness, feelings and ideals of a literati.
05
Dong Yuhui mentioned several times that he must stick to what he teaches his students and make his own life choices according to his own outlook on life and values.
This kind of mind and state of mind are moving.
Although he is not a teacher within the system, he has no staff, and even though he is no longer a teacher and is just an anchor, he can be regarded as a teacher.
Dong Yuhui said that he cannot represent anyone.
But I think he can represent the hard work and struggle, loyalty and kindness, perseverance and conscience of the young people at the bottom.
I hope that my children can grow up to be like him.
I hope this world will live up to Dong Yuhui.
I hope there are more Dong Yuhui in this world.
I hope this world will not let down everyone who has dreams and innocence in their hearts.
Pearl Talk (ID: tsliuchanghai) looks at education from the dual perspectives of teachers and parents, and answers the educational confusion of teenagers and parents.
