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Tian Shaojun's family portrait
Tian Shaojun is a well-known acting actor, starring in "The Legend of Yandi", "The Past of the Republic", "The Great Eunuch Li Lianying", "New Dragon Inn", "Glooming Weeds", "Fire Phoenix", "Love of Life and Death", "Iron Shoulder" More than 50 film and television masterpieces such as "Taking Morality" and "Blood Red Safety".
Since 2014, Tian Shaojun seldom took on plays, mainly engaged in art education, and also changed his career as a director. He wrote and directed the country's first anti-epidemic dance drama "To the North·Xing Tian'an", which aroused great repercussions.
Tian Shaojun's wife, Cai Fang, is a famous dancer at the China Opera and Dance Theater. The couple have a son. This artistic couple is dazzling on the stage, but in the trivial fireworks life, they also have the ups and downs of ordinary people...
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Tian Shaojun
On March 14, 1962, Tian Shaojun was born in Taiyuan, Shanxi. His grandfather was a master of Peking Opera and served as the luthier of the great warlord Yan Xishan.
Tian Shaojun's mother, Ma Yulou, is a well-known Xusheng actor in Jin Opera. Tian Shaojun's father was a soldier, and after he changed his career, he also engaged in performing arts.
Tian Shaojun has two older brothers. The eldest brother and his parents are both actors in Shanxi Bangzi Theatre. The second brother graduated from the Central Conservatory of Music and works in a Beijing art troupe. Under the influence of
's family, Tian Shaojun wanted to learn acting when he was a child, but he couldn't sing with his voice. Later, he learned the huqin, violin, and oboe, but he did not reach the professional level. After
graduated from middle school, Tian Shaojun applied for the Shanxi Provincial Drama Troupe, but was not accepted. In this way, Tian Shaojun became an unemployed youth.
Tian Shaojun, Gao Fa's "Iron Shoulders of Morality" stills
Parents asked Tian Shaojun to work as a temporary worker at Shanxi TV Station in order to let their son have something to do.
Tian Shaojun's job is to be in charge of lighting. When the actors rehearse and perform, he lights up behind. Hanging out with actors every day, Tian Shaojun secretly learns art.
In 1984, when the filming of the old TV series "Four Generations Under One Roof" started, Tian Shaojun's second elder brother asked a friend to arrange for his younger brother to be a costume manager on the crew.
The setting of "Four Generations Under One Roof" was set on the campus of Beijing Film Academy, just as Nortel held an admissions examination, and Tian Shaojun signed up. Originally, he didn't have much hope, but unexpectedly he was admitted.
Tian Shaojun
In September 1984, Tian Shaojun became a student of the performance department of Nortel. On campus, he met big stars such as Guo Kaimin, Tang Guoqiang, Liu Xinyi, etc. He was pleasantly surprised and excited: before, he could only see them on the screen, but now he became alumni with them!
Tian Shaojun is of medium build, with a Chinese character face, with a decent and handsome image, he is especially suitable for playing the leading role. When
was in college, Tian Shaojun played important roles in film and television dramas such as "Mountain Road", "Your Grass Heart", "Contemporary Soldiers", "Mandarin Duck House", "Murderer and Coward".
As early as 1981, when Tian Shaojun was just 19 years old, he fell in love with a girl named Cai Fang at first sight.
Cai Fang
Cai Fang is from Changsha, Hunan, and her father used to be the party secretary of Hunan Daily. She is 1 year younger than Tian Shaojun and was studying at the Beijing Dance Academy. It was November 1981. Tian Shaojun's second brother was still studying at the Central Conservatory of Music. He went to Beijing to deliver food coupons to his brother.
One day, my brother had dinner with several male and female friends, including Cai Fang.
Cai Fang is a ballet student, with a straight back and a slender neck. Wearing a white turtleneck sweater, she looks like a proud white swan. With just one glance, Tian Shaojun fell. After
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returned to Taiyuan, Tian Shaojun never forgot Cai Fang. But he is an unemployed young man without a formal job; and Cai Fang is the favored child of heaven, and he has no courage to express his love.
Tian Shaojun and Cai Fang
In 1984, Tian Shaojun was admitted to the performance department of Nortel, and suddenly gained confidence.
In October of this year, Tian Shaojun politely asked his second brother about Cai Fang's situation, and hoped that his second brother would help to invite Cai Fang out. The second brother understood what the younger brother was thinking, and invited Cai Fang to the Central Conservatory of Music the next day.
Tian Shaojun made some tests and learned that Cai Fang didn't have a boyfriend yet, so he became bolder. Cai Fang was going to buy postcards, Tian Shaojun took the initiative to accompany hershe goes. On the way back, Cai Fang's watch chain suddenly broke. Tian Shaojun sat in his brother's dormitory, repairing Cai Fang's watch chain with tweezers.
The sun hit Tian Shaojun's head, Cai Fang felt his silhouette was so handsome and charming, and couldn't help but be moved. When Tian Shaojun handed over the repaired watch to Cai Fang, he understood the tenderness in her eyes.
Tian Shaojun
After dating for more than a year, Tian Shaojun and Cai Fang confirmed their relationship. In 1988, Tian Shaojun graduated from the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy and was assigned to work in a literary and art unit in Beijing. Cai Fang has already graduated from university and is an actress at the China Opera and Dance Theater.
In 1989, Tian Shaojun and Cai Fang planned to get married in Beijing, but their parents disagreed. The parents of the Tian family felt that Cai Fang was a little delicate when she danced since elementary school, and she would not be able to take good care of her son in the future.
Cai's parents also have concerns, thinking that Tian Shaojun looks fair and clean, is the youngest son in the family, has been doted on since he was a child, and will not understand how to tolerate his daughter in the future.
Tian Shaojun and Cai Fang
Parents of both parties persuaded them to break up, but Tian Shaojun and Cai Fang resolutely got married regardless of their family's objections.
They didn't hold a wedding, and invited their parents to Beijing to have a meal together. After the meal, the 6 people took a group photo. Tian Shaojun and Cai Fang had happy smiles on their faces, but both parents had bitter faces. After
sent both parents away, Tian Shaojun said to his wife: We must live a good life and don't let both parents worry. Cai Fang shook her husband's hand: I thought so too. After
got married, Cai Fang made an agreement with her husband: I am a dancer, I want to keep fit, and I don't want to be a mother. Tian Shaojun felt that his two elder brothers had children, and his parents would not force him to have children, so he agreed.
Cai Fang
Because of the burden of not having children, Tian Shaojun and his wife are devoted to their careers. In order to facilitate the filming, Tian Shaojun resigned from the unit and became a free individual actor.
In the past few years, he has starred in a series of film and television dramas such as "Amazing Ma Zhou", "This Life and the Present", "Legend of Emperor Yan", "Republic of China", "Heroes of China", "Glooming Weed", "Laughing Mandarin Duck", and won the love and recognition of the audience.
Cai Fang has starred in many dance dramas such as "Raise the Red Lantern", "Princess Wencheng" and "The Wilderness", which have been widely acclaimed in the industry.
Not only that, Cai Fang also took over the filming of many film and television dramas such as "The Road", "The Girl in the Special Zone", "Legend of Peng Zu" and "The Female Captain", shining in the film and television circle together with her husband.
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Stills of Tian Shaojun
Tian Shaojun once shot the movie "The Eunuch Li Lianying" and the TV series "The Eunuch Xiao Zhangzi" in the Forbidden City. He was attracted by the antique mahogany furniture in the palace.
Therefore, every time Tian Shaojun got a part of the salary, he used it to buy mahogany furniture. He often patronizes the mahogany furniture market in Gaobeidian. In just over two years, he bought home dozens of mahogany furniture such as painting tables, armchairs, and top chests.
Cai Fang felt that her husband was wasting money indiscriminately, and firmly opposed him buying mahogany furniture. Tian Shaojun clearly agreed with his wife that she would take care of it when he got the salary, but after getting the salary, he couldn't help but buy mahogany furniture, which caused the couple to have stumbling blocks and quarrels.
In August 2002, Cai Fang became pregnant unexpectedly. She was very anxious and did not want to keep the baby.
Tian Shaojun's early works
At this time, Tian Shaojun was 40 years old, and suddenly had a strong urge to be a father. He said to his wife: We have to give birth to the baby, a family is incomplete without a child.
Cai Fang was still unwilling to be a mother, so Tian Shaojun mobilized both parents to do work for her. Parents on both sides took turns bombarding Cai Fang with phone calls, and analyzed to her the various advantages of having a baby.
In a word, the parents of both sides insisted that Cai Fang give birth to the baby.
Tian Shaojun also said sweet words to his wife: Don't worry, after the baby is born, I will take care of it with you. I have a lot of flexibility in my work, and I am fully responsible for taking care of the baby when I am not on the show. After
finished speaking, Tian Shaojun glanced at his wife: I found that you are more beautiful than before, and your whole body exudes the light of motherhood, which is brought to you by the baby.
Cai Fang and her son
couldn’t stand the pressure from both parents and sweet talk from her husband, Cai Fang agreed to conceive the baby. On April 23, 2003, Tian Han, the son of Tian Shaojun and his wife, was born in a hospital in Beijing. Six days after Cai Fang underwent caesarean section, Tian Shaojun packed up his things and prepared to pick up his wife and children and leave the hospital.
When he was going through the payment procedures at the toll window, he suddenly received a call from his wife, saying that her wound was open and bleeding profusely.
Tian Shaojun panicked and decisively terminated the discharge procedures. At that time, "SARS" was spreading, and people could not enter and leave the hospital casually. Cai Fang's wound had not healed for a long time, and she still had a fever and cough.
The hospital thought she had SARS and isolated Cai Fang in a 6-square-meter ward. Tian Shaojun accompanied his wife in the ward with his son in his arms.
Tian Shaojun, his wife and son
Every day after the nurses come to the ward in full armor for inspection, they leave quickly and don't want to stay for a minute longer. Cai Fang had tears in her eyes, and the family of three stayed in the 6-square-meter ward for two months.
Tian Shaojun endured his sadness and coaxed his wife with sweet words: "You are usually very busy, so treat yourself as a vacation." "You are too strong, I want to call you a hero mother, a hero wife!" Cai Fang burst into tears, but There is a smile on the face. During the period of
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, the crew of "The Great River Going East" kept calling Tian Shaojun and asked him to go to the crew to film. The
crew even promised to send a nanny instead of Tian Shaojun to the hospital to take care of Cai Fang's mother and child. But Tian Shaojun felt that his wife needed him most at this time, and he couldn't leave. In the end, the director understood Tian Shaojun.
Two months later, when Tian Shaojun's family of three was discharged from the hospital, both of them wept. The birth of
Tian Shaojun's
son made Tian Shaojun and his wife even more dependent on each other. But in the process of taking care of their son, the couple will often cause conflicts.
Cai Fang is not good at housework, she can't even cook a bowl of noodles well, Tian Shaojun insists on cooking when she is at home. When he was not at home, he ordered the nanny to cook.
One day in 2007, the couple sent their son to the kindergarten, and when they got home to open the door, Cai Fang said that the key was lost. The anti-theft door at home cannot be opened.
Their family lives on the 18th floor. Tian Shaojun has a fear of heights, and he climbed into his own house through the window of his neighbor's house with fear. Before he opened the door, he saw that Cai Fang and the neighbor aunt had already entered.
It turned out that Cai Fang put the key in the back pocket of her trousers and forgot when she opened the door. Tian Shaojun was angry, but he didn't blame his wife: Ma Daha, we are acting in a TV series, right?
Tian Shaojun and his wife were doing a TV program
Cai Fang was moved by her husband's good temper: Don't worry, I won't have this kind of thing happen again in the future.
's son, Tian Han, has gathered the strengths of his parents and is handsome and cute. Tian Shaojun didn't force his son to learn to play the piano, nor did he force him to attend various remedial classes, everything went with the flow.
In 2011, the Chaoyang District Experimental Primary School where Tian Han was located was going to participate in the report performance of the district's quality education. The school leaders invited Tian Shaojun and his wife to help guide the party.
Chen Weiya, the assistant director of the opening and closing ceremonies of the Beijing Olympic Games, was also invited.
All the performers in this show are students, from kindergarten to fifth grade, the children have not received professional training.
Tian Han
During the rehearsal of "Going to the Next Level", a little girl couldn't dance properly. Tian Shaojun didn't want to talk about the other party, so he blamed his son. The son was tearful.
On July 29, 2011, the report performance of Chaoyang District Experimental Primary School in Beijing was held in the Beijing Workers' Gymnasium. The children's performance of "Going to the Next Level" won warm applause.
In order to thank Tian Shaojun and his wife for their dedication, the school leaders invited them to serve as the school's extracurricular counselors and the instructors of the school's art troupe.
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In 2012, Tian Shaojun directed the children of Chaoyang District Experimental Primary School to rehearse the drama "Tea House".
On June 9th, which coincided with the 60th anniversary of Beijing People's Art, the children performed "Teahouse" at Chaoyang Theater, which aroused great repercussions.
Tian Shaojun and his wife
Cai Fang and their children took the stage to receive the award
Since 2013, Tian Shaojun and his wife have volunteered to rehearse plays, dances and other programs for the children of the school art troupe.
In 2014, the children participated in the third Australian NationalIn the International Youth Talent Competition, he won 7 awards including the "Sydney Talent Cup".
In 2015, Tian Han graduated from elementary school and entered junior high school. Tian Shaojun and his wife still volunteered to serve as off-campus counselors of Chaoyang District Experimental Primary School.
directed the children to rehearse and perform, which took up a lot of Tian Shaojun's time. He missed a lot of plays because of this, but he has no complaints or regrets.
Since 2016, due to his older age and fewer drama appointments, Tian Shaojun began to transform into a director again.
Tian Han
At this time, both Tian Shaojun and his wife had entered middle age, and appeared aesthetic fatigue. Many middle-aged couples are husband and wife during the day and tenants at night, and they did not divorce just because of their children.
Some husbands, after entering middle age, refuse to look at their wives more, and the wives complain about this. Therefore, the marriage of middle-aged couples is very fragile, and the divorce rate remains high.
Tian Shaojun is quite wise in life, and as always, takes advantage of his sweet mouth. At home, he always praises his wife. When his wife bought a new skirt, Tian Shaojun would say: This skirt is only suitable for you.
His wife came back from dancing and won an award. He praised her as a beautiful woman and a talented woman.
Stills of Tian Shaojun
Son has excellent grades in school exams, Tian Shaojun will also praise his wife: Son follows mother, you gave birth to such a smart son for me, I will make a lot of money by marrying you as my wife!
Cai Fang clearly knows that her husband's words are watery, but she just loves to listen. A compliment from her husband will put her in a good mood. She also realized that if a man has no love in his heart, he will not praise his wife.
Influenced by her husband, Cai Fang will also praise her husband in due course, and is more willing to contribute to the family and husband.
In this way, their marriage became more and more harmonious and happier.
Tian Shaojun's family of three
In February 2023, Tian Shaojun was 62 years old, and he had been married to his wife for 34 years. Life is long, and it is not easy to maintain a marriage for decades. Besides, the divorce rate in the entertainment industry remains high, and Tian Shaojun's marriage scene is unique here!
People often ask Tian Shaojun the secret to managing a marriage, and he cheerfully says, that is to say more good things in front of his wife, praise her more, and a man with a sweet mouth is more likely to be happy!
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