Ni Ping once said this sentence in a program: "If there is a next life, I don't want my parents, I don't want children, I don't want a family, I just want to be alone." When she said this, Ni Ping was 55 years old , It is the age of experiencing life's setbacks and seeing through life.
Ni Ping has loved 5 men in her life and had three marriages, but only Guo Da and Chen Kaige made her most unforgettable. What happened to Ni Ping? Why is the relationship so rough? What kind of existence are Guo Da and Chen Kaige in Ni Ping's life?
Ni Ping was born in Weihai, Shandong Province in 1959. In fact, her surname was not Ni, but Liu Ping, following her father's surname. But when she was 10 years old, her parents divorced because of emotional disagreement, and then Ni Ping lived with her mother and grandma.
When she was 20 years old, Ni Ping was admitted to the Shandong Art Institute. Because she had no relationship with her father since she was a child, she made a bold decision when she was in college, which was to change her surname to her mother’s surname. " became "Ni Ping".
When she was young, Ni Ping was very beautiful, tall and talented, so she began to act in movies when she was in college, and she has appeared in many films such as "Mountain Chrysanthemum" and "Female Soldier". In the film also played the heroine.
After graduation, Ni Ping was assigned to the Shandong Drama Theater. With her superb acting skills and unique talent, she was rated as a national second-class actor in the second year of graduation. At that time, Ni Ping was just 24 years old.
There is a good saying: "It is gold that always shines." Ni Ping's personality and talent are destined to have an extraordinary life. At the age of 29, she was invited to participate in the Spring Festival Gala of Qingdao TV Station. Coincidentally, Liu Ruiqin, the director of CCTV, was also present. When she saw the pure, beautiful and talented Ni Ping, her eyes lit up. Introduced Ni Ping to CCTV.
When she first joined CCTV, Ni Ping hosted a program that did not have a very high ratings. Although she was very popular in local TV stations at that time, she felt pressured by CCTV, where there are so many talents. Especially at that time, many hosts in the station looked down on her and thought she was just a vase. But Ni Ping didn't think so. She knew that the opportunity was hard-won, so she cherished it all the more.
In 1990, Ni Ping officially served as the host of "Variety Show". With her humorous and witty host style and flexible control ability, Ni Ping became popular instantly and became the most popular hostess of CCTV.
In 1991, Ni Ping started to host the Spring Festival Gala together with Zhao Zhongxiang. That is, since this year, she has appeared on the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Gala 13 times. At the peak of
, Ni Ping has also won many awards such as the Starlight Award and the Golden Microphone Award, and has become a well-deserved "first sister" of CCTV.
Ni Ping's career is undoubtedly successful, but few people know that while her career is successful, her love life is very bumpy. She has loved 5 men in her life and had three marriages. Among these 5 men, some have brought her joy, while some have become the pain of her life.
Before Ni Ping joined CCTV, she had a marriage. She and her first husband were college classmates, and they got together after graduation. After marriage, Ni Ping gave birth to a daughter.
But later when Ni Ping decided to go to CCTV, her husband objected, but for her career, Ni Ping resolutely came to Beijing. Because of this, her husband filed for divorce. After the divorce, Ni Ping worked hard in CCTV alone, while her husband and daughter stayed in their hometown. After
came to CCTV, Ni Ping met Guo Da, a sketch actor. At that time, Ni Ping had just divorced, and she had always been excluded in CCTV, and she was always in a very low mood. Guo Da, who is a comedian, always likes to tell her jokes and make her happy after seeing her. Gradually, the two developed feelings and developed from friends to lovers. During the period when
and Guo Da were together, it can be said to be the happiest time in Ni Ping's life, but unfortunately, when the two were discussing marriage, they were opposed by Guo Da's mother. The reason is the twoThe disparity in family background, and Ni Ping had a marriage history, in the end, the two failed to get together. After
left Guo Da, another man broke into Ni Ping's life, and the man who hurt Ni Ping the most was Chen Kaige.
Ni Ping and Chen Kaige met in 1991. At that time, Ni Ping had already become famous, but Chen Kaige was still an unknown little director, and at this time he had just divorced Hong Huang. In fact, before Hong Huang, Chen Kaige had already been married, that is to say, when he met Ni Ping, Chen Kaige had been divorced twice.
Although Chen Kaige's relationship history is also very complicated, Ni Ping doesn't seem to care. She was deeply attracted by Chen Kaige's talent, and regardless of her status as a CCTV host, she fell in love with Chen Kaige. It didn't take long for the two to live together.
At that time, Chen Kaige and Hong Huang had just returned to China after their divorce, and they had been living in a hotel, while Ni Ping went straight to the hotel after get off work every day, doing laundry and cooking for Chen Kaige, and caring for Chen Kaige in every possible way. At the beginning, Chen Kaige was very moved, and said to Ni Ping more than once: "Marry me, live with me."
Facing Chen Kaige's sweet talk, Ni Ping believed it. At this time, she did not expect that the sweet talker in front of her would The man is also the man who deceived her, betrayed her, and hurt her the most.
The two have been in love for many years. Chen Kaige has always enjoyed Ni Ping's care for him and his family, but he has never mentioned marriage to Ni Ping. But Ni Ping, who was deeply in love, believed in Chen Kaige, and often took care of Chen Kaige's sick father as a "prospective daughter-in-law". Even the death of Chen Kaige's father was all arranged by Ni Ping.
However, just when everyone recognized Ni Ping as the daughter-in-law of the Chen family, Chen Kaige moved on and fell in love with another woman, that is Chen Hong.
Chen Kaige and Chen Hong met when they were filming "Farewell My Concubine". At that time, Chen Hong went to visit Leslie Cheung, but he was caught by Chen Kaige unexpectedly. He was attracted by the pure and beautiful girl in front of him.
In 1994, the two met again. At that time, Chen Kaige was preparing to shoot the movie "The Wind and Moon". Chen Hong came to apply for the job. When she was putting on makeup, Chen Kaige quietly stood behind her, admiring Chen Hong who squinted and rested because of exhaustion . When Chen Hong opened his eyes, he was startled at first, and then his face was flushed, and his heart was pounding. In this way, Chen Kaige talked about love with Chen Hong behind Ni Ping's back.
Chen Kaige and Chen Hong are both you and me, but Ni Ping is still waiting foolishly. Not long after, Chen Hong became pregnant. Before Chen Kaige and Ni Ping broke up, she couldn't wait to find Ni Ping and said, "I'm pregnant." After hearing this, Ni Ping was very surprised. She couldn't believe what Chen Hong said, so she I went to question Chen Kaige, but unexpectedly Chen Kaige said: "She is pregnant, and there is nothing I can do about it."
In 1996, Chen Kaige officially broke up with Ni Ping, ending their 6-year relationship. After breaking up, Chen Kaige couldn't wait to get married with Chen Hong. At that time, Chen Kaige was 45 years old, while Chen Hong was only 29 years old.
is meant to win people's love. It would be fine if Chen Hong kept a low profile, but unexpectedly, she mocked Ni Ping instead: "It's because she's old that she can't keep men."
After breaking up, Ni Ping wrote a In her autobiography, titled "Days", she wrote: "Extremely sad, sad, and washed with ashes in the intestines, because he told me many times, marry me, live with me! He said He was so sincere, persistent, and sincere, but he didn't mention the matter of marriage."
Ni Ping also said that the time when she and Chen Kaige were together was a period of time without self-esteem and self-lost. After
broke up with Chen Kaige, Ni Ping met her next husband, Wang Wenlan. In 1997, the two got married with a certificate, and Ni Ping gave birth to her son Huzi after marriage.
I thought Ni Ping, who had gone through ups and downs, would live a happy life for the family of three after having a child. But who would have thought that not long after his son was born, he was found to have congenital cataracts.
in order to cure his sonDue to illness, Ni Ping spent almost all her savings, often traveling back and forth between the United States and China. In order to make more money for filming, Ni Ping even quit her job at CCTV.
Ni Ping has done so much for her children, but what about her husband Wang Wenlan? Not only did he not share the burden for Ni Ping, he even persuaded Ni Ping to give up, which made Ni Ping very angry, and the two had a fierce quarrel over this.
Seeing that Ni Ping emptied her family property for her son, Wang Wenlan ruthlessly proposed a divorce to Ni Ping at this time. In 2005, the two ended their 8-year marriage. Although the marriage was gone, Ni Ping did not give up on her son's treatment, and her hard work paid off. Finally, one day, the doctor told her the good news, that is, she would not have to go to the United States every year in the future. Just go check it out. In the same year that
and Wang Wenlan divorced, Ni Ping married director Yang Yazhou. Perhaps because of too many failed relationships, Ni Ping is very low-key about this relationship, and Yang Yazhou loves Ni Ping in every possible way, and treats the tiger as his own, which makes Ni Ping very moved.
Throughout Ni Ping's life, she has experienced glory and also fell into trough, but among the five relationships, there are only two men that she can't forget, one is Guo Da who brought her joy, and the other is hurt Her deepest Chen Kaige. Fortunately, now she has gone round and round, and finally found the person who loves her the most.
After reading all of Ni Ping's life experiences, maybe she will understand why she said that she would not want parents, children, or family in her next life? Because she doesn't want to drag anyone down, let alone be anyone's drag, she can live out herself chicly and freely.
Today Ni Ping is 63 years old. Ups and downs and ups and downs have long been a thing of the past for her. What she has to do now is to live well in the present and be herself.
wishes Ni Ping happiness in her later years. No matter what she goes through, she will always be the "goddess" in everyone's hearts.
