In 2005, "Bright Sword" made Li Youbin very popular. The Li Yunlong he played in the play is a tough, bloody and passionate man, and he is a hero in many people's hearts. But few people know that in real life, he has empathized with other people, divorced his first wife who had been married for more than 20 years, and married Shi Lanya, who was 13 years younger and third-married.
After the remarriage, Li Youbin treated his stepson as his own, and became a qualified stepfather. But looking back at his own son, he still couldn't get out of the shadow of his parents' divorce, and he was even more afraid of marriage.
What exactly did Li Youbin do? Why abandon his wife and son and marry Shi Lanya, who is married three times? How are they doing now?
Li Youbin was born in 1958 in an ordinary family in Changchun City, Jilin Province. His parents both worked in the local watch factory. His elder sister Li Yeping was also an actress.
When Li Youbin was 5 years old, Li Youbin once had a chance to become a child star. At that time, Changchun Film Studio wanted to make a movie called "The General's Son" and finally chose Li Youbin. But due to some special reasons, this movie was not made, and Li Youbin also missed the opportunity to become a "child star".
Because of his love of acting, Li Youbin joined the school drama troupe when he was in middle school. At the age of 16, he was selected by the Changchun Repertory Troupe by virtue of his own strength and became a real actor. Although he is the youngest in the group, his acting skills are not inferior to the others. Not long after joining the group, Li Youbin starred in many dramas such as "Save Her" and "The End of Beijing", and gradually became the backbone of the group actor. While
's career was developing, he also ushered in the first relationship in his life, which was Zhang Ruiqi who later became his wife. Zhang Ruiqi is also a drama actor in the troupe. She was very beautiful when she was young, and there are many suitors around her, and Li Youbin is one of them.
In order to pursue Zhang Ruiqi, Li Youbin often gave some small gifts, and even picked her up to and from get off work together. In the end, Zhang Ruiqi agreed to his pursuit. In 1984, the two entered the palace of marriage. In the second year after marriage, Zhang Ruiqi gave birth to her son Li Xiaoke for Li Youbin.
In order to take better care of the family, after giving birth, Zhang Ruiqi left the drama stage and devoted herself to caring for her husband and raising her children at home. Not long after, Li Youbin also left the repertory troupe, entered the Changchun Film Studio, and became a film actor. After
entered the film studio, Li Youbin starred in many films such as "Death Certificate" and "Sky Valley". I made a bold decision to give up my current job and go to Beijing to find opportunities.
When he learned that Li Youbin was going to Beijing, his parents and sister unanimously opposed it, but Zhang Ruiqi was very supportive. When his son was 10 years old, Li Youbin came to Beijing with his wife and son. Here, a family of three squeezed into a small house, Zhang Ruiqi took care of the children at home, while Li Youbin went out to film and wait for opportunities.
The kind and simple Zhang Ruiqi is taking care of the children while feeling sorry for Li Youbin who is traveling around the world. Every time Li Youbin comes home, she will greet him and cook a lot of delicious meals for him. But how did she know that at this time Li Youbin had long since lost his old feelings for her, and he had another woman in his heart, that is Shi Lanya.
Shi Lanya is 13 years younger than Li Youbin and is also an actor. The two met in 2003 while filming the TV series "Jiangshan". At that time, Li Youbin was still unknown, but Shi Lanya was already very famous. At the age of 19, he and Chen Daoming starred in the TV series "The Besieged City", and the two had an affair because of this.
Shi Lanya is not only more famous than Li Youbin, but also has a richer relationship history than Li Youbin. When the two met, Shi Lanya had been divorced twice. Her first husband was the well-known actor Liu Bin, but they divorced not long after they got married.
Later, under the introduction of her family, she married a "returnee" and gave birth to a son after marriage. But unfortunately, the second husbandLater, he was diagnosed with cancer. In order not to drag Shi Lanya down, he chose to divorce. After the divorce, his son has been living with Shi Lanya.
After the two divorces, Shi Lanya had been in love with Weizi for many years, but it ended without a problem in the end. It was not until he met Li Youbin that Shi Lanya started a new relationship. Although the two had good feelings for each other at the time, they did not confess to each other, but were silently in love.
debuted for many years, Shi Lanya has a lot of experience in acting, and she has also helped Li Youbin a lot in his career. In 2004, the director of "Bright Sword" found Li Youbin, hoping that he could play the role of Li Yunlong in the film. Shi Lanya thought that it would be a big hit. In the end, Li Youbin took over the film.
Anyone who has watched this movie knows that most of the movie was filmed in winter, so during filming, Li Youbin had a severe cold and fever. After learning about it, Shi Lanya rushed to the crew to take care of it, which moved Li Youbin very much. In 2005, "Bright Sword" was welcomed by everyone as soon as it was broadcast. Li Youbin also became popular overnight with this drama, and won the Golden Eagle Award for Audience's Favorite Actor.
At this time, he was already 47 years old, so he was a late bloomer.
After "Bright Sword", the crew of "Crossing the Guandong" found Li Youbin again, hoping that he could play the role. Li Youbin was hesitant at first, but after reading the script, Shi Lanya thought that Zhu Kaishan in the play was tailor-made for Li Youbin, and the play would definitely be popular. Sure enough, after "Crossing the Guandong" was broadcast, Li Youbin became popular again.
Seeing her husband's career getting better and better, Zhang Ruiqi was naturally happy. She thought that her husband's popularity would improve the family's life, but who would have thought that her husband would file for divorce. The reason for Li Youbin's divorce is also very simple, because the relationship with his wife has weakened because of less gathering and more separation.
The moment Li Youbin proposed divorce, Zhang Ruiqi's heart skipped a beat, tears couldn't stop streaming down her face, she didn't say a word. But when his son Li Xiaoke knew that his parents were going to divorce, he couldn't accept it at all. He tried his best to prevent his parents from getting divorced, and asked his father over and over again: "Is there no room for redemption?" After hearing this, Li Youbin shook his head.
At this time, Li Xiaoke was an adult, and he knew what the divorce of his parents meant to him. He was crying as he helped his father pack his things. He wanted to prevent his parents from divorcing, but he was powerless. When his father turned around and walked out of the house with his bag in hand, he couldn't help crying.
Maybe he knew he was wrong. When he divorced, Li Youbin left the house to his ex-wife and son, and left the house by himself.
The divorce of his parents had a great impact on Li Xiaoke. He was originally lively and cheerful, but he became taciturn, unwilling to contact with others, and depressed all day long. Zhang Ruiqi told him: "We must all be well." Li Xiaoke nodded and sighed deeply. After
divorced, Li Youbin began to boldly pursue Shi Lanya, perhaps because he was afraid of being discussed, so the relationship between the two has never been made public. Until 2008, when the two were shopping together, they were photographed. After the incident was exposed, everyone started to talk about it. Many people accused Shi Lanya of being involved by the third party, and Li Youbin was also scolded as a heartbreaker.
Who would have thought that Zhang Ruiqi stood up at this time, saying that the divorce was not Li Youbin's fault, but that she couldn't bear it.
Knowing that there is no longer any way to hide it, Li Youbin became much calmer. He and Shi Lanya decided to take advantage of the trend to obtain a marriage certificate and officially become husband and wife.
When Li Xiaoke learned that his father was going to remarry, he couldn’t accept it no matter what. He said to Li Youbin angrily: “I have a mother, and I don’t need someone else to be my mother.” Li Youbin tried to reason with his son, but Li Xiaoke couldn’t listen There was no way to go in, Li Youbin made a phone call with his ex-wife, and finally, under Zhang Ruiqi's persuasion, his son accepted the fact that his father was going to remarry. After
and Shi Lanya got married, Li Youbin had to accept a new "challenge", which was Shi Lanya's son Hanhan. It turned out that Shi Lanya's son didn't accept his mother being with Li Youbin at all.Li Youbin loves him very much, not only playing with him often, but also taking him to and from school, doing even better than his biological father.
Li Youbin knows that Shi Lanya's son likes butterfly specimens, so whenever he goes out to film, he will try his best to collect various butterfly specimens for him, and write the name and place of origin of the butterflies on them.
Li Youbin has devoted his heart to Shi Lanya's son, and his hard work pays off. His dedication finally won the child's approval. Han Han finally accepted Li Youbin, and affectionately called him "Daddy".
Li Youbin treats Shi Lanya's son as his own, but what about his own son? Although he usually cares about him, he can't be with his son. His greatest concern for his son is nothing more than "giving money", which also makes the relationship between father and son weaker and weaker.
Although he is not accompanied by his father, Li Xiaoke is still very sensible. Not only is he very considerate to his mother, but also has excellent academic performance. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
Maybe it was to make up for the debts in his heart. Li Youbin often cared about their mother and child. He knew that his ex-wife was not in good health, so he often secretly bought medicine for her. As long as she is not filming, she will take her son home, and Shi Lanya is also very kind to Li Youbin's son, every time Li Xiaoke goes, she will cook a big table of delicious meals.
But despite this, Li Xiaoke was never happy. He often locked himself in the room and did not allow anyone to disturb him. Li Youbin also wanted to get into his son's heart very much, but since he was a child, he lacked his son's growth and company. How could he truly understand his son's heart by just getting along with him for a few days?
Since Li Youbin's divorce, Li Xiaoke has been under the shadow of his parents' divorce. He is afraid of love, and even more afraid of marriage. After Li Youbin learned that his son had never been in a relationship, he was very anxious. He said to his son: "You can fall in love boldly and safely. You don't need to worry about the house, car, bride price, etc. when you get married."
Li Xiaoke said: "I don't believe it. Love, you and my mother have lived together for so many years, are you still divorced?" Li Youbin didn't know how to answer his son's words, and then he realized that his divorce had brought such great harm to his son.
After pondering for a while, Li Youbin told his son: "I separated from your mother for a reason. You can't stop believing in love just because your parents divorced. What's more, although your mother and I are separated, we are still relatives."
In fact, Li Youbin didn't know that his son once had a relationship in which a girl actively pursued him, but in this relationship, Li Xiaoke was very passive. He didn't dare to associate with girls, because in his heart, he was full of love and marriage. Not longing, but fear. He has witnessed the love of his parents at the beginning, and also faced the indifference of his parents when they divorced, and he understands his mother who washes her face with tears all day long. This kind of resistance to marriage is something Li Youbin can't understand anyway.
Now Li Xiaoke is 37 years old, and he has already reached the age of marriage and childbirth, but he is still single and never married. Li Youbin was able to make up for his son financially, but the lack of love and companionship caused a psychological shadow on his son, but he couldn't make up for it for the rest of his life.
In the end, I still hope that Li Xiaoke can get out of the shadow of her parents' divorce as soon as possible, find someone who truly loves each other, and stay with her until she grows old.
