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"There is only a mother who is good, and a child with a mother is like a treasure. If you fall into the arms of your mother, you can't enjoy happiness..." As long as you are Chinese, I believe you must have heard this song Song, but who is the original song of this song, do you know?
Her name is Xiao Fangfang. When she sang this song, she was only 11 years old. Although she was very young, with her moving melody and beautiful voice, she let this song be sung across the country.
Xiao Fangfang lost her father when she was young. She started filming to make money to support her family. She divorced at a young age, and suffered deafness in both ears when she was old. Her life can be said to be a bumpy and thorny life.
However, she has never succumbed to fate, and despite the twists and turns of her life, she has been working tirelessly. In her career, she has won the Golden Horse, Golden Statue, Golden Bell, and Berlin four major awards, and also won the Golden Statue Award for Lifetime Achievement, which can be described as a glorious addition; in life, although she has experienced one marriage failure, she is in another marriage Happy for more than 40 years.
Today’s Xiao Fangfang is over 70 years old. She is unable to film because of her hearing loss. She has devoted her energy to charity. Seeing that too many children in society have been sexually assaulted, she took the lead in setting up the “Medical Seedling Foundation” for those A child who never knew each other, she did all kinds of propaganda back and forth, running around on the front line of fundraising.
all say that life is a process of ups and downs, but Xiao Fangfang's life is a story of falling and falling, not convinced, rising and falling, continuing to work hard, and continuing to rise and rise.
Xiao Fangfang was born in 1947. In that era when everyone was worried about food and clothing, her father had already returned from studying in Germany, a returned father who was a managing director of the Industrial Bank of China, and a top student who graduated from Shanghai Academy of Fine Arts. Mother, Xiao Fangfang's birth, can be regarded as winning at the starting line.
However, the good things of the world make others. When Xiao Fangfang was 3 years old, his father, the pillar of the family, suddenly passed away due to illness. If it were not for this life change that caused the family to fall, Xiao Fangfang might have a smooth but not so wonderful life. After the death of
's father, Xiao Fangfang’s mother and daughter’s lives were stretched. By coincidence, the 6-year-old Xiao Fangfang made the first film in his life, "Little Star Tears". It was also because of this movie that Xiao Fangfang took the road to stars. The first step. When
was 8 years old, she won the Best Child Star Award at the Asia-Pacific Film Festival for her outstanding performance in the movie "Aunt Mei". "The Only Mother in the World Is Good" is the theme song of the movie "The Wandering Children" starring in her. She was only 11 years old when she made this movie.
The filmmakers are always glamorous in front of people, tears and sweat are spilled behind them, although they have become a well-known star, they are in the limelight, and only she knows the hardship and suffering that Xiao Fangfang endured.
Xiao Fangfang had a short relationship with Nicholas Tse's father Xie Xian when he was young. There are rumors that it was Xiao Fangfang who dumped Xie Xian, giving lover Xie Xian the first taste of being abandoned. In an interview with Jin Xing two years ago, Xie Xian mentioned this past event. He said that Xiao Fangfang is a very good girl. In order to make a living, she has been filming since she was young. In fact, she has never given up on self-study. During the days when they interacted, Xiao Fangfang often persuaded him to study hard, and he was also a coveted and happy one. People, after a long time, he took the initiative to withdraw from Xiao Fangfang's life.
Xiao Fangfang has always had a dream hidden in her heart, that is to go to school. She wants to be a student, studying in a bright classroom every day, making movies in her spare time, others are resting and playing, and she reads quietly beside her.
Xiao Fangfang once said: "Back then, no one read books on the set, only the "Ma Jing". Some people laughed at me: Seeing your enthusiasm, it seemed like you were going to be the champion! These words gave me a lot of excitement at the time, thanks to it. This person’s words gave me the motivation not to go to university. "The older she is, the stronger her desire to go to school. In her 20s, when she was the most popular, she stepped on the opposition from everyone. , She decisively suspends her prosperous career and chooses to study in the United States.
She studied part-time work, first went to Setonhall University in New Jersey to study mass communication, and then admitted to the New York University and Setonhall University Graduate School, in 1973, she successfully obtained Setonhall, New Jersey Bachelor of Mass Communication from University.
Xiao Fangfang left the film scene when everyone was not optimistic.She was unfavorable, but she did not expect that because of the title of "highly educated actress", she not only was not eliminated by the times, but her career rose to the next level. It was also at this time that she experienced the first short marriage in her life. .
In the 1970s and 1980s, "Double Qin Struggles for Forests" was once a post-dinner conversation for many people. The most popular version of
at that time was this. Qin Han and Qin Xianglin were married, Qin Han’s wife was Shao Qiaoyin, Qin Xianglin’s wife was Xiao Fangfang, and Qin Han and Qin Xianglin fell in love with the popular lovers Lin Qingxia and Lin Qingxia at the same time. In Qin Han, after Qin Han refused to divorce for a long time, Lin Qingxia traveled to a foreign country because of her love.
Qin Xianglin, who is obsessed with Brigitte Lin, was originally at a disadvantage in this love triangle. Because he decisively divorced and pursued it for thousands of miles, he finally moved the beauty of his heart and made a marriage contract with him that lasted only four years. Many people sympathized with the "abandoned wife" Xiao Fangfang, and abused Qin Xianglin in every possible way.
Actually, Xiao Fangfang later clarified that Qin Xianglin was young and romantic at that time, and Xiao Fangfang only wanted a stable marriage. This marriage made both of them feel deeply tired, and their disagreement appeared early. Before the scandal broke out with Brigitte Lin,
had already reached a separation agreement. If they still feel that each other is inappropriate during the separation and cooling off, the two will break up peacefully.
Xiao Fangfang said afterwards: "A happy marriage requires three points of luck and seven points of hard work in addition to the cooperation of the couple in all aspects. Since Xianglin and I cannot grow together, enrich each other and enrich each other's Life, we think the most right thing is to break up friendly before we reach the point of'cannibalism'."
Xiao Fangfang's second husband is Zhang Zhengfu, an outsider, and was asked why he chose him? Xiao Fangfang said that it is very happy to be with him, our outlook on life and values are very similar, and it is very pleasant to get along with him.
Xiao Fangfang is a person who puts family above her career. She once said that in her three identities in life, the roles of wife and mother are always above the actors. She also proved this with practical actions. . After
got married with her second husband, she again gave up her prosperous acting career and went to Australia with her husband because of a job change.
If she never gave up for a moment in her life, I am afraid that she has studied and grown up. In Australia, she continued to study architecture because her children were unattended and she had been a housewife for a while.
She said, “It’s more fun to be at home than filming, because I have learned a lot. I have to keep introspecting all day long, and then I have to correct the bad things on myself.” After
returned to China again, she was already middle-aged. But she has not been abandoned by the movie market because of her age. The classic mother Miao Cuihua in "Fang Shiyu" is the biggest surprise she brings to fans.
In today's society, under the instigation of many media, the topic of "middle-aged crisis" has repeatedly appeared in all corners of Weibo in the circle of friends. As the main carrier of the crisis, married middle-aged women seem to be walking on thin ice.
It is true that all of this is by your side, or you and me. Some people in unhappy marriages shed tears every day, while complaining, while squandering their lives; some are constantly wandering on the edge of career and family Temptation can never find a balance point; there are also people who are trapped in the trivialities of life, lamenting that when people are middle-aged, everything becomes involuntary.
, even the first-line actress Hai Qing, half-jokingly urged the producers to give the middle-aged actress more opportunities in public. However, is it useful to complain? How much happiness can anxiety make people happy?
When the "middle-aged crisis" was raging across the world, the topic "why middle-aged actresses regained attention" suddenly became a hot search two days ago.
Yuan Quan in "The Captain of China", Xiao Tao Hong in "Xiao Huanxi", and Zeng Li in the recent hit drama "In the Distance", these middle-aged actresses rely on a look, an expression, even a drop A word of tears overwhelmed all the traffic florets, and repeatedly ranked high on the topic list.
Big Mouth Yao Chen said in her speech that the mid-life crisis seemed to be yesterday. In the blink of an eye, she fought a beautiful turnaround with "Find You" and "All Very Good". The divorced Maili straightened his shirt, swept the dust, and set off vigorously.
In this world, someone will crySome people laugh, some people fall and others rise. Those who can win in the end and are not afraid of youth crisis, middle-age crisis, and old-age crisis are like Xiao Fangfang. They never forget to learn and reflect, and they know how to keep up with the times. Advance and know how to stop loss in time.
They are like grass arched out of cracks in the cement road. Although they survived the cracks, they never stopped close to the sun due to hard work.
Cowardly woman, years bring her gray hair and wrinkles, a wise woman, years bring her, only more and more powerful gentleness and rich beauty after seeing the mountains and rivers.
There is a line in the Douban high-score movie "Our Day", "I think, maybe one day, you will become an old man like me, and tell a young man how you will live Brings you lemon-like sorrow and sorrow and turns into lemonade-like sweetness."
Every woman can encounter different sorrows in her life. I hope we all have the ability to turn sorrow into lemonade-sweetness.
