Xiao Yan chose to leave Switzerland to return to China after her boyfriend was accidentally shot and died. The Tongshan Hospital where she works is also the hospital where Bai Zhu is located.
Her first meeting with Bai Zhu was not very pleasant because of a cup of coffee, and the second time she met, she had a disagreement with a pregnant woman with aortic sinus aneurysm, and they formed a relationship.
This pregnant woman is the only child in the family. Her husband has just passed away. In order to save her husband, she will give birth to a child regardless of her life.
Regarding this pregnant woman's self-sacrifice, the comments of netizens on the screen are not one-sided praise of the mother's greatness, but a lot of scolding voices, claiming that it is the greatest unfilial piety to stay for the husband and let the parents die. It is also the most painful Lingchi for the elderly who are nearly over a hundred years old.
So as mothers and daughters, what is the right choice?
1. Selfless
"My husband is dead, so I have no chance to have another child. I must give birth to the child first."
This is the obsession and only appeal of high-risk pregnant woman Wang Qing.
Wang Qing is not optimistic because of her own aortic sinus aneurysm. From the safest point of view, the doctor suggested a cesarean section first, and then a heart repair operation, but Wang Qing's parents did not agree, and Wang Qing herself was faced with protecting herself. Or the predicament of protecting the child, he chose to protect the child without hesitation.
When many people saw this place, they thought she was in love, but after learning the ins and outs of her husband's sacrifice, they suddenly felt that sometimes, the trade-off between everyone and the family cannot be based solely on the analysis of the pros and cons. The
family is a thick book that can never sort out the pros and cons and the right and wrong.
Wang Qing's husband, Qin Shan, is a firefighter. Even if everyone has to escape from the fire, he must resolutely go backwards.
When the two first met, Wang Qing thought Qin Shan's uniform was handsome and proud of his work, so she married him without hesitation.
After getting married, although she would be worried about her husband's work, she never backed down.
Shortly after Wang Qing became pregnant, Qin Shan lost his life while participating in the rescue of a factory fire.
Qin Shan's selflessness and self-denial completely shook Wang Qing's heart, so she decided that no matter how big the risk was, she would give birth to this child.
just like what she said: "My husband is a hero, so I can't be left behind, and leave behind for the hero."
As far as national justice is concerned, whether it is Qin Shan or Wang Qing, they are both worthy of praise and admiration. .
A man who sacrificed his life for his mission, in order to save more people.
Another in order to cherish the memory of the heroic husband in his heart, even if he cannot get off the operating table, he must leave a descendant to the hero.
But for Wang Qing's parents and their unborn child, Wang Qing's choice was an extremely selfish move.
Second, selfish
"Dr. Xiao, do a cesarean section first, even if the child has a 10% risk, I don't want it."
As a mother, Wang Qing is not willing to have a 10% risk for her child, but she ignores it Even their parents don't want to take a 10% risk on their own.
As a mother and wife, Wang Qing's choice is a great one, but as a daughter, this choice is simply too late for her parents who are nearly 100 years old.
When Wang Qing's mother heard the doctor say that she needed a cesarean section first, her first reaction was whether Wang Qing would be in danger if the child was taken out.
"It may aggravate the patient's heart failure, and the patient may not be able to get off the operating table."
"Then do heart repair surgery first, is there any danger to the child."
"It may cause placental abruption, and the fetus will die in the womb."
"Then we don't want this child."
Just a few short This sentence shows the attitude of Wang Qing's parents, which is also a decision that most parents will make.
Qin Shan is no longer there. The only wish of Wang Qing's parents is that their daughter can live a healthy life.
In fact, when Wang Qing was pulled to the hospital by ambulance, the aortic sinus aneurysm had broken into the right ventricle, and she might die suddenly due to heart failure at any time.
Wang Qing wants to be a good mother, but the price may be that the white-haired parents send black-haired people, and the child is born an orphan without parents.
This ending, Wang Qing thinks is the best arrangement, but it is a stab in the heart of her parents.
If they lose their daughter and face their grandson, the two old people will never be able to let go.
Even if it is a daughter's child, after all, it is separated by a generation of blood. For Wang Qing's parents, happiness is meaningless without the daughter, and they have to face a child who has exchanged her daughter's life every day, how can she live? well?
Moreover, the children who survived by chance are also destined to stumble and stumble all their lives. Without the protection of their parents, how should they spend this long life?
It can be seen that Wang Qing's selflessness is another kind of selfishness in the eyes of her parents.
wrote at the end:
Every hero who made sacrifices for the country deserves to be remembered, Wang Qing's great maternal love deserves to be sung .
In front of everyone, we can only give up our small family.
But as an ordinary person, I don't think that sacrificing myself and giving birth to a child is the only way to live up to my life.
In 2018, an elderly internet celebrity mother Wu Meng, who was suffering from severe pulmonary hypertension, insisted on giving birth to a child despite the doctor's dissuasion.
died less than a year after giving birth.
Since then, the most painful thing is her parents and children.
Before the child enjoys his mother's arms, he will never have a mother.
It is such a heart-wrenching experience for parents to hold their eldest daughter in their hands and take care of her eldest daughter.
such a mother's love of giving up her life to give birth to a child is not great, but selfish.
I hope that every woman can respect her own life first, and then promise her children a healthy and stable future.
