, what am I most afraid of when others ask me? Do
East Asians like inside ? Chinese taste mixed? Neither of
, what I fear most is the prejudice of the outside world against our Chinese parents, who feel that our Chinese parents are rigid and pedantic. What
never expected is that we have deepened this stereotype , I searched, and there was even an entry for Chinese-style parent !
The definition of Chinese-style parents is: Chinese-style parents are often self-centered, accustomed to arranging and controlling children's small and large trivial matters, but forgetting that children have the right to be loved and independent.
Are we really like this? Why does the outside world view us this way?
Then I have to say that this one-sided view has been output to the audience in various film and television dramas over the years!
However, there is such a drama, but it does not one-sidedly show the good or bad of the parents, that is the medical drama "Thank You Doctor" that is currently on the air. Suffering stories show us the human feelings of all living beings!
really want to say thank you to "Thank You Doctor", because this drama has broken the profiling of Chinese parents, you and I are no longer the image of arbitrary, but open-minded and reflective contemporary parents. In
, a female patient, Yu Yating, came to the emergency department with abdominal pain. According to the routine medical examination procedures, she should have a urine pregnancy reaction at this time, to rule out the possibility of abdominal pain caused by pregnancy, and then conduct other investigations.
However, what is unexpected is that Yu Yating is particularly opposed to urine pregnancy test, she insists that she is not pregnant.
Why didn't she cooperate with the doctor's examination? Obviously it's just a routine check, is it because of her guilty conscience?
did not cooperate with the inspection just because of a guilty conscience, wouldn't that put the cart before the horse!
Actually, the root cause of Yu Yating's refusal to check came from her parents.
Although she is excellent, she has never gained the trust of her parents in the process of growing up. This feeling of distrust makes her also dislike the distrust of doctors.
She thinks she is not pregnant, but the doctor asks her to check whether she is pregnant, which is a sign of distrust.
Yu Yating's family came to the emergency department later, what will happen at this time?
We, who have watched a lot of domestic dramas, thought that a family war would break out at this time. How can we tell right from wrong without a fight?
But "Thank You Doctor" did not fall into the stereotype, these two "Chinese parents" seriously reflected on themselves!
Her parents never thought that their control over their children would cause such great harm to their hearts!
They faced the hurt they had done to their children and sincerely apologized to them.
Yu Yating finally felt relieved after facing her parents' apology, she was willing to let go of her grudges and actively cooperate with the doctor's examination!
finally went through a series of examinations. It turned out that Yu Yating had abdominal epilepsy , and she was well controlled after taking medicine.
"Thank You Doctor" has seen the changes of this generation of parents. Like children, we are also growing up!
That's right, parents need to grow up with their children, and while children become better children, we must also become better parents first.
What kind of parents are you? Is it stubborn, or will it reflect from time to time? Do you apologize to your child?
Check out this Thank You Doctor, you'll be a better parent here!
