Big S's unique marriage farewell ceremony!
Da S and Wang Xiaofei have divorced and remarried. Until now, Da S has not disclosed the reason for her divorce, nor has she spoken ill of Wang Xiaofei. On the night the divorce statement was announced, she chose to go to the restaurant alone to eat nearly 800 yuan per gram of white truffles, and drank six or seven glasses of wine worth about 30,000 yuan. This is her farewell ceremony for her ten-year marriage.
Big S is a girl!
"Frozen three feet is not a day's cold. I choose to divorce at this time, because Xiaofei's career is revived, handsome and not old, and it is easy to find a better girlfriend. Xiaofei and I will be friends forever, Parents of the child." If you don't love it, then separate, this is the principle of the big S, emotionally decisive! I fell in love, and immediately married Gu Junye , even if I hadn't met for 20 years, I got a marriage certificate online within two months of online dating! This kind of tiger attitude is really a female man!
Who is the man, big S doesn't care at all?
Gu Junye deserves to be loved or not, maybe Yu Da S is not important at all! She needs a passion to love with all her strength, give all her enthusiasm, and activate all her vitality! Who the other party is may not be the most important at all! Because love is a kind of strong self-feeling, Da S frankly and vividly interprets his understanding of love. Once, she married Wang Xiaofei because she felt that Wang Xiaofei was the man who gave birth to her child!
cheated, being a junior is a good way out?
In contrast, Wang Mouying is a little bit ~~ Nowadays, cheating and mistresses seem to be a common phenomenon in today's society. It seems that some people have done it, and they are still living well. But marriage is sacred and responsible for many people, and no one should cheat in a marriage for any reason. Regardless of whether the relationship between a man and a woman is no longer directly divorced, but still in marriage, neither man or woman should violate their conscience and morality. If they know that they are not divorced, they will take the initiative to recruit other men and women, cheating and stealing food. Evil cause! And the men and women who jumped up knowing that others were married but not divorced, and being a mistress, would be stealing. What kind of retribution would there be? Those who deceive others who are not married and have no children in marriage are liars, and what kind of retribution will liars have?
The cause and effect of the world, who knows? Whether
cheats or is a mistress, it not only hurts another person's feelings, but if there is a child, the damage to the child is also huge. Betrayal will not be forgiven. Someone who cheats and takes the initiative to be a third party will have retribution, and those who cheat will have retribution. The Buddha said that the third party's cause and effect. A cheating person betrays their marriage feelings. This is doing evil. There will be retribution, bad things will happen, affecting their own fortune, career, health problems, poor fortune, etc. Nothing goes well, often bad luck, which brings long-lasting pain and disaster. The timing of this retribution is not certain, it may be the retribution in this world, or it may be retribution in the next life. If you get involved in someone else's family and talk about feelings with someone who has a family, you will not have good results. It is a manifestation of sin. Buddhism is against the mistress, and the retribution is also very miserable. After death, you will enter the eighteen layers of hell, and you will also suffered all kinds of torture. Who is
dating?
If you are in a relationship, don't look for married people, because cheating people will betray you in the future. Girl, in the eyes of someone who can betray the family, you are so confident that you will be the exception?
Selfish people, is that genetic?
A person's selfishness is innate, it is in the bones, it is engraved in the genes, and it is also caused by the family of origin. Don't try to change them, it will make you disappointed. No matter how much you pay, you will eventually be rewarded with cold-hearted selfishness!
Don't be reasonable, there are thousands of reasons for selfishness
Don't be reasonable, because selfish people have their own set of reasons! They use their own interests as the keynote anytime, anywhere. If you are not in their interests, you are an outsider!
selfish people,His or her parents must be selfish
In fact, some parents are also like this, children who go against their basic interests are immediately disobedient! There are very few parents who allow themselves to be themselves and their children to be children.
Phoenix man's first love
A man, born in poverty, from the mountains, managed to get into the 985 colleges and universities that are relatively good in the country by his own efforts, he has a job, and has a good job prospect, so he stayed in Beijing for a scientific research The future is bright. Coincidentally, a female colleague in the hospital fell in love with each other, and they fell in love with each other, and the unit even gave them a room. His girlfriend started to marry him and have children, and the two were like glue, planning the future! But the woman doesn't know the man behind the sweet words at all. She is thinking about how to break up with her, how to return to her hometown, and honor her ancestors!
Phoenix man's parents
The parents who are far away from home. They were in their prime at the time. When they came to Beijing to see their son's happy little days, he was both happy and proud, but also uneasy. He always felt out of control about his son's free days. , This is far away in the capital. If you get married and have a little life, will you still be your own son? If the son does not return home, the labor force of a family in the family is lost, and the son is frequently urged to have the opportunity to return to his hometown, so as to facilitate the filial parents to take care of the sisters.
The filial phoenix man is actually not divorced from his mother's womb?
Phoenix man knows his parents' thoughts. In order to comfort his parents, since he went to college, he will send his monthly salary back to his hometown by working part-time. After work, he only eats in the cafeteria, and he is reluctant to spend any extra money. But still can't fill the parents' out-of-control heart, the parents frequently remind, back and forth, the parents are here, not far away!
Phoenix male family, parasitic family father-son relationship?
's first girlfriend, a very kind person, listening to her boyfriend's family is not easy, after all, it is her first love, and she is also a simple person. She wants to share the fate with him through thick and thin. It might be fine to stick with it for a few years. Helpless, after four years of love, the Phoenix man had the opportunity to go back to his hometown.
Breaking up is a bad thing? The girl
washed her face in tears, but he had made up his mind, and he could find another girlfriend. If his parents didn't have him, how could he live? The girl
was disheartened. Not long after, she found a marriageable man, got married and had children, but she lived a dull and happy life. If she knew about Phoenix Man's funny aftermath, she would be very grateful that Phoenix Man let go, she would be very grateful for letting her go, and she was also glad that she let go, that she would not have anything to do with him for the rest of her life, and the scenery of her life was refreshing, peaceful and peaceful. Otherwise, her life will be entangled by a group of people with no bottom line! The reason why life is troubled is because, if you want to get it, you can't get it; if you want to lose it, you can't lose it. Buddhists say that you have to learn to let go. In fact, when some things in life are over, you will not come back. What you can do is to let go and keep moving forward.
The selfish desire to honor the ancestors, is the root of suffering?
Phoenix male, after several setbacks, still entered the institution in the provincial capital where his hometown is located, and the income and treatment are not bad. The parents of my hometown were overjoyed, and they praised their son for his promising future. With his help, his parents and sisters finally moved from the countryside to the county town. In addition, the Phoenix man's father is a fortune-teller. When he arrived in the county town, the fortune-telling business became prosperous, and the family was even more proud.
parental ancestry?
Phoenix man's savings for several years have contributed to the big family, bought a house for his parents, and earned enough face in front of relatives and friends in his hometown! The most proud is Phoenix Man's father. He has a sense of accomplishment and happiness. For a while, the uncle didn't know what his surname should be. The uncle, fate is also more funny. When he was young, he was given to others by his parents as a son to serve as a door. The adoptive father's family had no children and no daughters, and he regarded him as his own, and the inheritance was given to him after his death. Unexpectedly, after the adoptive parents died, the uncle felt that the deceased was dead and gave it away by himself. The son could no longer follow the adoptive father's surname, so he privately let the son's surname return to his own father's surname.
Phoenix man's first marriage
has no savings on hand. But he has reached the marriageable age, and in a blink of an eye he is an older youth. Parents also began to urge marriage, Phoenix man was anxious, his savings had already paid for his original family, where would he get more money to get married? In the fear of anxious marriage, he met his first wife. Due to financial difficulties, his relatives borrowed money to buy a house, and his wife was responsible for the decoration. Finally, he got married and had children! At the same time, his parents and sisters also need to enjoy the city life, a large family huddled together. It just so happened that his first wife was also greedy, the only child in the family, and his parents were also very calculating, thinking about spending the husband's money at any time, and the whole family calculated each other. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, husband and wife, sister-in-law and sister-in-law, son-in-law and mother-in-law, exploded like a hot pot with chili oil splashing all over the place! The child is less than two years old, and his marriage with his first wife has come to an end! When the child is less than two years old, the law must be awarded to the mother, and the mother wants it too! Phoenix man's family prioritizes sons over women, so he forcibly leaves a grandson. Phoenix man's father said that he would try his best to take care of his grandson. The family has been looking for all kinds of evidence since they were old and young. They are greedy for petty gains, and they are afraid that the woman will share the money. They have to give false evidence and forcibly keep the children!
Phoenix man's second marriage life
Divorced for two years, Phoenix man's family feels that they can't afford to lose this face, plus the parents are old, they take care of the children, they complain a lot, and urge Phoenix man to remarry quickly! Phoenix man shouts every day that the old couple is going back to their hometown to live a married life! The filial Phoenix man met his second wife under the urging of his parents to get married. After meeting a few times, the second wife became pregnant and remarried! As a result, a few days after the second wife entered the Phoenix man's house, she quarreled with the Phoenix man's family and went straight back to her parents' home to have a child. The Phoenix man's family wanted to persuade the second daughter-in-law to return. The mother-in-law went to the daughter-in-law's house to bring tea and water to serve the confinement child. As a result, within a few days, the Phoenix man and his son fought with the second in-law's family! The two had to leave. The second wife's family really didn't want to be entangled with the Phoenix family, and they didn't want the Phoenix family to look after the children!
Phoenix man's long life
Phoenix man was urged by his parents to get married again, so he quickly found someone to take over and take care of the child. Feeling helpless, the Phoenix man bit the bullet and went to his first ex-wife again, trying to remarry.
Phoenix Man's parents
Phoenix Man wants to recruit another blind date. The family began to try to cover up the fact that he had two children after two divorces, and wanted to pretend that he had only one marriage and one child! Grandparents and grandparents also joined forces to teach children to deceive people and tell lies, talk in front of people, and talk in front of ghosts!
Phoenix's male and female parents are also well-tested people in the rivers and lakes. They have been fortune-tellers on the street since they were young. One is a scalper and the other is a fortune-teller. After getting old, the concept of raising children to prevent aging is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and they love to coerce their children for money and vanity. I bought a small house in the county town and forced my son to replace it with a bigger one. Perhaps it is the divorced single-parent family that leads to a lot of bad habits in children, uncontrolled eating, a small person's appetite is three times that of an adult, and a young man's stomach is like the beer belly of a middle-aged man in his 40s and 50s. He threatens adults for money in various names. Pay! Sometimes the Phoenix man is too busy to bring his ex-wife to take care of the child, and the ex-wife asks the Phoenix man to pay for the child, and asks for money at a huge price, and then scolds and complains to each other again! The Phoenix Man is struggling in the sea of hardship! Phoenix man tries to help him with his homework day and night, so that his child will be successful in the future. Phoenix men have gone on blind dates countless times, but the girls are not willing at all! The ending of
Phoenix Man
Phoenix Man finally went mad, his parents had incurable diseases, and they were paralyzed in bed for a long time and could not speak. The child was also taken away by his ex-wife. In the end, that child was also a rebellious character. In addition, he was instigated by several people since he was a child, and his relationship with his mother was not good.
The lesson of the Phoenix man
Some people say that the fact that the Phoenix man is bloody proves the old saying: If the behavior of the ancestors is not good, it will bring endless disasters to himself and his family!
Parents misbehave in words and deeds, will their offspring be better off?
The words and deeds of the ancestors will affect the children's future behavior. When an old man has bad behavior, he will intentionally or unintentionally put a bad filter on the family. Although we have been in the world for most of our lives, we know that we can't fully believe what outsiders say, but our brains are irrational. The side told himself that there would be no waves without wind.
As the saying goes, dragons give birth to dragons and phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, and the son of a mouse will make a hole. In many cases, the family of has a great influence on a person. Parents always think of others, and children often have a kind heart. , and vice versa.
Parents are very stingy. Under normal circumstances, children will not be generous. The elders always like to chew other people's tongues behind their backs, and the same is true of young people living together.
If they lose their virtues to their own children, many times they probably won't be gratefulHeart, choose to honor their parents.
Therefore, many times poor people must have something to hate. If you want your children to be perfect physically and mentally, you must first have an attitude and be a "good person".
The old man who lost his virtue?
Many old people who have lost their virtue always do some small things behind their backs, thinking that others don't know it, but everyone has already seen it through, but they didn't say it out of love. In the eyes of others, such a person is just a clown who likes to act. You must be strict with yourself, be an upright person, not harm the interests of others, and of course you must protect yourself so that your legitimate rights and interests are not damaged. How does
become parents?
As a parent, you must have a clear view of right and wrong that belongs to you, and also know what tasks parents should undertake in a family, and how to set an example for the younger generation. Be sure to keep your mentality right at all times, be a virtuous old man, and not seek to bring anything to the children, at least to accumulate virtue for yourself and your family. The role of the elderly in a family is very important. If the elderly cannot play an exemplary role and let themselves go in old age, they will respond to the old saying that "the old man has no virtue and the whole family suffers". The evil of human nature from ancestors will be 100% passed down to future generations!
identify scumbags!
You see how charming Qingshan is. Qingshan treats you like a burden. What is more terrible than being single is loving the wrong person. You wanted to live your life with the right person, but meeting a scumbag makes you miserable enough to doubt your life.
Pseudo-love sportsman?
loves each other too much, and it's easy to be blind and blind, especially a girl who is not in love and has a well-behaved and pure temperament. When a boy pinches a girl's life, he will first tease you hot, as if he is the hero of the world who steps on the auspicious clouds of the girl, who knows that it is not clear whether it is a human or a dog. Secondly, it will give you the illusion that you are in love with him, but you have been very protective of yourself from beginning to end and have never had a public relationship with you. At the end of you, you fell into an ice cave in an instant, and he was very reasonable, "You're all adults, you won't be able to afford it, right?" By the way, I remind you to take after-the-fact medicine, because you are afraid that you will be pregnant and entangle him! Your kindness and sincerity are not used to fly moths into flames. You must be clear at the critical moment. You can't let sex be left unchecked before your love is stable.
doesn't like you enough?
As your dutiful boyfriend, there is no principled mistake, the only thing is that he doesn't love you enough, and he knows it well. No matter how much you show your sincerity to him, you will get better and better for him, and he will still give up a little bit, but he won't say you don't love it to make you give up. It's just not enough love, and he doesn't know when it's enough. .
looking forward to the future?
gives you some sweetness every time when you are about to give up on the status quo, tells you what changes he will make for you in the future, and draws a blueprint for the future at your fingertips. That blueprint will never be realized, and there is no you in it. Because it's not that he can't get better, it's just that he doesn't want to get better because of you, and you're not enough to be his motivation.
4 won't let you go? When
is with you, he hangs you ambiguous with you. You are his wide-spreading fish, just not the meatiest. But your presence can give him a sense of accomplishment and enjoy your thoughtful warmth. Every time you want to give up on him, give you some hope and make your heart stubborn.
calculation?
boys have high IQ and EQ, and they take every step. At the beginning, I was generous to you, and I showed it intentionally or unintentionally. Even if I suffered and suffered grievances, I would give you the best. Girls are usually very moved, and feel that they love the right person, and even refuse him to spend money for themselves. Next, all his investment in the early stage began to pay off, and finally made women willing to fall into the bottomless pit of spending money for love. How does
let go?
has read a lot about love, but the real decision is still up to you. In a relationship, he makes you a bad person, you even hate yourself now, you are physically and mentally hurt, the pain is repeated, the smile on your face is getting less and less, and you can cry while watching a comedy. Time to let go. I hope the "I do" at your wedding comes true, and the tears you shed for love are all tears of joy.
can't give me love, just give me the fuck? Learn milk tea!
Some people say how many people scolded milk tea sister , but these people want to be her, so she shouldn't be scolded, it's not her who made mistakes, she chooses the best solution every step, she is a ruthless person, can become a great thing, but notEveryone wants to be her, since everyone wants to be, why not become Liu Qiangdong in one step.
husband and wife are a community of destiny when defending their common property. This is human and rational.
The smartest person is milk tea. She knows what she wants and the other side of life for the rich. Treating marriage as love and marriage as career are life choices.
Zhang Tianze forgave Liu Qiangdong for having a second child, and a group of people praised her for her greatness. I do not understand, nor ideally understand.
It's not about feelings, it's about interests?
I think it's a profitable choice, not worth advocating at all. It's a bit silly for an ordinary girl to put herself into the marriage of such a public figure.
The marriage and love of the public and the public is very different from the ordinary people because of the high degree of attention and the strong connection between the interests.
takes the tea milk sister Ze Zhangtian as an example. She chose to stay with Liu Qiang because she understood that only when she is with the other party can she maximize the benefits and realize the benefits. Can be close to or close to realizing their career and life dreams. Moreover, at that level, there is no better choice around her.
You don't say that she chose to forgive because she "loves Liu Dong", but rather that she is paving the way for herself. Compared with Liu Qiqiangdong, she cares more about her own interests, future or future than that marriage. Does
have love?
For middle-aged people, love is good, prosperity and wealth are expensive, it is a luxury, only a very few people get it. Those who have both, Gengfeng is rare. actress Ming's high-profile forgiveness and ordinary women's low-key forgiveness are not entirely the same thing. Ordinary women really can't compare with family members. Actress Ming forgave her husband who cheated on her husband, and if her husband dared to cheat again, the husband's husband's career may also be affected. This is a great check and balance for her husband.
Ordinary people's love?
And what about ordinary women? Only a few people know about the affair of your husband and wife cheating, or those who know it, they will only take this as a business, and he cheats on his name. Sound and interest have little influence.
You may still be working a job that doesn't support the family or a housewife with little say in the family. You are passive everywhere, and maybe because you forgive your cheating husband, he first looks down on him (or you can't overcome the psychology of looking down on the other person).
moral?
Next, the only thing that you can make use of is the "virtue of morality". But whether a marriage that has cracked marriage can be maintained depends on "morality"? Apparently not.
So, ordinary people don't just compare themselves to the wives of female stars and public figures. The situation is really different, right? The wife of a female star, a public figure, has the power to counteract the public opinion of a cheating partner, and has practical benefits. What do you have?
So, don't compare her to them, you can't compare. Don't tout this choice of female stars. It has nothing to do with being smart, not "atmosphere".
take care of yourself!
Be sure to take care of your magnetic field. The magnetic field is your fortune. Some dirty things, once stained, will stick more and more tightly, and you will be exhausted and exhausted. It is said to stay away from right and wrong people, because right and wrong is a dirty energy source, which makes you restless and full of evil desires. Only by staying away from deceitful lust and greed can a person do something serious with a clear head.
The inappropriate person is a black hole that never endsdevour you.
The other half of his life made the wrong choice, so every step in the rest of his life is wrong.
You will experience all the hardships in the world and make a choice.
Appearance and wealth are not so important. What is important is character responsibility and responsibility, as well as the three views and upbringing of the original family.
When some people walk into your world, they will make you feel worthy of the world and become your light.
and some people will consume all your light!
invite you to eat and travel is low value, not love!
invites you to eat and take you on a trip, seems to like you very much, but actually uses money to exchange your companionship value .
You can eat what you like, and you can travel to your favorite places!
Don't be led astray by your emotions!
deceive and kidnap you in the name of love at any time.
loves you and hates you, so there are all kinds of deceit that you can't help but at first, if you find that you didn't turn around and leave in time, as you interact, you will find that there will be more thunder behind you!
Because the cost of cheating is too low , I can deceive you once to prove that this person's inner education is like this, he and his family's values are all like this!
If you don't turn around in time, even if you get married, he will lie, trick you into accepting him and him step by step The filth of your family!
Don't be imaginative, it would be much better to have children and the like. If you lie to people without shame and guilt, after entering the family, he will exploit you in the name of the family!
How many marital conflicts have actually been met before marriage Clues!
Don't underestimate the slightest bit of deception, that kind of human nature is the genetic nature of this kind of people!
He will have to pay you to fall in love with you in the name of love, and will consume your energy and money in the name of family. The evil consequences of his bad humanity will make you pay with him!
Take a look at those female stars, and then look at the people around you, you will find that a large number of people have unfortunate marriages, all of which are like this!
Of course, there are also scumbags, too!
Evil human nature is a kind of gene and also a kind of tutor!
A man who really loves you can help you grow in your career, teach you the skills to mix rivers and lakes, teach you how to control human nature, expand your life circle, and take responsibility for you daily burdens, and respect and care for you, giving you peace of mind.
Because a man who is truly caring, principled, and tutored, he must have a sense of responsibility. If he loves you, he will be responsible for your emotions. If
can't give you happiness, no matter how much you like it, people with tutors will pay attention to their words and deeds, and they will not pretend to deceive others!
Because people with tutors have instilled the concept of karma and retribution in children since childhood, for the long-term, A child of this type would never take advantage of a woman!
He and everything around him makes you irritable.
Believe in the person who can make you gentle, he must have given you the ultimate love!
The person who can make you irritable must have made you suffer;
The person who can make you silent must have given you great damage.
The best love is not compromising, but mutual fulfillment!
So check the people around you, if he and everything around him make you restless, trust your intuition, such a person will never be yours Good luck!
If you go against the current and approach such personnel, it is equivalent to getting close to dirty things, and your energy and luck will gradually be swallowed up!
Turn around and leave, stop entanglement, because entanglement is consumption, and people like that are not worth you Use up your energy!
If you don't believe it, try approaching such a person!
Stay away from scumbags and scum, and you will have a chance to be happy!
Some people try to transform scumbags.Years of education have failed to transform it into an adult. You have a deep relationship with that person. Are you trying to be a new person because of you?
can't bear it? Live the grievances that will come in the depths of your heart, or escape from the emotional constraints!
Anyway, how to choose, there are advantages and disadvantages!
Choose to endure, unless you can digest and release your grievances, otherwise, you will die early It must be the wronged self, even if aggrieved and seeking perfection, a person who is in a state of bad emotions and entangled in negative emotions, can he give his children some healthy love?
Children will eventually grow up and live independently!
choose Leave, choose a new life, and have a healthy mind, but change your identity to love your children!
If you want to bet yourself and try to change others, then go for it!
If a person knows more and nourishes When you get along with your own people, your luck will get better and better. When making friends and choosing a mate, don't just look at external conditions, but also on temperament and personality. People with bad mood, resentment, and excessive greed are all here to consume you and make you hollow out yourself. Only those who are gentle and honest and have the same aura can nourish you. With them, you will gain confidence and become better and better.
