second-married families be happy?
Ju Ping said: " I have forgotten that I am a second marriage! I don't know what happiness is, but I have never envied others after I remarried!" It's easier to be happy when you get into a second marriage."
Actually, happiness is not about whether it is a second marriage, but whether you find the right person.
Sister Ju Ping, with a sweet and friendly image, accompanies successive batches of children to grow up.
Ju Ping can be said to be the childhood goddess of the two generations of . Now she is 56 years old, but people are still willing to call her "Sister Ju Ping".
Ju Ping's career
Ju Ping is a Beijing girl born and raised in the imperial city! I love to drink bean juice, and eats pickled vegetables, speaks unforgivingly, has a boyish temper, and is careless.
When she was young, she didn't have a TV, so she could only run wild with the boys in the courtyard alleys. In summer, she would catch dragonflies with them in the alleys, jump rubber bands in the alleys, and bounce glass balls on the ground.
went to school for forgetting to wear a red scarf and was given points, and was forced to practice calligraphy. She was beaten because of this incident. In short, she was too much like a boy.
father asked her what she wanted to do when she grew up? She answered the words "Speaking cross talk", and the tea from her father's mouth spurted out.
Ju Ping has been a cross talk fan since childhood, and even saved money to buy a few related books, but seeing that those jokes are really not suitable for girls, in the end she had to continue to be a cross talk fan, her dream can only be put aside for a while .
Perhaps the naughty child is smarter and more assertive than the good child, and she has been active in various activities of the class from elementary school to high school.
When Ju Ping was a freshman in high school, the radio station of her school began to recruit people. She went with the mentality of giving it a try, but she did not expect to pass.
, but during the training period, she accidentally injured her leg, and finally did not officially enter.
At that moment she suddenly realized how much she likes broadcasting. She was sad for a long, long time. In the third year of
's senior year, in order to reduce the burden on her family, she applied for the Preschool Normal School. After
graduated, she went to Galaxy Youth Art Troupe , Galaxy Youth Vision Art Troupe is a small film and television performance team.
Ju Ping worked there for eight years, and later he was transferred to CCTV as the host of " Tangram ".
Her 's image is kind, her voice is sweet, her speech and manners are full of the atmosphere of a kindergarten aunt, and she is also a beauty in children's programs.
While completing her job, she treats every child with tenderness and sincerity, and she brings unforgettable childhood memories to many children.
Ju Ping's sudden love
One year ago, the program team sent Ju Ping to participate in a very important event out of town. The event required a different pair of shoes for each link. After
Ju Ping finished the show, she went to the Xidan Zoo and saw that there were several shoe stores open, so she went to a shoe store.
, but she chose from left to right, but she couldn't find two pairs that satisfied her. The salesperson also looked at her helplessly. This is too picky. We are a famous brand shoe store.
Not long after, a young man came in from outside, and the salesman went out after whispering a few times. Ju Ping didn't find any satisfaction in the end. When he was about to leave, the young man asked, "Are you sister Ju Ping?"
Ju Ping was stunned for a moment, then nodded and said yes. The young man said, "I am the boss here. If you have any requirements, just mention it, and we can customize it for you."
Ju Ping saw that it was getting late, and said to the young man, "Don't bother, bye."
did not expect that the first three daysIn the morning, 30 pairs of shoes of different fabrics and styles were delivered to her workshop, and Ju Ping was stunned on the spot. When
saw a phone number in the shoe box, Ju Ping called and found out after a chat that it was the owner of the shoe store in the afternoon three days ago.
After Ju Ping left, the young man got to know the details from the salesperson, knew Ju Ping's demands for shoes, and immediately placed an order for the shoe factory so that they could finish it immediately.
Ju Ping has a lot of big and small fans, and a lot of warm-hearted ones, but this eldest brother is a little too kind, she feels a little bit sorry, she came to the store after work, wanted to express her thanks in person, and give him the shoes .
When the young man saw Ju Ping, the first sentence asked: "Is the size of the shoes right? If there is any dissatisfaction, you can continue to redo it."
After Ju Ping expressed her deep gratitude, she asked so many shoes How much is it? The young man said a little shyly: "I just want to support your work, I can't take your money."
Ju Ping was really sorry, so she said: "Then it's okay to invite you to dinner now, right?"
This time The young man was overjoyed, and repeatedly promised: "You wait a moment, I'll change clothes inside, right away, right away."
This young man is the owner of a shoe store, his name is Jiang Xingqi, and his nephew likes watching Ju Ping's shows very much. So he has known Ju Ping for a long time. He likes this children's show host very much. He is a little excited to have dinner with her today.
Jiang Xingqi's education level is not high, but the young man is smart, motivated and very business-minded. In just a few years, there are several shoe stores.
Jiang Xingqi has been teasing with his friends that he is a Confucian businessman. Although he has not finished junior high school, he likes scholars very much.
he is very good at dealing with people, is also a person with high emotional intelligence.
Ju Ping chatted with him at the dinner table, not feeling boring at all, and they left the restaurant more than two hours later.
Ju Ping will come to the shoe store when she is not busy at work. After going back and forth, the relationship between the two people is getting deeper and deeper, and finally it reaches the level of talking about marriage.
One year later, they got the marriage certificate , and another year later, they gave birth to a son.
Chicken feathers of love
Some people say that marriage generally cannot escape the seven-year itch.
Before their seventh year of marriage, the husband's behavior was puzzling.
Jiang Qixing's shoe store business was in trouble. Instead of thinking about solving the problem, he stayed at home all day.
went out to drink with friends during the day, stumbled back in the middle of the night and slammed on the door, and would be scolded after a while.
It is understandable for a man to suffer setbacks in his career, but half a year has passed, and his husband has not changed, but has intensified.
One day, a sister from the unit came to play with Ju Ping, and it was his husband who opened the door.
Ju Ping knelt down and wiped the ground, her forehead was full of sweat, her husband snorted with a cigarette in his mouth, regardless of whether there was anyone else at home.
As the hostess of the family, it is understandable to do more housework, but Ju Ping can't understand why her husband doesn't care about the children.
Ju Ping went home to cook vegetables after get off work. Suddenly, her son's cries came from the living room. She didn't know what happened.
trotted to the living room. It turned out that his son was scratched by the cat at home, but his husband fell asleep on the leather sofa on the side of the living room.
The child was crying so loudly that her husband didn't seem to hear her. Ju Ping carried her child into the kitchen with tears in her eyes, stirring the dishes in the pot.
When the meal was served, the husband miraculously got up and let him serve.
Ju Ping endured the anger and asked him: "The child kept crying just now, why didn't you take a look?"
The other side said: "Don't be spoiled, it's not so expensive, it will stop after crying for a while?"
Ju Ping was so angry I can't even eat dinner.
stars are also ordinary people, and they have the same emotions as ordinary people. Even for the sake of children, they will not want to divorce, so just bear with it!
Although the marriage and family were very unhappy, Ju Ping's career was at full speed at this time.
watched her husband become more and more unsatisfactory, his career plummeted, and his own career went smoothly. In order to satisfy his male vanity, Ju Ping kept a low profile and tried to make her husband more comfortable.
, but she has no bottom line for her blind tolerance. Her husband treats her more and more unscrupulously, scolding her in front of her family, saying that she is not a good wife.
Ju Ping finally understands that pampering him will only make him more crazy, then only divorce, Ni Ping returned to her mother's house with her son.
meet happiness again
It turns out that love is like money, it can be met but not sought.
In addition to losing a person who doesn't love him, other people and things are there, and life is not as bad as imagined.
's mother loves her grandson very much, and Ni Ping's son is also very happy to see her grandma every day.
If I have to say I have regrets, it is that my son did not celebrate Children's Day with her.
The son has been living in the school since kindergarten, and only goes back to his grandmother's house to play on holidays. Grandma made him his favorite fried noodles.
Although she has not spent much time with her son since childhood, her son understands her very well.
His classmates like Ju Ping, which makes him very proud.
So no one has accompanied Liuyi since he was a child, and he also feels very happy.
In 2009, Ju Ping met Yang Shuo, a businessman who was single and made a clear gesture to her.
But at this time, she was very worried and never got out of the haze of her previous marriage.
The other party is a northeastern man, and he said to her boldly: "Worry about my son? Can I treat him badly? Don't hesitate, then you will regret it."
Yang Shuo speaks fast and loud, likes Use a more exaggerated expression, like acting out a sketch.
The food, barbecue and hot pot in the northeast are too suitable for Ju Ping's appetite, Yang Shuo often eats and drinks with her.
Yang Shuo is very straightforward and easy to get along with. Ju Ping sometimes gets upset, so he just quarrels with him, and the two of them will be fine, and they won't keep thinking about it.
After half a year, they got married, but when Ju Ping's son was ready to go to college, her father left.
's father's departure has left her heartbroken. She has always been in a trance and can't be happy about anything. doesn't want to go to work or go out.
Yang Shuo's work was completely put on hold. He accompanied his wife 24 hours a day, sent his wife to his hometown, and sat with her on a park bench every day.
Yang Shuo let her know what it's like to be hurt and loved like a child. Although Yang Shuo is younger than her, he feels very mature.
After a year of marriage, she even forgot that she was divorced. She feels that every day is a gift.
is funny and has a successful career. Know the big picture. Dress with taste. Responsible and self-motivated. Can make money to support the family, but also care and understand the other half's efforts.
Yang Shuo has none of the bad habits and ways of doing things his ex-husband has.
Happy marriages are about the same, unhappy marriages are unhappy in their own way.
Ju Ping said: "As long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if you are late."
Ju Ping's sister is 16 years older than her current husband, and she is still happy and happy. It has nothing to do with age when she meets the right person.
