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An Lingrong also actively wanted to enter the small circle of Zhen Huan in the early days, but it was never successful. For two strangers to be friends, their similarity to each other is crucial.
An Lingrong's family of origin made her unlikely to be Zhen Huan's friend.
Zhen Huan has a good family background and is favored. Although she has a scheming and scheming, her heart is not dark. And An Lingrong grew up in a poor family environment, with low self-esteem and sensitivity, and Zhen Huan is different from Zhen Huan in terms of speech, behavior, ideas, and knowledge.
Zhen Huan and Meizhuang can see the problem clearly, but An Lingrong can't. To put it bluntly, An Lingrong has no overall awareness at all and is too petty.
For example, Meizhuang was framed by Huafei and fell out of favor and locked up. Zhen Huan had to support An Lingrong in order to rescue Sister Mei and increase her strength.
But An Lingrong came to give gifts to Zhen Huan as soon as she took office, showing off her status. The purpose was to put gold on her face and tell Zhen Huan that she could also give things to others. The purpose of her favor was just to prove that she was no longer pitiful. An Lingrong did not want to help each other rescue Meizhuang. Therefore, Zhen Huan and An Lingrong have absolutely nothing in common in thinking, so it is difficult to get close.
Looking at Zhen Huan again, only Meizhuang and Zhen Huan are real friends. Because Mei Zhuang and Zhen Huan grew up together, they have similar family backgrounds and have the same three views on each other. Due to the long-term communication, they have a deeper understanding of each other, and they can communicate in depth with many things that cannot be said to outsiders.
Even if there are occasional small misunderstandings, both of them actively communicate, which makes the friendship stronger.
Zhen Huan was favored, and Concubine Hua provoked the relationship between the two in front of Meizhuang. Not only did Meizhuang not get angry, but instead, she understood her embarrassment from Zhen Huan's point of view, and the two sisters became deeper. If Meizhuang was replaced by An Lingrong, An Lingrong would hate him, and the sisterhood would be disintegrated in minutes.
Meizhuang and Zhen Huan's sisterhood is based on the same three views, but An Lingrong does not have this condition at all.
Let's look at Concubine Jing and Concubine and Concubine . The reason why they can get along well with Zhen Huan is because their children are all given by Zhen Huan, and they all receive Zhen Huan's love; another reason is that their common enemy is the queen, And Zhen Huan became their only hope to bring down the queen. They know that if they want to live a stable life in the harem, they must form a team with Zhen Huan to bring down the queen. It is also because they have the same interests and come together.
And An Lingrong really has nothing to match Zhen Huan in terms of values and commonalities. Zhen Huan also knows this, so An Lingrong will not be involved in the core things.
And An Lingrong has an extremely unstable self-esteem. Such a person is sensitive and suspicious, and thinks bad about others. When her expectations are different from reality, the psychological gap will be larger than that of ordinary people, and she will not analyze it objectively. Problems, it is easy to pass the problem to others.
An Lingrong's father was arrested because of his unfavorable work, and Meizhuang also helped rescue but was unsuccessful. A few words of Jianqiu next to the queen easily provoked the relationship between An Lingrong and Meizhuang. An Lingrong firmly believed that Meizhuang did not try his best, but just stood by. In her heart, the Queen Mother saved her father. In fact, the real result is that Zhen Huan helped her save her father.
An Lingrong is because of her inferiority complex, so she has always thought that Meizhuang despised her and was unwilling to contribute to her.
In An Lingrong's heart, she always believed that everything she did was for Zhen Huan. Regardless of whether it's beneficial to Zhen Huan, as long as you don't appreciate it, it's your problem. It's a bit like forcing people to drink at the wine table, whether you like it or not, as long as you drink the wine I toast, you must finish it, otherwise you will look down on me. This is completely moral kidnapping of .
So once Zhen Huan got close to Meizhuang, An Lingrong wouldThere will be a strong sense of rejection, and she will not seriously think about her reasons; nor will she seriously face the reality that Zhen Huan and Meizhuang have known each other for a longer time and have a better emotional foundation. In fact, if An Lingrong wanted to join them, it would be over if he took the initiative.
is also a concubine, Xinguiren can't enter Zhen Huan's inner circle, but Xinguiren knows her weight and what she wants, so she was bullied and she didn't hug the queen's thigh, Wisely stood on Zhen Huan's team and had the last laugh.
An Lingrong and Zhen Huan are not the same kind of people in essence, it is good to maintain a friendly relationship on the surface, but it is unrealistic to want to have a deep friendship. In addition, An Lingrong has an inferiority complex, and when his expectations of Zhen Huan are defeated, he will have hatred and will definitely attack Zhen Huan. And Zhen Huan finds that Lingrong has harmed herself, and she will definitely retaliate, and the two will definitely become enemies. Of course An Lingrong could not enter Zhen Huan's inner circle!
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