Watch " Life Events ", please prepare a tissue
Here, I want to mention Zhu Yilong 's acting skills, completely and the previous little father-in-law is two people, Xiao Wenzi is small, I watched the movie scene before, this Xiao Ni You should have a bright future in the future. What an actor is doing is really amazing. The movie
is also worthy of high marks. It is full of pyrotechnics and down-to-earth. The characters in the market are very vivid, with high intentions, grasping the moment and living a good life, and there is no major issue in life except death.
I won't do any spoilers here, just talk about my very profound afterthought.
The familiar Wuhan dialect opened, I have been in Wuhan for many years, and I can speak Wuhan dialect (they say a little Huangpi accent), and I immediately feel the intimacy. The funeral industry should be unfamiliar to many people, but I am familiar with it. Incomparable, because my grandfather worked in this industry. When
was very young, there was no cremation at that time, all the dead people were put into coffins and buried in the ground for safety.
The first time I saw a coffin was probably in my grandfather's house. In a dark room, there was a dark coffin. My mother told me that it was for my grandma's mother and my mother's grandmother. It was a dark coffin and a dark room. It's always very depressing, because I'm afraid I won't stop every time I pass by. In the
play, Xiao Wenzi was lying on her dead grandmother's scene. At that time, I burst into tears. My first contact with death was also the death of my own grandmother. When I was 10 years old, I heard the news of my grandmother's death at school. I ran all the way back crying, and when I arrived, my grandmother had closed her eyes. I couldn't believe it. Warm and thin body, crying in the dark, I screamed shyly, you go away, my grandma is not dead, she just fell asleep. I stayed by my grandmother's bed, and when I was tired from crying, I woke up and continued to cry.
Until I was smashed by a big iron ball from far to near in my sleep, the huge pressure made me suddenly sit up, and then I found that I was lying on a bamboo bed, the sound of gongs and drums outside, , suona, , and loud noises , and the interlaced voices of reading the text. This huge sense of gap made me cry for 7 days until everything returned to quiet.
Then, not long after, grandfather, who has always been decent and particular, decided to join the funeral industry and became a concierge (not sure if this is the word), that is, the person who speaks and reads the text in the play.
No one knows how the grandfather who was a civil servant with great prestige at the time when the car entered the car and went out of the car, how did he persuade himself to take this job, which was not a decent job at the time, and what kind of mental journey he went through, I think, maybe Other people's experiences, all understanding and incomprehension are pale. The
grew up a little later, and after hearing about some things, I slowly learned about some things.
's grandmother is a child bride. Because of the difficulties in the family, my grandfather raised it and married my grandfather. Grandpa told me later that he was good to grandma because grandma’s family was very poor and suffered a lot, so after getting married, try to be nice to grandma. Grandma loves to sing and listen to drama, so grandpa will accompany her, grandma loves Beautiful, grandpa taught grandma to learn the good craftsmanship of first-hand tailoring, grandma is in good shape, and she makes cheongsam and all kinds of beautiful clothes by herself. At that time, materials were in short supply, and tailoring was envied by many people. grandmother.
Love is deep, and spoiling will also give rise to various problems
Grandma later developed the habit of drinking morning wine. Every day she woke up and asked her grandfather to heat up a pot of wine. After drinking it first, she got up to wash up. Soon after, her grandma burned her esophagus. , Got esophageal cancer, my grandfather spent all his wealth to save his grandmother, and even bought out his working years to treat his grandmother at one time. In the later period, the doctor declared that there was no hope of cure. In order to alleviate the pain of grandma, it was the first time I saw a young grandfather kneeling down to the doctor and begging the doctor, could he give grandma an injection, grandpa's thinking was advanced in that era, and that was the first time I listened to it. Speaking of this word, after he inquired about various channels and was told that it was impossible in China, he chose to spend the last days with his grandmother day and night.
Grandma was less than 50 years old when she died. Since then, the handsome and tall grandfather has not remarried, and then joined the funeral industry without hesitation...
I can't guess my grandpa's feelings, and he can't tell his mental journey like our younger generation. , Maybe he was forced to take care of his father and uncles due to the pressure of life, he didn't have so much time to sink, maybe in this industry he could feel death up close and fear life, maybe all emotions and sufferings were trivial besides living a good life at that time .
